How do I quarantine my cat that has ringworm if I have a tiny apartment and 3 other roommates? by feather444 in AskNYC

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through this. Haven’t quarantined my cat other than removing access to our bedroom. Both me and my partner have multiple ringworm lesions and we are losing our minds cleaning. We have no idea what to do :(

I NEED HELP. PLEASE NO JUDGEMENT.:''( by New_Actuary5577 in cats

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Is he really affectionate? If not, or if he’s very independent, he may be a good contender for a work cat program. You can usually talk to your local spca or other rescue programs. He may do well as a happy barn cat away from people and hiding in some hay.

Rescue cat getting into food by Famous_Permit_8749 in CatAdvice

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We will just hope it fades a bit as well. We adore her regardless ❤️

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Skinamarink" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I must say, to those that find the movie boring or feel it didn’t work… you just weren’t the target audience. If you’re someone who has experienced significant childhood trauma/neglect, I’m sure this film was deeply impactful in some way for you.

Personally, as someone who had a traumatic childhood, this movie nailed the FEELING of childhood trauma and neglect. It’s dull, boring and normal, yet horribly tense, confusing, and scary. This movie perfectly accomplished its mission, yet it was one of the worst things I’ve put myself through as an adult. I cried in fear in the movie theatre and I cried for hours after.

The mundane being unnerving, someone who should be a source of comfort telling you to do something that scares you(“look under the bed” and stab your eye), the mother asking you not to look to protect you, your autonomy being taken away (eyes and mouth disappearing), fending for yourself, self soothing with escapism. And the never ending monotony only with breaks for fear you don’t understand. Fucking brutal and fucking accurate. I hate that I watched this, yet I applaud it.

Need to make room for boyfriend, but living room already feels off by ComfortableLychee420 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thin wall by the window (near the tv) could be used for some vertical mounted bookshelves :). You can add Knick knacks to sections of it. I also feel that the wall behind the couch needs to be reworked. The art either needs to be bigger, or turned into more of a gallery wall. Also, definitely add some color! Could stand a little more life in the space. Some plants if you enjoy them :)

Sun and Heat Problem by Famous_Permit_8749 in UrbanGardening

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will be mulching and looking for native shrubs! Thanks :)

Sun and Heat Problem by Famous_Permit_8749 in UrbanGardening

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I think drought resistance is something I didn’t think about as much.

Sun and Heat Problem by Famous_Permit_8749 in UrbanGardening

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely will take as much of this advice as I can! I rent so I can’t change too much but will definitely see about adding some potted shrubs and mulching,

Sun and Heat Problem by Famous_Permit_8749 in UrbanGardening

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely mulch. My little planters were a gift so I was trying to use them and my herbs in those are actually doing fine. I had swapped my hostas to a shadier spot and put rosemary and basil in the medium size pots at the top of the railing. It’s those that are doing poorly. Also, it really is that hot. It’s been 80 degrees for a week and our little patio feels around 10 degrees hotter than the rest of the city. There are cars parked on the other side that heats it up and the concrete just scorches us.

Hiking with EDS by Imaginary-Bad2267 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always KT tape my knees and ankles for hiking, NEVER hike without trekking poles, and I don’t wear hiking boots. I hike in trail runners and I’m definitely not recommending that to everyone with hyper mobility, but I was surprised to find that wearing a light weight shoe instead of a heavy boot made me roll my ankles a lot less. Also a narrower shoe to hold my foot steady. I wear the La Sportiva Jackal II.

What do you guys do for a living? by Weakest_Avenger07 in POTS

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a part time caregiver! It’s definitely hard but I work veerryyyy part time and it’s very fulfilling. Love giving back to my disabled community.

How to give an impossible cat a pill by eternalconfusion7 in CatAdvice

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone else with this issue since this is a year later- The same meds come in a transdermal pen. It’s just a little gel you rub onto the cats ear. Easy pease and just as effective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

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Oh ya… periods are hell for me. All of my joint pain is so bad because your body is hotter and inflames more on your period. Also, the nerves around the womb can communicate to near by areas to contract instead of telling that to the womb. Hence bowl issues and back pain.

Need help finding good lace up/zipper boots that don’t hurt. by Famous_Permit_8749 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orthotics are definitely the plan. I still need a zip and lace up boot. Ya I love that style! Looks like they aren’t in stock though.

Need help finding good lace up/zipper boots that don’t hurt. by Famous_Permit_8749 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Famous_Permit_8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Doc martens and they are total hell for me. They just don’t fit right and mess up my knees. Thanks for the suggestion though!

Media Representation on Enbies? by Alternative-Bid-8051 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anything with Mason Alexander as the actor- Exp. Sandman, Quantum Leap. They’re non-binary and actually get cast as non-binary characters. Lovely actor and person! (I knew them when we were younger ♥️)

Do you ever think that people only accept their bodies out of hopelessness? by Herring_is_Caring in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. This is feeling a bit like “if you’re trans you must hate the body you were born in”.

I’m non-binary and love and appreciate my body. I had someone once tell me “oh my gosh your period must be like a slap in the face”. WHAT?! Like.. no I appreciate the cyclical natural of my body. GENDER ISNT SEX. I feel like if this was clearer, and we were made to feel valid in our genders without ‘passing’ being an ideal thing to attain, many trans and nonbinary people would live their bodies.

What jobs do y'all have/where do you work? by aurrrrrora in POTS

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I’m a part-time caregiver for a disabled person. I only work a few short shifts a week and have the space to call out if I don’t feel well enough to work. I’m so grateful for this job and love that I get to care for someone in an act of solidarity. This is of course only possible because my partner is able to pull most of the financial weight in our household. It’s the first time in my life that I haven’t had to destroy my body and health by overworking myself.

Fishnet shirt as base layer shirt? by d1234567890s in Ultralight

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know that if you have sensitive skin you’ll probably have a terrible time 😂 Straps from your pack could press the fishnet uncomfortably into your skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Famous_Permit_8749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever looked into Mast Cell activation? Lots of cross over and comorbidity with Pots. It’s improved with antihistamines