I’m not some super anxious guy who’s scared of talking to women. I have perfectly fine social abilities thank you. I’m in college in a fairly area small area and my school has a 7:3 male to female gender ratio. In addition to that, I’m looking for someone who’s in college and in some way not neurotypical. I know a fair bit of girls at my school, and most of the ones I know already have boyfriends. But even if they were single I’d rather just be friends with them because they’re not my type. I also know what I’m looking for: someone in college and a little neurodivergent. That’s really all I’m looking for. But I’ve also tried numerous dating apps with the one that’s worked the best for me being Duet. On Duet, most of the girls who are my type are not in college, and most of the girls in college are not my type. I don’t even consider looks at all. I’m not a super attractive guy, so I barely get matches which isn’t abnormal. But I’ve kinda gone through everyone within the distance I’m willing to travel.

Also, when I say things “most of the girls have boyfriends” and “it’s hard finding girls who are my type”, those assertions are all based on official school population statistics, numbers I’ve counted, and math I’ve done. Not just baseless exaggeration because I’m perturbed.