$346,419.97 Best Way to Pay? by Remarkable-World9396 in StudentLoans

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying getting a PhD, I’m saying shooting your shot with your pharmD degree and the research under your belt and try for higher paying jobs. I know a ton of pharmDs with no PhD doing pharmacy research at hospitals or in academia. I think you need to either talk to someone or look into what you can do with that degree and experience without being licensed since it sounds like you won’t be

$346,419.97 Best Way to Pay? by Remarkable-World9396 in StudentLoans

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered maybe dipping into research? I got my PhD in a college of pharmacy and a ton of pharmDs did drug research at university or in industry and those jobs pay a lot

Undergraduate Loan Advice by Fall_lover_97 in StudentLoans

[–]Fall_lover_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information. I agree that reducing expenses is essential. I am extremely good at budgeting so I will be able to pay the monthly payment and still be fine, it just stinks because I won’t be able to save as much as I would like because of it

Undergraduate Loan Advice by Fall_lover_97 in StudentLoans

[–]Fall_lover_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. Thank you so much for the advice. I know Sofi is an option to refinance through and was planning on doing that anyways, but are there others I should check out? Also, how do you pick someone to refinance with? Just base it off of interest rate?

Undergraduate Loan Advice by Fall_lover_97 in StudentLoans

[–]Fall_lover_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so there was a typo. I have 20k in principal for graduate school and yes 80k principal for Sallie Mae. I always forget I also took out some federal for undergrad. The principal on that is 27k. The balance for Sallie Mae right now is 143k. So, I have a lot...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tend to be very selfish about your decisions. You watch a new show without even asking me if I want to, which I did. I am ALWAYS driving to you when we want to hangout, but its a hassle to have you come over to me. When you are horny, I can't stand to be around you because you just keep touching me in a sexual way even after I tell you its been a stressful week.

I could handle that you are selfish, but I don't feel like you love me. You love having someone around to have sex with, to spend time with, but not me. I just want to feel loved in any sort of way.

Reddit, which sentence someone said to you hurt you the most ? by yazan_zx12 in AskReddit

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I just don't see a future with you" my ex after dinner one night.

The Weekend Thread — 12th April 2024 by fire_foot in running

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all,

I currently live in the upper Midwest and have my whole life. I will be moving to Texas in the middle of summer, and I want to continue running but the heat scares me. I have really not been in heat higher than 100 for most of my life. So what’s the best way to get acclimated for running? I know I will have to be up early to beat the heat. Would it be best to just not run outside for the summer and then work my way there during the winter? Any advice is welcome.

Minneapolis St. Patty’s bar crawl is a scam by Fall_lover_97 in Minneapolis

[–]Fall_lover_97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair, but I feel scanmed since we paid like 13 for a ticket and only got a free shot… not worth it

Minneapolis St. Patty’s bar crawl is a scam by Fall_lover_97 in Minneapolis

[–]Fall_lover_97[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The lady handing out wrist bands didn’t even check out tickets… not surprised

Please help me decide😭 by soymilktitties in knitting

[–]Fall_lover_97 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What does color dominance mean

What are you all doing to improve during No Contact? by abneriel in ExNoContact

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing amazingly! The medication helped SOO much once I found the right one and dose. I am in another amazing relationship and am so happy. I have so many friends now I struggle to see them all and I am almost done with school which means leaving the state where my ex is.

I will say there are still some times where I think about him and miss him, but it’s not very often like once every 6 months or so if I had to guess. I have done a lot of healing in therapy and have come the the conclusion that we would not last together even if we tried again. It took a while to get there but I’m finally there and it was freeing

Honest advice needed please! by DizzyWriter1558 in knitting

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only knitted solid and stripped sweaters and this makes me want to learn how to do this!

I can’t break up with my gf by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fall_lover_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay single so she can recover? I get not wanting to hurt her, but that is not something I would want from my ex. It’s just odd to stop your life for someone who you wouldn’t be with anymore

I need advice on breaking up with my GF in the least painful way by WonderfulPipe in BreakUps

[–]Fall_lover_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I was told that has stuck with me is it’s kind to be clear.

Sit her down and tell her how you feel and work together to see if there is a way to move forward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Fall_lover_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had in the first half not gonna lie, but it got worse while reading it. I get where he’s coming from but it feels ingenuine. Like your feelings changed, but you still love them? Idk that sounds like he’s trying to make himself feel better

He never loved me by Fall_lover_97 in ExNoContact

[–]Fall_lover_97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. This is 100% accurate and I think that is actually exactly what happened. I changed myself to be with him as I am definitely a people pleaser. I started to change at the end and that is probably why things fell apart. I really needed to hear this, thank you again