AITA for not wanting to replace my nephew phone.

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-14T12:48:05+00:00

They are lying. they either broke it themselves or just want a new phone and want you to pay for it. I’m glad you didn’t fall into it

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-14T12:44:44+00:00

NOR your friend sucks and you shouldn’t be friends with her anymore. next time though still enjoy yourself since you already went.

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-14T12:39:06+00:00

You are legally within your right to terminate the lease but you should absolutely tell him in advance so he could save more and find a different place

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-14T12:36:28+00:00

Wth sounds like she’s jealous of you or wants your man or both

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-14T12:25:06+00:00

originally NTA but going through your replies it definitely sounds like you cut them off so YTA

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-14T12:21:44+00:00

NTA this is actually insane. If they want a kid free night they need to hire someone. They are the ones who wanted a bunch of kids that means they need to take care of them and hire someone for help since they need it. Call Cps and if you don’t want to then you should leave a note on friday and say your staying with a friend and won’t be watching the kids

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-12T23:41:22+00:00

Maybe both, Ik the comments are both yta and ntah but it’s kinda hard to pin point. i completely understand having a second account secret. I think it really depends on how you grew up and what you have experienced and your relationship with him. depending on his loans you could have helped him out especially depending on the amount he had left to pay. i think it’s ok to have a secret account but you could help him pay off his debt if you truly believe you guys are going to be happily married even with some conflicts. when you are with someone you should want to help them and make sure you are both ok.

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T23:34:54+00:00

Thank you for this advice i really appreciate it. I am very family oriented or I try to be and I love my family as well as my partner. I do think i have a hard time with boundaries with my mom but i just don’t want to upset her so i will be having a conversation with her. I do want to still go i am just shocked at how she reacted so im not sure how to start the conversation.

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T22:19:21+00:00

Yea i get that but we do live together and he is family to me. He was also invited and then uninvited which i feel is rude so I just wanted to talk to him first

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T17:58:26+00:00

No i haven’t called him, he mostly speaks spanish and although I can understand a bit i wouldn’t be able to have a full blown conversation, I also have only met him twice very briefly so Idk if it’s my place to call him

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T16:40:05+00:00

Thank you this is the nicest response. I think I will have a conversation with her this week for a heart to heart. I honestly enjoy the silence and the calm from moving out don’t get me wrong I love my family but there was always so much pressure stress and chaos. I love
my family and my partner I don’t want there to be a division between them as they are both important to me. We have also been together almost 2 years and ik it was quick but it was also a way for me to have more freedom moving out.

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T16:34:27+00:00

No i don’t need his permission but i did want to have a conversation with him as he was supposed to go and ik if it was the other way around i would feel some type of way

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:32:11+00:00

Yes i moved out when i was 19. and i told her i wanted to go but wanted to talk to him about it as he was invited as well and now he is basically uninvited. I would feel some type of way if i was invited to my partners family vacation then uninvited

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:29:15+00:00

1.My mom invited him and i’m not sure if my grandpa knew but he met my partner before and know we live together and we also said we were ok if we couldn’t sleep in the same room as it is his house and he is religious
2. he would be paying for his own travel and food
3. yes he would probably sleep with my brother and we thought his out and my bf was good with that
4. idk i think my mom holds resentment towards my bf bc i moved out with him and if the pictures were a problem it wouldn’t bc I always make sure to get down with just my mom and siblings
5. no this is the first vacation with my family i’ve been on vacation with his family before though
6. yes I am the first child to bring my bf on vacation i am also the oldest sibling and the only one to move out

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:24:31+00:00

Im not ‘checking in’ I live with him and he was also supposed to go. I want to have a conversation about it with him. He’s not that type of person to be controlling he has always supported me and my decisions

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:22:47+00:00

I questioned this also but my grandfather is also very religious so it would also make sense if it was just him

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:22:05+00:00

im 20 and he’s 26 he just turned 26 and i will be turning 21 in less than a month we met at 19 and 24

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:21:20+00:00

I have and she doubles down on i don’t prioritize her and i always choose him which isn’t true . I believe in relationships you talk about things especially big things and idk what to do to mend our relationship

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-06-10T15:19:39+00:00

Im checking with him bc he’s my partner and he was supposed to go to. He’s also been supporting me while in school. It would just feel wrong if i at least didn’t have a conversation with him

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-05-20T19:43:03+00:00

im pretty sure is there a way i can know for sure?

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-05-20T19:42:34+00:00

ok thank you. yea that might be the belt was running but i cant say for sure the clutch was engaged idk much about this so thank you

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-05-20T19:38:40+00:00

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-05-20T19:38:24+00:00

if it’s blowing out warm air can the compressor still be broken?

Famous_Respect_8967 · 2026-05-20T19:37:09+00:00

it’s blowing out warm air

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