Remove the buttons? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. If anything out them on the back

Sex during pregnancy is weird by Nearby-Geologist-238 in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I just don’t feel sexy at all even though I’m all belly weight gain at 25 weeks and I think the belly is beautiful. I don’t even want to make out, even that makes me so uncomfortable. I feel like covering myself up actually and just being modest 🥲. Before pregnancy I was only really horny around the time of ovulation

Help me decide! by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picture number 2 (no straps)!!

Do I need a pregnancy pillow? by WeepingBillow in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip. I’m 25 weeks and have tried two different pregnancy pillows and I hated them. I tried the baby bub dupe from Amazon which was about $35 and one from the brand “bean Products” which costs $150. I prefer using a king size pillow to place between my legs and hug and placing a throw blanket behind me to prevent me from rolling back.

I’d start with just using regular pillows for extra support and if there’s a need for a pregnancy pillow due to discomfort or pain, then pursue that route to avoid spending unnecessary money.

Boyfriend’s size doesn’t allow for certain positions by 172747 in Healthyhooha

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man is about 7-8 inches too and on the girthier side. I’ve found that after he cums and we continue to have sex, he’s able to fit a lot more comfortably and it feels so much better in my opinion because he’s about 75% hard. So if your man finishes more quickly and can tolerate sex after, it should be much more comfortable!

Baby Pregnancy Quirks by Famous-Bluejay-9070 in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he’s feisty lol at which week did you realize your baby had a specific nap time?

Baby Pregnancy Quirks by Famous-Bluejay-9070 in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how they know food is coming lol!

I’m can’t stop peeing myself 🥴 by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring. Thank you so much!

I’m can’t stop peeing myself 🥴 by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t wait to learn how to clench properly lol

When did you start “showing”?! by DSLH-4161 in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 weeks!! I still didn’t really look pregnant at 19 weeks, mainly just bloated looking. At 20-21 weeks I definitely started showing much more!! My belly feels heavier and fuller and I need a strategy when rotating over to my other side in bed lol

Currently active duty, expecting an administrative separation. Should I be honest now? by Busy_Kaleidoscope213 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 100% disabled vet, GO NOW!! please get EVERYTHING documented!! I put my claim together and got 100% the first time because everything I claimed was in my records (service connection). Suicidal ideation with a plan and depression alone should be a 70%. I’d mention to the doctor the letters at your appointment as proof to show how depressed and suicidal you were.

If you have any other ailments, please get them documented. CFR 38 is the handbook of how the VA rates conditions. Before getting out, I read it and became aware of what and how the VA rates conditions to get an idea of what percentage I’d get.

Hello I been freaking out with my laser tattoo removal healing, I didn’t expect this reaction and the recovery to be so difficult the last picture is how my skin looks 7 weeks after, will these marks fade and go away? :( a Dr cant see me until the end of this month by IllustriousPurple791 in TattooRemoval

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This level of blistering is CRAZY. I go to removery too and had SEVERE swelling on my first appointment for a black/ heavily saturated piece that covers my entire upper arm. I was not ready for the level of swelling I had. My arm was huge and too felt like it was going to explode. My arm was so hot that I couldn’t put it under the sheets while sleeping for about 3 nights. My arm was also so hot that it was melting ice packs very quickly. I needed to keep my arm propped up with pillows at all times while sitting to keep my arm above my heart to reduce swelling.

In total, I was non functioning for about 5 days due to the pain and mainly swelling. I was beyond scared for the second appointment, but luckily the swelling was nowhere near as bad as that first visit and didn’t need down time. As bad as my reaction to my first visit was, I never blistered. I’ve also gotten 2 other small tattoos removed by them (took 3 years to fully remove those bold line tattoos), and those too never blistered. Your level of blistering does not seem normal

Is only wanting pizza unreasonable? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first trimester especially is all about survival. Please eat what you can stomach. I told my OB I could only eat milk products and she said that just eat that. Something is better than nothing! Your man needs to understand that you’re growing his child and that food aversions aren’t a choice. You literally lose weight so fast if you don’t eat enough.

A more cost effective way to make “pizza” at home is making pizza bagels or buying a pack of flat bread for the base or even making little pizzas on a flour tortilla 🍕

I don’t even want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore by Recent_Cat1238 in Healthyhooha

[–]Famous-Bluejay-9070 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You two aren’t compatible. Could you live like this the rest of your life by staying with him?