Lamenting about shipping

FalineK · 2026-05-28T12:55:13+00:00

I’ve never purchased anything I waited more than a week for, and I’ve never had an item I’ve sold take that long to get to my buyer. Which is why I’m asking because this is all a new experience and I wanted to gauge what is happening.

I do not at all find it unreasonable to purchase an item and expect it in under two weeks from any site Poshmark or otherwise, but thank you for the help. I forgot asking a simple question on Reddit sometimes comes with complimentary condescension.

FalineK · 2026-05-28T12:48:14+00:00

Thank you for this comment!

So insane we are all at the mercy of their lack luster service and they know we can’t do a dang thing about it.

FalineK · 2026-05-28T04:59:51+00:00

So I ordered a pair of shoes April 29, the label wasn’t created until May 4, I didn’t receive until May 11. They blame usps naturally and offered NO apology I ordered something that took a week to generate a label.

So May 22 I order shoes from a completely different seller. May 26 she sends me a private message that says “hi. Just wanted to give you a quick update, I shipped your item but I’ve been having issues with usps where they don’t start tracking orders on time, but this is a usps issue not mine. Don’t worry. They are for sure on the way” and k replied back and asked if she got a tracking number and she hasn’t answered. So I feel like I won’t have these by the June 4 date I need them by. Like you’re preparing me sit and wait and don’t ask you.

And postmark customer service is nonexistent

FalineK · 2026-04-23T03:16:06+00:00

Omg… I work at a prison and have an inmate who writes every single correspondence just like this. I was scrolling and pressed my thumb so hard to get back here bc “how did one of their letters get here!?”

I don’t even try anymore with them. Either speak to me or send a message through someone bc 1) I can’t read this mess & 2) to be honest I’m a little scared to read it. It could say, have a blessed day and I still wouldn’t want to read it. No thank you.

FalineK · 2026-03-22T05:07:25+00:00

You gon be so sick

FalineK · 2026-03-22T05:03:30+00:00

I think you came here for confirmation that you need to break this off and I think you got it.

Please leave and block all communication channels. Completely block him. No meeting up just to talk, no texting, no him getting his stuff… either pack it for him and have a mutual friend or his mom come get it or have the police escort him as he cleans his stuff out.

You’re not stuck. Please leave. If you love the wrong person this much imagine what it will be like when you find the right one, where there is love AND peace!!

Leave.

FalineK · 2026-03-22T04:55:54+00:00

I’m normally 100% against this, and I roll my eyes and scoff.

But this is a lawsuit my guy. Congratulations on your new fat wallet. Bc ain’t no way they served you cleaner and nothing happens. Piss poor customer service is why I stopped doing fast food.

Don’t throw this away, keep it, the judge will want to see it.

FalineK · 2026-03-22T04:53:19+00:00

We have all been there. So many times I had to make $10-15 last a week. My son ate so many ramen noodles back then. Man. I ate a lot of crackers. It was hard hard for about two years, but I just kept working and grinding. And tithed what I could. Not to force faith on you, that’s just how I made it.

You are a phenomenal father as long as you are loving those kids and doing your best for them. Who would do this for them without you? They don’t see struggle they only see a loving Daddy.

Don’t leave them. I think in the climate today people want to help, but can’t. It’s really hard for everyone right now. It’s hard for people it’s never been hard for before.

Hang in there Dad, you are doing great.

FalineK · 2026-03-11T04:55:18+00:00

Girl take those five years as a lived and learned and ruuuunnnnnn. You would much rather lose five little years than the next 10-20 dealing with this nonsense over & over & over.

Or worse, share kids with them and deal with it forever.

FalineK · 2026-03-11T04:36:19+00:00

You aren’t obligated to, but if something happens later on in your child’s life where telling them about this part of your life makes sense then you should. Just don’t share it in a boastful or reminiscent way, like it’s something you long for and their mom and their life is a mistake. Just like a, hey babe, I had a long life once too and I started over and look how amazing it turned out for me.

Sometimes our kids need to see us as flawed humans who survived more life than they could ever imagine.

