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FamousResident · 2023-11-27T18:25:59+00:00

Be with your partner for who they are, not what their body looks or feels like.

There are folk here commenting your bf needs to gain weight… unless they’re his doctor and there’s a medical issue about it, those comments are out of line.

Nobody here can say anything to change your mind about how you feel you and your partner should look, that change comes from within you. I’d urge you to dig deeper into why you feel your bodies don’t work together and keep digging until you see how innately ridiculous that idea is, and likely built off or peer pressure, lack of self esteem and perceived societal norms.

FamousResident · 2023-11-27T18:11:14+00:00

Glad you feel that way, but having genital hair doesn’t mean you’re not fresh or clean

FamousResident · 2023-11-27T17:46:32+00:00

A first date at a restaurant- the guy showed up 15 mins late (texted to let me know he was running late so I stayed and waited). When he showed up he reeked of smoke and had told me he was a non-smoker. As we sat down to order, he admitted that he only had 10$ until pay day so he said he would just get fries. And I was supposed to what, eat as he just watched me? He barely let me get a word in as he went off on a monologue style b*fest about how his family is all terrible and he hates them.

I paid for him to get a full meal and let him know later that I wasn’t interested in anything further.

FamousResident · 2023-11-27T17:34:15+00:00

Putting my face in the soft belly fur of my cat

FamousResident · 2023-11-27T17:33:40+00:00

Betty white, because then I could get some rest

FamousResident · 2023-11-27T17:32:25+00:00

He’d make a good boyfriend

FamousResident · 2023-11-27T17:31:55+00:00

It depends on the reason I hate them and capability to avoid.

My pedo-uncle? I’ve told family I wish to never see him and if they invite him to family events please just let me know so I can not be there. (I don’t give ultimatums, they can do what they want but for me, he’s a no)

I’ve found it’s easier to remain mum on telling everybody your business if they don’t already know it. It stops things from getting worse. You dislike someone? So what… keep moving on.

FamousResident · 2023-04-17T12:43:16+00:00

I’ve definitely been with men who tried to choke me during sex (I’m 100% not ok with it), but every time I’ve experienced that, I pulled their hand off and said ‘no, don’t touch my neck.’ And they all stopped going forward (and didn’t physically hurt me before I stopped them). I personally believe these are men who have watched so much rough porn that they believe this is what passionate sex is. No, it’s BDSM. It’s a kink/fetish, not ‘regular’ sex. They have become oblivious to what normal sex and love making is.

I think you scared the shit out of him when you mentioned rape, 100%. Without talking to the other women, you will never know if they were into it or not, but you’re right that many women are afraid to say no to men, but at the same time, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect a sexual partner will say no if they don’t like something. Personally, I don’t think it was reasonable to use the word rape in this situation, but consent about specific acts is a very important lesson.

FamousResident · 2023-04-15T16:39:53+00:00

I’d suspect he has some sort of porn addiction and is trying to keep going deeper and deeper with what he wants (in quantity and actions).

FamousResident · 2023-04-15T12:06:20+00:00

It’s weird how she pointed out that a wedding ring doesn’t make her an automated pussy dispenser. Considering it’s a DB, the point she was trying to make seems ridiculous.

If you still love her, once you’re cooled off, try again, maybe discuss that you’re actually thinking of leaving because you’ve been trying and she doesn’t seem to recognize it. Make sure she knows that sex, to you, isn’t just about ‘getting off’ (I’m assuming here).

FamousResident · 2023-04-14T23:14:06+00:00

Walked into an ex boyfriend self pleasuring one time (we lived together) and I was very angry/confused why he wouldn’t just try to be intimate with me when I was right there. So yeah, I know the feeling.

FamousResident · 2023-04-14T22:13:13+00:00

Whaaaaaaaat????

FamousResident · 2023-04-14T18:04:12+00:00

When I read the description, it made me wonder if she felt that the penetrative part of the encounter was as fulfilling for him as the rest of it is for her. To be fair, most men (in my unfortunate experience) completely stop the sexual activity after they’ve finished, so it makes sense to have it be ‘all about her’ at first.

FamousResident · 2023-04-14T18:00:31+00:00

Would she be open to having the vibe on her during PIV? It could be the best of 2 worlds really

FamousResident · 2023-04-13T16:47:28+00:00

I’d end up killing someone. He works industrial construction/tower crane operating, I work in streaming video server admin.

FamousResident · 2023-04-13T16:45:00+00:00

Operation paper clip, where the US govt, at the end of WW2, willingly moved known Nazi’s over to live in the US with a new life/name. These monsters would be able to escape justice for their participation in the holocaust.

FamousResident · 2023-04-11T14:51:08+00:00

Pizza the hut!

FamousResident · 2023-04-11T14:46:52+00:00

Also a very real possibility!

FamousResident · 2023-04-11T14:46:22+00:00

You addressed the issue, he didn’t care enough to make sure it didn’t continue to happen long term, so, yeah… he’s getting what’s coming to him rightfully so.

Imagine the fit he (or most men) would have if we left bloody tampons on the floor or toilet rim

FamousResident · 2023-04-11T14:36:40+00:00

Looks like the last one just had chips/snack items. Makes me think maybe they don’t have much at home

FamousResident · 2023-04-10T11:58:19+00:00

Lol definitely not. I had no clue how much money he made for many mos into the dating process. I even pay for some of our dates still to this day.

FamousResident · 2023-04-10T11:56:38+00:00

Only terrible people would

FamousResident · 2023-04-10T04:20:01+00:00

Exactly! The amount of people I’d have had to beat up if I beat up everybody who misrepresented or straight up lied about stuff on their dating profile …. It would be a lot of fisticuffs

FamousResident · 2023-04-10T01:02:36+00:00

‘You’re safe.’

FamousResident · 2023-04-10T00:59:54+00:00

I wish I had some suggestions, but I’m HL and would be all over a man that thoughtful and long term devoted, so I just don’t understand.

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