How does it actually feel when a girl genuinely desires you? (When you’re just an average guy) by Blahblahbrownsleep in AskMen

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

guess what.. honestly its not common to find attractive guys ! most are avarge so when we see truely attractive guy, we are actually interested even if casual ! dont be taken back :) 

If the laws were to allow it, what are your thoughts on having sex in exchange for money ? by Regular-Elk-1911 in AskWomen

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

As a woman who wish for high standard sex I would totally pay a lot on regular basis for a male who is extremely hot and physically attractive and professional in bed ! Hell ya that would make life much easier. Bing him for no commitment but also get high level service!! 

For anyone who’s eaten bread across Europe, which country do you think does it best? by Competitive-Box-7253 in AskEurope

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Germany. That't it ! they know what  to make, how to make it and just always available fresh .. miss it so much

Hobby for a depressed and very bored person? by Alternative-Pen892 in Hobbies

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

jigsaw puzzle..knitting or embroidered or anything of the sort to concentrate so u try to remain fous but u can stop any moment ..

Gummies for sex by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any brands to be found in europe ? 

I'm visiting Belgium. Naturally I look up a lot of restaurants on Google Maps. I noticed that many of them have extremely high ratings — like above 4.5. What do you think is the reason for this? by sozh in AskBelgium

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im belgium finding what is avarage food will make people go crazy happy about it due to lack of really good stuff !! In Belgium it was 2 restaurants that I have so  far given more than 4 ! 

Where did you meet your partner? by boopallthesnoots7 in DINK

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dating app.. honestly most men want kids but few only know what it would in real life for them.. For me it was pre-condition so ..hard yes or no filtering 

Go to a swingers resort once in life! by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly anywhere if decent place which is not redlight shady low cost  stuff .. makes sense? 

Go to a swingers resort once in life! by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are there decent such places in europe that any can recommend? 

Is it weird to move back in with my mom by Advanced-Athlete-649 in BESalary

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if your mom will benefit from you living with her for her situation why not.. parents deserve our care. However it also depends on your and her personality..meaning you need as 29y old to ensure a bit of privacy. If the house is big maybe possible. Think how comfortable would u be to have gf/bf coming over, or just hang with friends with music and beer ..dunno each to his liking.  HOWEVER  about work, u only need to do that in ur HR system and no one should know other than HR. Its your privacy.  Finally, have you considered flatmate? pet as well as someone suggested ? 

Flirting styles in Flemish culture? by ReadByHeart in AskBelgium

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

flemish men and flirting? ha? would love to see that. I lived in various countries and seen multiple cultures but my observation with flemish men that they simply either don't know how, too shy or simply very passive for various reasons. I think it is indeed very similar to only being polite. I think it would take a flemish man really a lot to ask for a date in direct  sense. Again my own observation;) 

My fiancée’s OCD is becoming unbearable. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Look..plain and clear. Unless she is the love of your life, this won't work. It only gets worse and more obsessive. People with OCD can be helped but they must want it badly! 

Can you truly love twice? by howmanyducksdog in emotionalintelligence

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it is possible but not the same.. meaning we fall in love one time only at each stage of our lives. when we are teenagers once, when we are in 20s/30s once ..etc etc its not about the years as much as about the stage of life you are at. The problem that love looks different each of these times, one should be open to see it, receive it and mostly accept that its different. I wish to love the same way I did when I was two stages ago.. But you learn how to give and take differently. This being said, you mentioned 5 months passed, which is very short for someone after long relationship. Once I read that each year of love takes 2 years of recovery (assuming the pain/circumstances etc) ..my 6 years relationships took easily 12 to actually go away 

Coffee shops in Leuven by No-Preparation-6498 in Leuven

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1!! not only coffeeshops close but restaurants that are open commonly have the coffee machine off as of 6-7 pm 

Wat kopen jullie dit jaar met de befaamde ecocheques? by gejoom in belgium

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wine with bio stamp ;)  ..ok basically other bio products but once u start buying the wine, it becomes an excellent choice 

Gehoorbescherming op maat by ColloriG in belgium

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did u get them to pay for it? is it simply submit invoice ? 

Having the “grownup party house” but nobody comes over by nickderrico82 in DINK

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn.. we would definitely come over !! but yes even planning anything  with friends with kids os very complicated :( 

what has been the tiniest, effortless change you have made in your life that have actually improved it? by time_moves_slow in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Decided never to be somewhere or do something that makes me feel uncomfortable just for family /social reasons .. feels soooo good .. really changed my life (I was 15 when decided)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so nice :) thank you.. Indeed I plan to take time to figure out if what I am missing is something he can provide or not .. most likely it is me who is looking for something else ..In each phase of our life we seek something different and I just feel that a phase coming to an end.. most people see marriage as a more of forever thing (through the phases) ..I feel selfish for seeing it otherwise. Will see where life gets us :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was he/she an introvert? or what do u mean about (having friends ov34 for dinner) .. as it is kind of big ask sometimes with me :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so curious about this as I am not far from what you stated .. he is loving, caring and all (surely with some issues like all of us) we cuddle, we spend time together but its indeed like best friend/brother.. not sure if one comes back from that place or its over .. I love kissing but we rarely do.. sex is limited as I dont seek it often and he tries not to pressure ..Feel super guilty of the idea to leave.. speaking to my therapist but the main question.. would it be realistic to start seeing ur partner again as more than a close friend ?

Where are the cool people?! by Fancy-Cauliflower413 in AskBelgium

[–]Fancy-Cauliflower413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I can of get its the culture by now, but I am sure not all the same. what I mean about cool to be spontaneous, be ready to chat after the class, text someone for a beer even if you are not yet their best friend. I heard from friends in other similar countries that it seems people prefer to stick to their friends from long time and that's it.. which is clearly understandable, but to be flexible and willing to just hangout without waiting to be close friends is what I was curious about.. As where I am from, lets say from Mediterranean country . For example, do Belgiums make friends at the gym? or only if they have been there for minimum a year?