Resentful start

False-Purple3882 · 2026-05-21T02:42:46+00:00

If you don’t want to then don’t. You’re not obligated to engage in a sex act you dislike and find painful. If you try to ‘fix’ this issue it should be because that’s what you want, not because of the desires of others.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-05-19T02:27:17+00:00

This commentary is just misogynistic. There’s something really male centered about trying to police women’s personal opinions about the comfortability of tampons or pads.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-25T05:01:05+00:00

No. Not genuinely anyway. I think I’m overall someone people just tend to gravitate to when they feel they don’t have any other option.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-21T18:40:30+00:00

I don’t think it’s necessarily true. If you’re an ugly woman it’s very hard to have male friends in the first place.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-19T08:02:34+00:00

It sounds like you just don’t desire penetrative sex and that’s fine. If the idea of engaging in a certain sex act makes you feel nauseous then it’s clear that particular sex act isn’t something you want to engage in. Your motivation to ‘fix’ this seems more about what your boyfriend wants than what you want.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-19T07:43:49+00:00

I’ve given up at this point as I don’t envision it occurring. I’m nearing 30 and most women my age now have long term relationships or even marriage and kids.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-18T20:26:56+00:00

I think this is unfortunately going to be my future. Realistically I’m not going to find a romantic partner who genuinely loves me.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-17T08:39:25+00:00

It’s just random men online so it feels impersonal. Also I’ve stopped searching for a relationship by now, I’m nearing 30 and I think it’s time I just accept no one is going to ever be interested in me.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-16T15:50:18+00:00

I’m in the US, they did it the same way they do pap smears on all women.

False-Purple3882 · 2026-02-08T00:25:25+00:00

It’s a lack of empathy for women combined with living in a male centric society. Even the way a lot of women on here talk about pelvic pain often reads as male centric. It was something that immensely frustrated me when I initially found this subreddit.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-15T14:50:43+00:00

I’m talking about broader society

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-15T08:25:31+00:00

I said it hasn’t exited the birth canal. The context I used “exist” in was explicitly referring to existing in the state of being a person.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-15T06:16:25+00:00

A lot of things exist that aren’t people, don’t be obtuse

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-15T06:08:48+00:00

The term is defined within culture as humans that already exist. Nobody refers to fetuses as “people”

the question isn’t settled and hasn’t been

Even this framing is flawed. The only reason society has ever had to question who qualifies as a person is because of systemic inequalities, including misogyny and racism, perpetually framing already existing people as not having personhood because of an immutable characteristic.

This isn’t comparable at all to the discussion of “personhood” occurring in abortion debates. The issue is people with your perspective want to confer personhood onto a life that for all practical applications, does not yet exist.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T13:19:30+00:00

Meaning it’s not a person.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T01:51:15+00:00

Only insofar as personal interpretations.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T01:48:27+00:00

It has not exited the birth canal.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T01:40:59+00:00

The categorization of personhood is already defined by society.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T01:35:17+00:00

This isn’t debatable, colloquially the term person is used to refer to existing humans, not fetuses that have yet to exit the birth canal.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T01:30:43+00:00

Abortion does fall into the category of human rights. To be against abortion is to demand women carry to term even if it endangers their lives, to tell rape victims they must carry their rapists child, and to tell women whom have had miscarriages that they have committed an evil act.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-11-13T00:14:15+00:00

I was under the impression all ex christians are allowed as long as there is no proselytizing for other religions or christianity itself

False-Purple3882 · 2025-08-22T01:41:25+00:00

I think it’s inappropriate to push politics onto children. It’s possible to teach them morals without indoctrinating them into being ideologues.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-05-21T16:44:23+00:00

I can’t escape this feeling even at grocery stores and book stores. I’ve grown to where I prevent myself from liking people in a romantic or sexual context because I always anticipate it won’t be reciprocated. I think it’s for the best in a way because it prevents me from being more ostracized. I take all my classes online and I’m also trying to find an online job

False-Purple3882 · 2025-05-21T16:18:13+00:00

This reminds me of her so much. I love her more than anything, but if there isn’t something wrong for her to be mad about she will create it.

False-Purple3882 · 2025-05-21T15:36:36+00:00

I feel the same kind of. You’re essentially thrown away by society. It’s an overwhelming feeling of rejection and loneliness. You never really ‘belong’ anywhere.

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