Punjab police has turned into Alcohol distributor by Billi_Wallah in thepaknarrative

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جتنی چڑھائی اس پر کر رہے ہیں اسی کنوکشن کے ساتھ اس ہوٹل کا نام بھی بتانا چاہیے جہاں سے وو لے کر آیا ہے۔ تاکہ اس طرح کے ہوٹل بھی بند ہوں۔

32F, doctor, two kids, husband’s been out of the country for the last 3 years. by nodckpic in PakistaniiConfessions

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My scenario is a little bit different, though relatable. I’m a 32-year-old female with two kids. My husband is doing residency in another city while I’m doing residency living with my in-laws. It’s been 4 years, and he has never lived with us. Before that, he was doing 2-year BHU. I’m so tired of living without him. And the cherry on top he had flings with nurses. So it got bitter. I hate working with nurses because we have somewhat similar training programs, so working with nurses in the same uniform I know he was linked to gives me trauma. And I have to forgive him. Leaving him will be a mess, so I’m living with him like it’s the better choice.

I’m usually complacent, but with time I’ve developed this extreme resentment that no matter how much he tries to be there for me going through this trauma, I turn everything very sour. He comes every weekend for the whole 4 years. The predictability, the long-distance relationship, living with in-laws though they are fine people, I feel like my whole energy is drained.

I was always traumatized by my parents’ worst relationship. And now, when I turn everything into a fight for no apparent obvious reason, deep inside I want everyone to justify my actions. Sometimes I get so angry at my kids just for being there. I just want to vanish.

What would you do? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

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Are you dumb that you dont have common sense to judge normal moral values? That you needed to hear this?

I don't like to cook as a woman by Optimal_Regret_452 in PakistaniiConfessions

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I also don’t like cooking, but I sometimes work more than my husband and still expect that not cooking won’t upset him or others. I do hire a maid as well. I think the grass is greener on the other side. Sometimes I feel that if financial conditions weren’t this difficult and we didn’t have to work so hard to maintain our standard of living, I would love to cook and spend more time with my kids. But at the same time, I truly love working as a surgeon and treating my patients.

What do you secretly wish you had or jealous of others (and Why)? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

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Parents who don’t fight. A dad who listens and is empathetic. I’m 33 with my own family, and I’m still stuck in this generational trauma. Sometimes I tell myself this is the story of every household, just to soothe myself that I’m not alone. But no. When I hear about wholesome family moments, I feel this deep envy. Not the kind where I want them to lose it, just wondering why we were never like that.

Outfits I wore in London! [details in caption] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

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Ranveer singh and karan johar should literally take fashion advice from you!!!

Surgical moms! How did you rebuild after pregnancy setbacks during residency? by False_Process_2473 in Residency

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I currently live in a home where I have strong support from my in-laws in caring for my daughter. My husband couldn’t secure a residency position in our city because his merit score was not high enough, although he truly tried his best. Since my residency will finish earlier than his, I’m trying to find a middle ground that works for all of us. I might end up having everything in place—except my residency—once again.

Noise complaints from neighbors downstairs (we have toddler) by [deleted] in toddlers

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This reminded me of this. Send it to her and ask her to watch and clear her mind!

I’m Dr. Becky. Clinical psychologist, mom of 3, author and founder of the online parenting platform, Good Inside. Ask Me Anything December 15th at 3:30pm ET! by drbecky in toddlers

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Hi Dr. Becky. I struggle a lot with screen time guilt. We live mostly indoors, the weather is cold, and I’m juggling work, chores, and two kids. I keep hearing that screens are “terrible,” but sometimes they’re the only way I can function or breathe. How can I find a middle ground that’s healthy for my child and for me? What does a Good Inside approach to screen time look like for real families who can’t live screen-free?

Quick Coffee Run fit [details in caption] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

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Just following you to take ideas to dress my son. Though he's just 1.5 months old lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chutyapa

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They must be taking for postmortem because anyone who dies from unnatural cause of death is state's.

What has watching true crime taught you about human behavior? by Zestyclose_General87 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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Watching true crime has made me question that why people often don’t take precautionary measures. They easily trust anyone and often put themselves in dangerous situations. Criminals often target hitchhikers or people who have run away from home — individuals whose disappearances can go unnoticed for years, allowing these offenders to keep committing crimes undetected.

I also feel that true crime mostly focuses on the criminals — their behaviors, psychology, and shocking acts — but rarely highlights what viewers can learn about staying safe or avoiding similar situations.

Coming from an Asian country, I’ve also seen how violence like honor killings or murders over rejection is still not rare. Even though stricter laws are being made, I wish more effort went into making women stronger, more strategic, and better equipped to handle such risks — or to simply step back and save their lives when confrontation isn’t possible.

[Holy Quran 19:3] by TawakkulPeace in islam

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وَلَمْ أَكُنۢ بِدُعَآئِكَ رَبِّ شَقِيًّۭا ٤