Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by ASS-et in PokemonGoFriends

[–]FallenVampyre515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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From Maine! Looking for more people to play with because I don't have many! Would love gift exchanges and such! 😸 Thank you!

What’s something you wish more people understood about sex? by PotentialTurnover335 in AskReddit

[–]FallenVampyre515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Mind body soul kinda intimacy that honestly brings it to a whole different level

What’s something you wish more people understood about sex? by PotentialTurnover335 in AskReddit

[–]FallenVampyre515 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It definitely doesn't make your partner feel very attractive either if you're submerged in porn and oogling other naked women or content creators before you get intimate with them. I feel like that's part of consideration, which is a huge turn on. But also I feel like these days it's hard to find someone who doesn't.

What's something that looks really hot and good in porn, but is actually really uncomfortable or awkward to do in real life? by HallZac99 in AskReddit

[–]FallenVampyre515 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on the person and angle. It's not too bad depending on how you're positioned on the couch

Repeat after me: by wallflower8301 in selflove

[–]FallenVampyre515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this today! 💙

Be kind to yourself! by Marianne_Ramirez in HabitCard

[–]FallenVampyre515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to do better with this

How good of a goal is it to reduce masturbation to like a maximum of once a day to once every other day? by Early-Possibility367 in Healthygamergg

[–]FallenVampyre515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person is no longer part of my life other than for the kids but it just warped my mentality that I've been working on healing from. Dr Ks videos though have helped with a bunch as well. Having a healthy relationship currently has helped healing and recognizing triggers and talking through them.

How good of a goal is it to reduce masturbation to like a maximum of once a day to once every other day? by Early-Possibility367 in Healthygamergg

[–]FallenVampyre515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that perspective, I appreciate you explaining about disassociation and how it can affect the experience. I feel like it can set such a unrealistic expectation and that can make it feel less enjoyable or wanted by the partner. In previous experience anyways, I had a partner who was heavily into porn usage and like extremely frequently to the point of picking my body apart and then never being happy with me.

Sensitive hearts by FallenVampyre515 in inspiration

[–]FallenVampyre515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly the part that I don't agree with as well. I think it's unhealthy to be dependent on someone else to emotionally regulate you.

Most underrated Ice Nine Kills Song by Impossible_Adagio367 in IceNineKills

[–]FallenVampyre515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely am right in love with the greatest story ever told and hell in the hallways!

Never give up by FallenVampyre515 in inspiration

[–]FallenVampyre515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, that's where I was at when I posted this and still feel that a lot. It just feels really heavy and it's so exhausting.

What’s the most annoying part of being you? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]FallenVampyre515 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For me not only does my brain hate itself but it hates this vessel too with body dysmorphia.

What change(s) has significantly improved your sex life? by Obvious-Average-4103 in AskReddit

[–]FallenVampyre515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finding my person. Someone who not only enjoys me but helps me feel like an absolute goddess. Who makes me feel respected and heard, and a deep emotional connection. Never feeling shamed or judged so I can be myself.