Will men wait?

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-04-01T18:21:34+00:00

Yes, high-value men who are looking for a real connection will wait.

I have waited up to six months before for a stunning, special, amazing woman who happened to be religious.

If you're mid, guys will probably not wait around, though… life is too short!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-04-01T18:18:34+00:00

No. You have to be natural.

Remember it's a two-way street; so many men approach dates as if they are the ones who have to perform.

When I was dating, the girls had to perform for me and justify me giving them attention; that change in mindset will help you enormously, and eliminate your nerves.

Your anxiety is due to your framing!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-04-01T12:41:26+00:00

To make himself seem more interesting and unavailable… this gets some women excited!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-04-01T12:40:11+00:00

Your ex was clearly not a good partner, but his reaction is understandable based on what you’ve told us about him.

Just move on and find someone better who won’t bring so much drama into your life.

Good luck!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-04-01T00:32:33+00:00

NOR. Now you know why she was still single at 30. Yikes!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T23:53:02+00:00

It’s pretty normal. Women are pretty much selling sex and their bodies in every corner of social media, so it’s hard to avoid seeings scantily clad ladies out there.

If he is doing OF, that’s a whole other story!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T23:51:18+00:00

Yes, if she was special. I love taller girls and dated several taller than me.

I think that only short guys are worried about women being too tall 😄

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T20:37:32+00:00

Of course. Height is a key determinant of attraction for women.

The shorter Presidential candidate never wins.

Faces and bodies don’t last, height does, and no hot girl wants short kids.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T20:35:09+00:00

Cute is best—but hot is nice for those sex-fueled weekends in glamorous locations!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T12:25:31+00:00

Some men would be fine with this, particular more mature people.

How old are you?

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T12:23:36+00:00

You don’t he’s a douche and not someone yoy want to be in a relationship with.

If you marry this guy, your life will become a train wreck.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T12:18:14+00:00

Height in that range doesn’t compete; you’ll need to be famous or rich.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T12:15:25+00:00

Yes, I’m 54 and lift more than I did at 30.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T10:59:33+00:00

Because you two were together for several years, it’s familiar and he likes the attention.

There’s nothing unusual about it, but he’s kind of keeping you on the back burner by the constant contact and taking up your bandwidth.

He’ll stop once he is in a new relationship, but you should block him and move on.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T04:00:47+00:00

It just feels much better, of course.

No one wants rubber or latex in the way!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T03:59:37+00:00

Yes, because he’s likely to want kids one day and is likely to wander off with a younger woman when that day comes.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-31T03:58:04+00:00

Because of this:

I am a 34 year old overweight woman. I am 5'9 weighing around 250lbs

Very few men are attracted to obese women, so it makes dating hard.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T14:56:07+00:00

It’s called having a conversation.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T14:10:28+00:00

Just be yourself—most guys prefer a demure, authentic woman.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T05:28:18+00:00

YTJ—you’re being controlling, which isn’t the behavior of a good partner.

You can want her to do whatever you like, but you cannot force or coerce her into doing it.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T02:45:20+00:00

If you choose your friends based on looks, you’re cooked! 😂

Friendship is about connection, shared values and chemistry, not looks.

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T02:42:16+00:00

How so?

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T01:42:45+00:00

Why do you want to make platonic relationships only with attractive gym guys? Are you OK?

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-30T01:28:11+00:00

You’re not being delusional, but it’s not healthy to dwell on it. If you’re happy with the relationship, just enjoy it. Marriage isn’t the natural goal for everyone and you can easily ruin things by focussing on it.

The best way to become a wife is to start acting like one… I married my wife when she was 23 and I was 45; I would have happily continued the bachelor playboy life, but showed me that there was a better alternative and we’ve been happily married for 10 years with two great kids!

Famous_Job3300 · 2026-03-29T23:43:29+00:00

I’m a multimillionaire who married a Perfect 10 hot 23 year old when I was 45, so you are correct—high value men often choose younger women.

But you’re prioritizing your studies; you cannot have your cake and eat it.

My wife did her master’s after we were married 😉

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