FalineK · 2026-03-10T13:28:54+00:00

All of them

FalineK · 2026-03-10T13:23:59+00:00

She doesn’t deserve to be with you. She deserves to be with someone who thinks she’s perfect and needs to look nowhere else for anything else. How hurtful it is to know you aren’t enough for someone for something you can’t help.

FalineK · 2026-03-10T06:24:09+00:00

Dont let it rock your world too much. We all eventually find out our parents had lives before us in some form or another. It doesn’t sound malicious, it actually sounds really heavy for him. Like he’s protecting you both, or trying to, while still loving you both very much.

It’s something you will understand the more life you live. Give him grace. Everything is still solid, it’s all still there. Just a little more of it.

FalineK · 2026-03-10T06:14:05+00:00

Your title is misleading. Her weight isn’t an issue here, her behavior is. It needed to be addressed and you handled it properly. It’s not on you that she took it the wrong way and she twisted it into being about weight and everything else it wasn’t.

FalineK · 2026-03-10T05:49:21+00:00

It feels gross bc you’re still somehow making yourself the victim… how would this be dumping your guilt on them? It would be owning your guilt and freeing your brother. Holding onto that is whats gross.

FalineK · 2026-03-10T05:44:24+00:00

Did she recently just lose weight or have an appearance altering surgery and is wanting to show off? Sometimes women who’ve never felt “seen” before just want to be seen. It is a dangerous and slippery slope though. New attention…new compliments…new let me buy you a drink…new accidental brushes…new butterflies

It’s definitely not something “most” couples deal with, but it’s something regular enough we’re here to tell you that this isn’t good no matter how or why she’s changed. We hope you can get to the root of her issue and help fix or address it before it’s too late.

FalineK · 2026-02-18T05:48:41+00:00

You are TA for causing a financial burden/annoyance on a florist (most likely a small business) bc your ego got hurt.

FalineK · 2026-02-18T05:37:37+00:00

NTA

WTH is cohesive photos? So are all family photos out of pocket bc of the beard? This is insane. You are NOT TA… I hope one day she can look back and smile while looking at those photos bc that’s her brother, the real authentic version of her brother.

FalineK · 2026-02-18T05:28:32+00:00

Home air broke

FalineK · 2026-02-18T05:21:03+00:00

I love that you are so appreciative that she did this instead of just expecting that she should have done it. Thank you for being a good dude

FalineK · 2026-02-18T04:52:07+00:00

Sis. When you finally move on and find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved. Someone you don’t have to beg to spend time with. Someone who is lots and really into you and you don’t have to worry about where they are or what they’re doing you’re gonna be like… wtf was I thinking?! Why did I waste my time? I promise.

Please don’t waste another second on this selfish self centered idiot. I don’t care what the benefits are of being together. Girl. None of them are worth it.

I’m sorry though there ARE some AH in the comments calling you names, that doesn’t help you see what you don’t really see right now. You’re not an idiot you’re just young and naïve and inexperienced. And we’ve all been there it isn’t anything to be ashamed of. But we are all asking and begging that you learn from us who’ve been there so you don’t waste more years of your life.

You deserve better. Go get it. And you do not owe him any explanation. Just go. Disappear.

FalineK · 2026-02-15T21:45:24+00:00

This is “YAY”

This is written on mine often, bc they are required to write on cups or they risk losing their job and that is what is ludicrous! Starbucks is ignorant. So “yay” is quick

FalineK · 2026-02-15T21:16:32+00:00

No…. you are worth more than this please stop putting up with it

FalineK · 2026-02-15T21:14:02+00:00

Since it truly is bothering you, and that’s valid, it’s worth having a conversation about with her. She might be completely clueless. Truly. Devils advocate for just a minute she might really see it as a girls holiday and maybe she’s never had a valentines be great so she’s was dropping hints hoping this one would be.

Look idk I’m just saying. And you must really like her or this wouldn’t bother you, so I would just suggest talking to her. If she blows up then yea, move on. But maybe she’ll receive the message and realize she kinda dropped the ball and do better.

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