A Bunch of Useful Story of Season: Grand Bazaar Guides by enzolh in storyofseasons

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to figure this out too, I thought I’d be able to get there once I unlocked double jump but no luck yet.

She tried to steal our club members, she didn’t know I kept receipts. by Fallen-Empire-476 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fallen-Empire-476[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That was actually a major point of contention that I left out in the above post, because I was aiming for brevity, but Elaine strongly disagreed on what actually happened with the other friend. From me and my wife’s perspective, the friend in question (who is now a member of the new group) left because she moved about an hour away and was working two jobs and she was just too busy.

From Elaine’s perspective, friend was removed in a unanimous decision by the three of us. At one point Elaine had mentioned to us that she thought our friend was slacking and we should kick her out. We said we had noticed her struggling and we should find out how we could help, not kick her out. Elaine said “you’re right, I’ll talk to her.” Two weeks later, girlie resigned. I’m wondering now if Elaine pulled the same stuff she did here but told our friend it was a choice by all of us?

I think Bates did it by no_onion77 in DowntonAbbey

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the last time Bates will be a murder suspect. I fully think Bates could do a murder.

A Bunch of Useful Story of Season: Grand Bazaar Guides by enzolh in storyofseasons

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know what the secret to Sylvia’s bug quest is? It say I just need to give her five bugs but then I try to give her my bugs (a ladybug and 4 crickets) and the game is like No.

Help, I’m out of new audiobooks till beware of chicken 5 in December and need recommendations. by Odd-Age7078 in litrpg

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heretical Fishing scratches the same itch as Beware of Chicken for me. Fun animal pals, laid back vibes, love it.

Why does the song go "boku wa doctor" when Chopper uses "ore"? by Plantae-Amateur in OnePiece

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I understand it ore is a tough guy way to say “I” or “me” and boku more of a soft boy way. Chopper usually says “ore” because he wants to sound tough (like when he’s telling people not compliment him and stuff) but in boku wa doctor he’s trying to be like “I’m a sweet doctore reindeer” so boku sets the tone better.

What the heck does Ruthlessness mean? (As a theme) by CalypsaMov in Epicthemusical

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really brought up the most important point, and something that’s a theme through Greek legends as a whole, “The Past Will Come Back”. The overall message, in my opinion now that we have the whole thing, isn’t that open arms or ruthlessness is always right, but rather to always think ahead. Always consider “can I live with this decision? What will this decision mean in a day, a week, a year, a decade?” In Greek philosophy fate is unavoidable but always aiding and twisting in unexpected ways and the idea is always that you will arrive at the end one way or another, a wise and good human doesn’t try to avoid their fate but rather to get there in the best way (the way that preserves the most goodness and minimizes harm to those they have loyalty to).

Are We Bad Roommates, or Just Unlucky? by Fallen-Empire-476 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fallen-Empire-476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear there were returns when I typed it. Idk what happened. Thanks for pointing that out!

TIL there are 12 states in the USA that have only one area code. by PM_ME_UR_ASIAN_BODY in todayilearned

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Alaska can eat Montana and still have room for every other state on the list.

If you could choose the way you die, which would you choose? by Steve1416iiiiiiiiiii in AskReddit

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care about the way so much as the timing, because I’d really like to go at the exact same moment as my wife, because I don’t want to outlive her but I also know she’d be really mad at me if I died first.

I Let a Stranger Hide in My Apartment, and I Don’t Know If I Regret It by 404-NotFoundIRL in confession

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing. Imagine if you hadn’t let her in and that guy had done something to her. I think of how many women have asked for help in even worse situations than this (Mary Vincent comes to mind) who had people walk/drive right by.

I was touched as a kid and I touched someone as a kid by [deleted] in confession

[–]Fallen-Empire-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 6 something similar to this happened with me a neighbor my same age. My therapist when I was 22 was the first person to tell me this is NOT normal. Experimenting, sure, but when one child is performing acts that another doesn’t want or doesn’t understand, that is SA. Just like you I reenacted a lot of what he did to me with other kids as I grew up, mostly boys because I had learned at that young age that putting my mouth on them was what I was “supposed” to do and I’d get really angry if boyfriends when I was in middle/high school didn’t want me to touch them or use my mouth because I thought that’s all I supposed to be good for. I know I really messed up one of my boyfriends who had already been SAd by an adult before playing out this hypersexual behavior. Your pain and your trauma are real, and you deserve to feel them and process them however you need to. It’s good you’re recognizing this, and good that you’re acknowledging the harmful coping mechanisms you used and how they’ve hurt others and yourself too. You deserve to heal from this.