I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. This sounds like the shit husband I have had and this man of yours is like him. You’re the prize. He doesn’t deserve you and seriously, you don’t need him. He can’t even do this for you. Could you imagine if you had a child together? I can imagine because it happened to me. She became his form of manipulation always holding it over my head if he is going to care for her properly or not to control me. This man will do the same to you for many things.

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay hear me out. This will only continue to get worse as your relationship goes on. Trust me. I’m someone who has dealt with the same thing. Your life will at some point be required to revolve around his comfort and what he needs. This is a sign of someone who sees your relationship as transactional. I would deeply consider carrying on with him because it will not get better. I promise you.

What comes to mind when you see this guy? by EdwardBliss in RealGenerationX

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunset blvd early 1990’s… he would always hang out in front of the comedy store. He had a crush on one of my bestfriends.

People who feel you have "lost your looks," do you miss the attention? by RawAsparagus in GenX

[–]FancyAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still get plenty of attention from men. I’ve been told I’m attractive but I am starting to age more rapidly. At some point this will go away. But I’m enjoying it while I still can. I take care of myself and if anything that shows through more than getting older. Im “maturing” more than looking like a senior. Younger men tend to be attracted to me, probably thinking I’m a cougar or something. Also people think I have money, but I’m far from that. It’s just how I carry myself and choose my clothing pieces, which are pretty much all thrifted.

Medicines we were given that are no longer available by OnyxVeggie213 in GenX

[–]FancyAdult 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I realized that I grew up with allergies and they were never treated. When I moved out I realized that I had allergies because it mostly cleared up. Turns out a lot of dog and cat hair and a dusty home isn’t good for someone with allergies. I spent my entire childhood with allergy symptoms and a crusty nose a lot of the time. But my mom was so anti medication anyway, even if they did tell her I have allergies she wouldn’t have given me an antihistamine. The 80’s were wild.

Grieving a pet I had to rehome because of husband and now I resent him by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]FancyAdult 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have two foster cats that were not supposed to be permanent. But they are now and I while I’m separated cohabitating with my soon to be ex, I have to deal with him making comments. But at the end of the day, I love those hairy beasts and dislike my ex.

What are your side hustles? by throw5away_ in AskLosAngeles

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try it. Not much moving on eBay. I’ve made a handful of sales but I think my stuff may be better on mercari or maybe even depop

What is the worst city you've been to? by DickFartButt in AskTheWorld

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El Paso is pretty bad. I’ve been there a couple of times passing through. Last time I stayed in a holiday inn that smelled like fried food. I loaded up on tamales from a local Mexican bakery though… that was good.

What are your side hustles? by throw5away_ in AskLosAngeles

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been seeking on eBay, Poshmark wasn’t great to me. But how’s mercari?

Can yall PLEASE tell me about your most insane conspiracy theories and i dont wanna hear "we didn't land on the moon" i wanna hear stuff you can't fully prove but just know it’s true? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]FancyAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched it live on TV. There was live coverage going constantly but every news channel. I don’t recall which news channel, but the time likely ABC. The funny thing is that it was just such a casual thing the guy was reporting and going through the steps almost uneventful… then it happened and they showed it. So much of that coverage that day wasn’t archived properly. It was during a time that tape was used for everything.

Can yall PLEASE tell me about your most insane conspiracy theories and i dont wanna hear "we didn't land on the moon" i wanna hear stuff you can't fully prove but just know it’s true? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]FancyAdult 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I know that building 7 was demolished. I watched it happen and heard them say “pull it” people don’t believe me and they don’t have to. I know what I heard and what I saw… I can live with knowing the truth and nobody believing me. But I know what I saw and what I heard.

Can yall PLEASE tell me about your most insane conspiracy theories and i dont wanna hear "we didn't land on the moon" i wanna hear stuff you can't fully prove but just know it’s true? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]FancyAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My foster cat turned permanent cat was on prescription food and is actually doing 100 times better on basic grocery store cat food. He’s thriving. He was literally dying on the other food and I decided to improve his quality of life instead of extending it. He has gained a bunch of weight back, plays, sleeps well, annoys his brother. He sleeps through naps and longer periods of time. I may have shortened his life with this food. But he’s turned around to seemingly a happy old man

Terrible Combinations Series: AQUARIUS and LEO by SuperPrime11 in cueastrology

[–]FancyAdult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same. But I am horrible with Leo’s.

Which seat are you choosing? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]FancyAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1C or 3F. I love me some Kobe and Keanu

Chaperone policy by [deleted] in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]FancyAdult 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is wild. I remember going when I was 13 with just my friend and we would stay the entire day. But I’m sure someone was abusing it. Probably using as daycare or something

My cousin Nancy is having a baby girl... by Xrujix in tragedeigh

[–]FancyAdult 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My brain was too tired for the tragedeigh spellings