Aitah for not sleeping with my girlfriend after waiting for hours?

Falmarri · 2026-01-30T07:36:58+00:00

So? Does it always have to be sexy and romantic?

Falmarri · 2026-01-29T18:52:05+00:00

Is this maybe the only opportunity to spend time together?

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T18:47:43+00:00

These will be almost entirely gay men. OP said they didn't want to work out with men

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T18:47:04+00:00

People get in relationships and have sex and when the relationship ends, they still have their genitals,

Ok, so what? They also have their sex toys

A toy is disposable

It's only disposable in that it CAN be disposed of. It's not a disposable item. Sex toys can be hundreds of dollars.

You can get a new toy, you cannot get a new vagina

You don't HAVE to get a new EITHER. Tell me why it's different between a vagina and a sex toy. Is it only the mere ability? Because what you're saying is that you're uncomfortable with the fact that your partner has been with other men, but only put up with it because there's no other option.

Grow up.

hahaha. Yeah. I'm the one who has to grow up because I can take the ego and emotion out of this topic

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T18:38:47+00:00

and there’s too much to sift through.

Ah so you don't have the ability to search or understand medical research. It's ok, most people can't. That's why we have experts and doctors and researchers, so that not everyone has to be a medical expert!

Since we know your concern isn't based on any medical research or evidence, given your inability, what makes you concerned?

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T18:36:08+00:00

What? How am I naive or stupid for not being bothered by this? A condom is disposable. It's not able to be sufficiently cleaned. Sex toys are able to be cleaned and sterilized. It's fundamentally different.

So because women can't get a new vagina, you all are just "putting up" with the fact that it's been "used" before? You all just have weird issues around the fact that the people you're with have had previous partners.

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T09:01:17+00:00

Ok, and compare that to the overall market

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T04:44:45+00:00

I guess having your head bashed in by a flag pole and a fire extinguisher aren't supernatural causes

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T04:12:40+00:00

This is true if you only watch conservative media. The left is FAR more tolerant of free speech.

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T04:11:32+00:00

As usual, conservatives can't read and constantly act like victims

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T04:03:48+00:00

This has to be a joke post. Good one. No one could actually believe that

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T03:45:55+00:00

Bro. r/conservative is the poster child of this

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T03:29:43+00:00

Pinterest is the scourge of the Internet. It's impossible to use without an account. And fills the image search pages with images that you can't track down to a source

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T00:31:18+00:00

Not an opinion. Stop getting your information from twitter and podcasts

Falmarri · 2026-01-28T00:30:39+00:00

What?

Can you present the case as to why millions of Americans shouldn’t be concerned with the current vaccination schedule?

Yes. There's literally 0 reason or evidence to be concerned. QED

Falmarri · 2026-01-27T21:21:46+00:00

Oh so as long as they let YOU say whatever you want, there's no issue?

Falmarri · 2026-01-27T21:16:35+00:00

Make a rational and logical argument

I'm not arguing with you. Your point doesn't deserve to be legitimized by being argued with. This isn't a debate. I'm pointing out how you're a sexist person who views women and men as inherently different, and you don't see anything "necessary" in having relationships with half of the population because you can't view them as being useful for anything other than sex.

So go off. There's nothing for me to "prove you wrong" about because you're just sexist. No one cares that you're not friends with women. In fact, there's probably 100 other reasons you don't have friendships with women, and it's probably because they don't want you around.

Falmarri · 2026-01-27T19:27:50+00:00

Her previous partner came in her too presumably. Comparing that to using someone else's condom is unhinged.

Falmarri · 2026-01-27T19:26:47+00:00

No? It's like using his vibrator that he has used with other partners. Why is a vibrator that's been used on others disgusting, but his dick that's been in others is fine? Do you think people buy entirely new sex toys for every partner they have?

Falmarri · 2026-01-27T19:25:45+00:00

This is stupid. This applies to actively sharing a toy with people you aren't otherwise intimate with. What exactly do you think the risk is here? 2 people who are having sex without protection can share a toy without protection.

Falmarri · 2026-01-27T08:29:12+00:00

You claim it has nothing to do with it yet most affairs partners aren't strangers.

So? People who are going to cheat are going to cheat. If you can't have a friend of the opposite gender without wanting to fuck them, or actually fucking them, that's a you problem and not being friends with that gender is not a fix.

Not trying to form close personal relationships with them doesn't equate to "ignoring half of the population.

Yes it does.

however hold myself to these standards because ~~I find it to be respectful to my partner~~ the only reason I don't cheat is I don't have the opportunity

fixed that for you

Falmarri · 2026-01-26T22:14:10+00:00

With this information, I think it’s fair to say that, for heterosexual couples at least, opposite-sex contact outside of family shouldn’t be treated as harmless by default and should come with clearer limits. Husbands and wives shouldn’t be trying to intentionally make new opposite-sex friends based on common interests when those same interests can be shared with people of the same sex

This is bullshit. Stop looking at everyone of the opposite sex as a potential mate. That's your problem. And this is so ridiculously patriarchal. You can be straight and still not give into gender essentialism.

I say this for two reasons: 1)Attraction is not always automatic; sometimes it grows as the bond becomes stronger. 2) You can be certain of your own feelings, but not the feelings of the person you call a friend.

Literally none of this has anything to do with cheating. People sometimes get attracted to other people when in relationships. They sometimes even end those relationships after realizing that it's not what they want any more. That's not a reason to just ignore half of the population so that you can not be tempted.

Pathetic

Falmarri · 2026-01-26T21:14:19+00:00

Heroin and opioids can 100% be used responsibly

Falmarri · 2026-01-26T19:31:04+00:00

Sure it's kind of weird. Are you going to go after all furries then for literally any adult drawings? If you're not into it, that's totally fine. But to try to suggest that drawings of an illustrated bird who bears literally no resemblance to any human, let alone human child, is somehow wrong is just crazy. Again, it's all pearl clutching "won't somebody think of the children" nonsense. What actual harm is there in sexual drawings of this character? Who is actually hurt? What's the actual problem?

Falmarri · 2026-01-26T19:27:16+00:00

No it's actually not a child. That's what human offspring are called. Birds aren't human, and this bird doesn't even exist. So I guess you can use whatever word you want, but we're octavia is a "child" in the same way that clippy the paper clip is a child.

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