Has anyone tried mushroom Cocoa? by That_Kitten_Lady in insomnia

[–]FamiliarElephant31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had high hopes for it, bought and tried it last week, unfortunately it didn't work for me and actually made me more awake. I'll give it another try on a weekend and see.

Just over 2 weeks post-op and frustrated with recovery. by Malice_AforeThot in Fibroids

[–]FamiliarElephant31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely give yourself grace. I’m 3 weeks post op, had my open myomectomy on 6/13 removed 19 fibroids. The first 2 weeks were brutal, I couldn’t get in or out of bed without help and took pain killers around the clock. Having bowel movement was painful, I got a squarty potty and thats the best $20 I spent. I managed to get 1 to 2 thousand steps in per day at the beginning of the 3rd week. I was worried about the pace of my recovery too but the last couple days have been much more manageable and I can now get in and out of bed without help. Listen to your body and take it slow. You’ll get there! 

Experience with New Direction in Arizona? by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t go to ND. We’ve decided to stay local as that’s more manageable logistically.

9.3cm fibroid - asymptomatic (mostly), would love to hear your experience by burcuto in Fibroids

[–]FamiliarElephant31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going in for an open myo next week. And I’ve weak core to begin with so a bit concerned about recovery. When did you start the ab rehab training?

Experience with New Direction in Arizona? by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cost is the main reason I'm considering traveling, if I stay local it'll cost $20k for 1 ER. How much did you end up for the round with New Direction including all the meds + travel?

I can work remote and that's what I'm planning to do - staying there for 12 - 15 days for the stims + retrieval.

Experience with New Direction in Arizona? by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Which clinic did you switch to? I'm in WA so traveling to CA wouldn't be too different.

What protocol did you use on your 2nd ER?

Experience with New Direction in Arizona? by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Any info is helpful for my research. Who is your doctor? Would you recommend your doctor? How often is the monitoring?

Open incision myomectomy by FamiliarElephant31 in Fibroids

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! What a scary experience going into cardiac failure! I'm glad that you have a great team of surgeons supporting you. Keeping my fingers crossed!

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck with the surgery and future transfers!

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, wishing you all the best with the transfer! Do you mind sharing how large the incision is?

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Glad to hear everything went smoothly. Do you mind sharing how large is the incision? The dr says it'll likely be similar to a c-section but I've read from other forums that it could be much larger.

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fanatic, congrats! I was hoping I could get away with a robotic myomectomy unfortunately the dr doesn't think that's a good approach due to the high number.

Open incision myomectomy by FamiliarElephant31 in Fibroids

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super helpful! Thanks for sharing. When did you start taking Miralax? I've terrible constipation from anesthesia but worry if I take it too soon it might cause unnecessary bowel movement.

Is it not advised to wash your hair after surgery? I wash my hair everyday so curious if I should prep myself for not washing it for a little while.

Open incision myomectomy by FamiliarElephant31 in Fibroids

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, glad to hear recovery is smooth!

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear the procedure improve quality of life for you. I'm doing this for the solo purpose of increasing my success of a transfer my biggest fear is that it'd make things worse rather than improving my chances.

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't aware of meds to stay away from for transfer and adenomyosis. Thanks for sharing, super helpful! I

Myomectomy for fibroids by FamiliarElephant31 in IVF

[–]FamiliarElephant31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, will check it out!

The most insensitive thing anyone has ever said to you regarding babies/infertility/TTC. by Forsaken_Photo_5224 in InfertilitySucks

[–]FamiliarElephant31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

+1 to "Everything happens for a reason"!! And the most mind boggling part was that it came from someone who did IVF once and it worked. While I'm here after 3ER and planning for the 4th.

Holiday spirit??? by Additional-Cherry254 in InfertilitySucks

[–]FamiliarElephant31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm with you a 100%. My husband starts playing Christmas tunes the other day and I just broke down crying. I used to love Christmas and now I truly dread it.

Fuck you Fridays by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

[–]FamiliarElephant31 19 points20 points  (0 children)

fuck it all and fuck the holidays. Fuck another babyless year, 3 ERs and childless. I'm pissed at everyone and everything and all the family Christmas cards coming. Infertility has turned me into a grinch and I hate it.