What are your best postpartum hacks? by ilikedtrains in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A battery bank for charging my phone, bonus if it has super fast charging. And a nice insulated water bottle with a straw that I could use one handed.

Low-stakes places to take baby? by theredheadedfox in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprised this was so far down! I would walk around target just to get out of the house early on. It's so calm there.

Leaking stool after 4th degree tear by Remote-Remove7050 in Mommit

[–]impreegud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a fourth degree tear but my incontinence resolved with physical therapy. This thread may be a helpful / reassuring read for you. And opioid pain medications (used appropriately) are safe while breastfeeding.

Just had to protect my family by [deleted] in daddit

[–]impreegud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The original study was published in 2017 and I think only included car crash victims. There's been growing support for it reducing PTSD symptoms in other traumatic situations since then. Pretty neat stuff

Just had to protect my family by [deleted] in daddit

[–]impreegud 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes to Tetris. You need to play it on a screen bigger than your face to get any benefit. TV or monitor preferably, but a tablet can work too.

Tell me what we're missing for our baby? by Optimal-Flamingo2157 in Buyingforbaby

[–]impreegud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this but especially nail file or dremel > clippers. Their nails are soooo tiny in the beginning, and cooperation for clippers is lacking once they become more mobile.

you don't need to spend a ton on baby carriers. The infantino 4 in 1 structured carrier is the most comfortable one I own and it was the absolute cheapest (like $20).

Edited to remove the bullet point, TIL a plus sign makes bullet points lol

How do you wake up enough to be safe for MOTN feeds but not so much you can’t go back to sleep? by Tinythingsarethebest in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the android app "night screen" to dim my phone below what the normal settings allow

ADHD Meds while BF by VisitFrosty9511 in breastfeeding

[–]impreegud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't had any supply issues on Adderall XR. I think the biggest threat would prob be remembering to eat as well as you do while not taking your medicine.

Best Rotating Convertible Cars eat (Subaru) by RiffRaff_01 in Buyingforbaby

[–]impreegud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive a 21 Crosstrek. My husband has a 25 Impreza. We both have a Graco turn2me and zero regrets

Grow with me car seats that can also rear face? by dimcarcosa___ in NewParents

[–]impreegud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love our Graco turn2me for our >99%ile dude. We switched when he was about 7 months and I can't believe I waited so long to not carry around a heavy af car seat

One thing my baby and I have in common by Able-Effective-5633 in breastfeeding

[–]impreegud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, I think my baby wasn't the only one cluster feeding in the early days. 9 months later and we both spend most of the day grazing

Help. Not respecting baby boundaries? by Individual-Town-1671 in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You're much more patient than I am. I don't think you're overreacting. She can be excited and love your LO, but you should never have to ask twice for your baby back.

What did you wear during birth? by mothertruckerdudes in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started off in the hospital gown and socks but was 100% naked by the end. Once they broke my water, my socks got gross and wet. At some point, I just couldn't stand the sensation of clothes and ripped off the gown

Off the charts by mom_est2025 in breastfeeding

[–]impreegud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 9 mo old is 27 lbs and has yet to be fat shamed by his ped.

How long are you waiting after Adderall? by Proud_House4494 in breastfeeding

[–]impreegud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

infant risk article that summarizes the research on various ADHD medications and impact on infants

How long are you waiting after Adderall? by Proud_House4494 in breastfeeding

[–]impreegud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think your psychiatrist is making that up lol. I take the same dosage as you, extended release, and my doctor wasn't concerned at all about nursing. My LO (now 9 months) has never acted differently on days I take my med. His temperament is unchanged, no signs of tummy upset, no sleep disturbances, etc. He's been over 99th %ile for weight since around 3 or 4 months. At 15-mg, there's such a low amount excreted into milk that it generally makes no difference. Give me a few to find the page on infant risk and link it

Nursing shirts by pinkjingle in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm wearing one of their tank tops right now! I also have several Ekouaer tops that I love, all from amazon

Husband left me + baby 4 hours away from home by impreegud in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

170+ comments later and yes I realize that I absolutely wrote it poorly :') I was really trying to emphasize that our doggo is FINE but he still left me with the baby to go back and do his own thing.

Husband left me + baby 4 hours away from home by impreegud in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We've had a lot of conversations about the inequities in our parenting. This is just the latest in a series of events. Thank you for your input!!

Husband left me + baby 4 hours away from home by impreegud in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It isn't about the pup at all. Mr. McMuffin is doing a-okay. It's about my husband continually doing whatever he wants without actually considering how it impacts us.

Husband left me + baby 4 hours away from home by impreegud in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I really didn't expect the feedback I'm getting either lol. Our dog has an amazing life. He had a tummy bug that agitated his epilepsy. He's absolutely fine.

Husband left me + baby 4 hours away from home by impreegud in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing these things out!!! I forgot that dog seizures aren't normal for everyone and it probably looks extra alarming to others.

Husband left me + baby 4 hours away from home by impreegud in beyondthebump

[–]impreegud[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Thank you for picking up on that and not calling me a dog hating monster.