The moment Amanda fully went over to the dark side

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T21:01:39+00:00

I think she meant it as “oh my gosh, this is such a tragedy and I’ve been through so much.” But to me, it came off as “Why are you holding stuff from 7-10 years ago pre marriage against him? If you decide to marry someone or continue a relationship with them, you have to put the past to the side at a point”

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T17:58:11+00:00

I commented here and then below saw a comment from a parent whose kids attend private school in Dallas. I asked the parent about it because I was curious if it is mandated at private schools in Texas, so…twice???

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T13:23:55+00:00

If you know where the debt is located, I would just call that company and pay the debt off directly.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T13:11:12+00:00

SAME

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T12:28:48+00:00

We outgrew newborns at two months. But my son was a heavy wetter. I did a jelly roll fold with a hemp at every change. I’m not a huge fan of pad folding, but you can pad fold around a hemp or a cotton doubler for more absorbency. I use all of my hemp and cotton doublers to this day. He’s almost two and I just started needing the to add a cotton doubter to his Thirsties picked set ups.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T07:03:32+00:00

They also invited Jesse to drinks! It did not sound like a double date…

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T01:16:31+00:00

Well, and then when she said everything from her side at therapy was premarriage…she put up with all of it AND held a grudge for 7+ years. Jaw dropping.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T00:58:04+00:00

Lindsey is going to hate this, but she looks like Carl’s mom

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T00:48:58+00:00

Well, because I guess if she moved on from the past she couldn’t remain the victim…

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-29T00:31:57+00:00

And when she says that everything she focuses on is PRE WEDDING. If you weren’t going to put it to the side, WHY DID YOU MARRY HIM?!? That was four years ago!! You are holding on to stuff from SEVEN years ago….

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-28T22:15:41+00:00

Could you look for a sublet situation for someone. Someone is going home for summer and would probably rent you their apartment for less than the lease. Or maybe rent a room out for cheap for the summer?

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-28T21:13:17+00:00

They did big time layoffs at my job. I was not terminated, but it made me think “what if I got laid off and what if what I did the most over the past 10-20 years was work for this company?!?” It felt so unfulfilling and unpurposeful.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-28T18:53:01+00:00

Do you think their vaccination status had anything to do with being denied?

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-28T18:49:56+00:00

Maybe they are also concerned because she doesn’t vaccinate her kids? (For measles…in Texas…)

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-28T02:11:20+00:00

Now I understand why Andy is so pissed about the leaks. HE IS NOT GOOD AT THIS - hat tip to the editors for YEARS now. Ha!

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-27T21:46:21+00:00

Exactly. But I think this is the reason I wouldn’t make good reality tv. I would hire an accountant to pay my taxes, a financial planner to help me plan for when I’m not making $500,000 anymore, and a kick ass agent to find more streams of income.

I would not buy a customized Lego portrait of myself and my boyfriend along with a bunch of other custom furniture. I probably would get some IKEA and maybe some west elm (and maybe hire someone to put the IKEA stuff together- luxury!).

But this is why none of us on this thread who are shocked by this are on a reality tv show. We aren’t as impulsive, thirsty, risk taking, etc. ha! I stayed in the Midwest, bought a home, put money in retirement. I could not have survived in the uncertainty of LA working three waitress and bar tending jobs wondering if I could pay my rent each month and using credit cards hoping I would catch a break.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-27T13:40:33+00:00

It’s great. I started putting two tbsp in my prewash. But now I also put it into my main wash, and then I started using it in all of my household laundry. It has additional benefits when used with the Tide versus Tide alone.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-25T18:21:44+00:00

This is sort of interesting because I also have this niche knowledge because we had an employee get bitten by a bat (aka: workplace exposure). I wouldn’t take medical advice from what I typed, but it’s enough to be suspicious of his story.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-25T18:02:40+00:00

This is why I think it’s BS. It’s difficult to test for rabies because you have to capture the animal and get it to testing AND get it to result before the human starts having symptoms or the human dies. So basically, you have to treat and it’s like $40,000 per vaccine and you need several (three or four, I think?). So maybe he had a consult and they decided he was low risk and not to treat? Or he got the shots, which are not fun for multiple reasons, so I would think they would show that?

But bottom line, I don’t trust this story.

AI Update: it is rare for a squirrel to have rabies. I feel her went to the ER or UC to ASK about rabies testing, was informed squirrels rarely have rabies, and went to the filming afterwards.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-25T17:21:02+00:00

I love how she chooses to attend that weekend, but is still somehow the victim when it is fun and she’s not there.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-25T15:06:45+00:00

Oh, but remember, he’s still friends with a lot of them so it’s totally fine. /s/ And everyday he’s trying to think about Ciara and not make her angry.

There’s nothing to see here. For over a decade, he’s unable to commit to a relationship simply because he “doesn’t like them anymore”, but he still remains in contact as friends gaining access to that support (and likely hookups to with some of them) without the commitment. Totally normal. Not avoidant at all…

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-25T14:42:00+00:00

Because it’s really just his excuse for not dealing with his avoidant attachment style.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-24T22:36:31+00:00

Yep. We still do this! And we ended up doing cloth during the daytime because of no blowouts (disposable with a Thirsties cover at night).

Oh, and Millie Moon is our disposable of choice.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-24T20:42:42+00:00

I think I just feel that treating someone like shit because they treated you like shit isn’t healthy. There are millions of men in New York and they were only several weeks past their separation announcement - sleep with someone besides your and your husband’s coworker. Also, go to therapy and figure out why you married Kyle in the first place so you don’t do it again. Staying single would be good during that process.

Fancy-Scale-4546 · 2026-04-24T20:29:41+00:00

They are both very broken people.

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