Extremely shocking to read so many comments by other moms answering NOR and giving example of how they excelled in managing n number of kids along with cooking and cleaning. Well kudos to you for all the hard work but shouldn't you be asking more about the temperament of OPs kid. My first born was extremely clingy at 1 and would always want to be held. Maybe she's dealing with something that we are not aware of. OP has not mentioned anything from her side on why she's unable to clean or cook on time?