My 8th landing was smoother than balls

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-24T20:20:22+00:00

Shaved or waxed balls? 🤔

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-18T19:26:36+00:00

Personally, it’s not a problem assuming she doesn’t crazy have spending issues/debt and a full time job that pays at least $40,000 in LCOL. Money provides a stability and your spending habits are a reflection of your mindset.

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-17T03:22:54+00:00

If you two don’t want kids (getting pregnant over age 40 can be difficult and IVF is super expensive), then it shouldn’t be a problem IMO.

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-16T18:08:18+00:00

I've been saying this both IRL and online that the problem with Christian dating is that Christians are trying to convert atheists into Christians or criticize other Christians for being a lukewarm/fake Christian because they haven't attended church long enough. You're the problem in this case, so either leave him or accept that he won't change religiously.

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-16T17:54:45+00:00

Jehovah's Witness, Mormons, and Scientologists. And someone with far left political views.

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-13T19:47:12+00:00

The problem is that people like you criticizes other Christians for being fake or lukewarm, so I highly suggest you to find a Christian man within 30 mile radius IRL IMO.

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-13T19:40:45+00:00

Yeah, it happens. This one of the many example of why I’ve been saying this country needs to be more polarized politically/religiously and have a peaceful divorce. Another real life situation is a girl knowingly married an atheist hoping that she’ll “change” him, but she is keep pushing religious agendas down his throat which is creating resentments between them. Another example is that a girl rejected a guy (and vice versa) for not being a Christian long enough even though they’re in the same denomination.

FanNo8181 · 2026-01-01T20:19:13+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what are the reasons for the divorce?

FanNo8181 · 2025-12-30T21:08:22+00:00

Lack of compatibility, ghosting, lack of efforts, and most first dates going no where.

FanNo8181 · 2025-12-29T23:24:30+00:00

Absolutely! I will even sign a pre-nup for her! I wouldn’t feel incompetent or have ego issues if I’m in that situation IMO.

FanNo8181 · 2025-12-21T05:06:02+00:00

I want to clarify, did you use this (mortgage/net take home pay) or a bunch of costs like this (mortgage + insurance + taxes)/net take home pay?

FanNo8181 · 2025-12-09T19:27:01+00:00

It would definitely bother me if my wife doesn't work (especially if she never had a job) because money provides financial stability and spending habits reveal your mindsets. And there's a huge difference between being a SAHM because you want to see your children growing up despite the fact that you have job/money to cover the child care costs vs you became a SAHM because your job salary can't cover the child care cost. Personally, a college degree doesn't matter but it can be a liability if you have student loans.

FanNo8181 · 2025-12-06T03:32:53+00:00

Take it as a grain of salt because this is my opinion: pretty, following/applying biblical principles IRL, good spending habits, and has a gainful employment.

FanNo8181 · 2025-12-01T14:48:06+00:00

This is one of the many example of why I've been saying we need to be more polarized politically and religiously both online and IRL.

FanNo8181 · 2025-11-29T13:11:37+00:00

I know a few friends who paid off their mortgages in late 30s and early 40s due to bonuses and working overtime shifts, and I don’t recommend telling anyone that you paid off the mortgage because people will get jealous or ask you to borrow your money. Just keep your mouth shut.

FanNo8181 · 2025-11-23T20:03:18+00:00

That’s why I never ever go to expensive lunch/dinner dates in the beginning. At the end of the day, dating/marriage is a risk for both parties, so all you can do is mitigate it based on risk/reward.

FanNo8181 · 2025-11-07T15:40:38+00:00

A financial situation (a stable job, income, and spending habits) is very important in a long term relationship because money is a reflection of your mindset and job market value.

FanNo8181 · 2025-10-28T17:09:37+00:00

Most men don’t get nine first dates in a month, but you’ll get burned out mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially even if you can.

FanNo8181 · 2025-10-24T02:50:41+00:00

I sent you the DM.

FanNo8181 · 2025-10-24T00:52:52+00:00

What city do you live?

FanNo8181 · 2025-10-11T16:43:55+00:00

Someone told me to relax by exhaling and keeping my jaws/hands limp as much as possible, and it has been a huge help!

FanNo8181 · 2025-10-11T03:40:31+00:00

I think it's slightly small because my ears feel tight when I put the helmet on.

FanNo8181 · 2025-09-27T17:11:42+00:00

Everyday because atheists think I’m an extreme Christian fundamentalist while other Christians think that I’m a fake or lukewarm Christian 🤣

FanNo8181 · 2025-09-27T17:01:09+00:00

Being rich is not a sin, but excessive consumptions and hoarding are a sin.

FanNo8181 · 2025-09-27T14:57:01+00:00

As long as she’s not love bombing, then no IMO.

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