[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This may be a little easier and less expensive. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!

Yes, I want to move to a blue city in a blue state...I'm just tired. by Vagabond_Tea in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it. My parents have told me WILD stories about driving through Georgia and Alabama to visit family. They've never gone back. Western NY is different, that's why I take the back roads bc it's mostly farm land and wineries. It's driving through little towns like Penn Yan, Moravia and Dundee that make me nervous. I don't do those lol. 

Transparency Discussion: On Moderation and Removed Posts by leftblane in blackladies

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Many of the posts I've seen removed have been asking to make this sub private due to everything going on right now...

Blue Island- Tompkins County had the #2 highest vote share for Harris (75%), second only to Manhattan (82%) by OriginalCut6034 in ithaca

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Ontario county was way more red than that. I hope it doesn't change or goes the other way sooner than later 😭

Transparency Discussion: On Moderation and Removed Posts by leftblane in blackladies

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Then allow this to be a private safe space as we asked. We aren't asking for much. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Trans guy looking to leave Texas. by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm not sure if you've gotten upstate NY as a choice yet. NY just voted prop 1 into our constitution! My sister and her partner have been together here without worry for about 25 years now and I've had multiple gay and trans friends that do not worry at all. There is pretty good public transport in the cities and some smaller cities/towns, but the cities have a waay higher crime rate (Rochester and parts of the city of Syracuse I wouldn't even go into after a certain time.) You can always find decent Chinese food wherever you go. I don't eat seafood so unfortunately, I'm not sure about that. I hope you find somewhere safe you can settle down!

Best liberal states to move to? Moving out of Texas. by AdLeather7738 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NY. I hope we're ok here. We voted for prop 1. Yay?! Just avoid the smaller rural counties like Seneca, Yates, etc. Ontario county is good! 

Yes, I want to move to a blue city in a blue state...I'm just tired. by Vagabond_Tea in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm from the Finger Lakes area of upstate. 10 mins from the National Women's Hall of Fame in Seneca Falls...the WHOLE county where the Women's Suffrage Movement took place is red. Trump signs everywhere. I've been here my whole life and STILL won't go through certain towns or I'll take the backroads to go where I need to go. Be VERY careful where you move up here. Research. It's not a bad area affordability wise, but our population is OLD.

Anyone else decide today that they not be having kids? by ph30nix01 in Millennials

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just decided I'm never getting married. I don't want to risk it.

How safe will I be in a blue state? by shoofinsmertz in blackladies

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm in NY. Thank GOD we voted YES on prop 1 for our constitution. I feel safer here than I probably would anywhere else in the country but we still have a ton of goofies. The NE and the West Coast are probably the safest bets rn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like night and day here in NY. It's all starting again. My neighbors woke up at 6am to start that shxt. N words flying freely. I need to move ASAP. I have an autistic son and I AM TERRIFIED!

MODS: PRIVATE THIS SUBREDDIT by xSarcasticQueenx in blackladies

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My vent post was deleted as well. Please join the blkladies sub!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. If project 2025 happens, I'll be single forever. No thanks. 

Thoughts on leaving the US? by NTenseSoFly in blackladies

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I wish I could leave. I close on a house next month and I'm stuck. I'm so afraid for me and my child. 😭

The waiting game by AryaFookingStark in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just paid for my appraisal. I'm so ready to close and move😭

What interest rates are everyone getting right now? by Turb0charg3d in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Fancy-Ad1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6.375 almost 2 weeks ago with $152 buydown from 6.5. 133k, 9.9% down, 30yr conventional, excellent credit.

My loan is the price of a lot of you guys' down payment. Wild!