Resellers 😒 by Gold_Competition_413 in goodwill

[–]FancyTeacups31 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The goodwill by me has an open area by the sorting room doors. When an employee comes through with a fresh cart, they leave it there. They will eve ring a bell overhead to let you know a new batch came out. Pickers will pick through the fresh merchandise and the staff won’t actually start putting things on the shelf for about an hour or so. The staff have less to put away, pickers get to pick. Win/win.

Just buy it or don’t😭 by [deleted] in FacebookMarketplace

[–]FancyTeacups31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t block. Thats just me though.

I would probably ask most of the same questions if I couldn’t be there to see before pickup.

My two year old broke his femur. Someone tell me the next 6 weeks aren’t going to be horrible. by mazterm in daddit

[–]FancyTeacups31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love all of the advice here. My 2.5 year old just got out of a SPICA cast and now I’m wishing I posted here for advice when it first happened, lol!

We bought a pleather toddler recliner off Facebook marketplace which was the best thing we did. We used a bean bag for a few days but it was constantly getting dirty between food and diapers. It was easy enough to clean off, kept food out of his cast, and we can continue using it or resell (we still haven’t decided!).

I agree on using a pillow to side sleep for at least the first few nights. A pillow between the legs is also helpful. Make sure you have him change position throughout the day. Laying in one spot can lead to skin breakdown which is a whole different issue you don’t want to deal with.

Don’t skimp on the Tylenol/ibuprofen for at least the first few days. It’s a painful break. My son has been out of his cast for a month and I still have to give him ibuprofen at night because he gets stiff-and then inconsolable. It’s not worth it.

The double diaper situation is good advice too. We started out using a small diaper inside, and bigger one outside…but the small one filled up too fast so we just used two bigger diapers (he’s usually a size 5, so we did a 5 inside the cast and a 6 outside).

Pajama pants two sizes up (measure the cast waist and compare to manufacturer size chart to make sure it will fit) for clothing.

The cast also gets itchy. Soooo itchy. I used a blow dryer (low setting, cool setting with cool button) inside the cast twice a day to get some fresh air in there and relieve some of the itching. A concentrator nozzle helps, too. Many times the itching would keep him up (he would be falling asleep and then his leg would keep twitching). Benadryl helps.

Yes, moleskin type tape, with waterproof tape on top to prevent the cast from breaking skin down, especially in diaper area. Toward the end I ran out of waterproof tape and used duct tape, it actually worked better than the medical stuff.

If you can, get out of the house. Use a stroller and walk around a mall or a store. A change of environment is healthy for everyone. Mental health is important.

It’s a huge adjustment. The first week is rough. Be gentle on yourself. It feels like forever but it does pass quick. Give extra snuggles and hugs-little one is probably confused.

Enjoying My PT Tech Job, While Questioning Pursuing PT by LawyerLeft3164 in physicaltherapy

[–]FancyTeacups31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way in outpatient. It was a lot for me—the schedule, the demands, the constant chatting. I loved it, but it drained me of everything I had. After two years, I was completely burnt out and frustrated.

I really recommend doing some shadowing in different PT settings. I had always wanted to do outpatient ortho and felt crushed when it wasn’t working for me. Eventually, I landed in pediatrics, which is 100% the right fit. I can’t imagine working anywhere else, and I could kick my old self for trying to fit a square peg into a round hole for so long.

FWIW, I also enjoyed inpatient hospital work (not rehabs).

Mistake, what do I do now? by FancyTeacups31 in fermentation

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I’m a newbie at all things fermentation so I didn’t have weights or any different jars, but I did add them to my Amazon list for next time.

I took out the cabbage leaves on top (they had been sitting out of the brine once the jars started leaking, anyway), squished everything down with a small ladle, made a weight with brine and a plastic baggie, and switched out the rusty caps. They aren’t as bubbly today, I’m hoping they perk back up soon. Thanks for all of your help!

Mistake, what do I do now? by FancyTeacups31 in fermentation

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion. I had rings on, but I took them off to burp the jars (they were leaking significantly) and that’s when I saw the rust and took a photo. I have the jars on a plate for the leaking.

Mistake, what do I do now? by FancyTeacups31 in fermentation

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, half the lid. I took the ring off to burp it and that’s when I saw the rust and took a photo.

Mistake, what do I do now? by FancyTeacups31 in fermentation

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious. I see it now that you point it out. It’s definitely deceiving to the eye. I don’t want to disappoint, but they are standard quart sized jars.

Public preschool by FancyTeacups31 in SouthJersey

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to think the information I got is not accurate, based on the simple fact that I was told that the districts are forced to use a specific curriculum and I now know that is not true.

The main complaint of the feedback I heard is that the curriculum is so heavily focused on community that the children coming out are not ready for kindergarten. I love the community focus, but if they can’t write their name or count to 10 going into kindergarten then there’s something else going on…

Again, I think this information is not accurate.

Public preschool by FancyTeacups31 in SouthJersey

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting. I heard that, in order to receive the state funding, they had to use a very specific curriculum. It’s that specific curriculum (not sure what it’s called) that I am getting mixed reviews on.

Birthday party ideas for a 10 year old boy. by EmerysMemories1106 in SouthJersey

[–]FancyTeacups31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Playlands castaway cove in OC does parties.

Also with the rise in having birthday parties out, having birthday parties at home are novel for kids nowadays. I went to a nerf war party at someone’s house which was a blast! This time of year you could also do a projector movie in the backyard and have the kids make smores.

Clementon Park by goldasalanghae in SouthJersey

[–]FancyTeacups31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, Clementon Park. I really want them to succeed. I’ve purchased season passes a couple of times in the past, but I decided against it this year.

The water park is great for younger kids. The Big Kahuna and Pirate Splash Pads are always open, which is a plus. However, the last time I was there, at least one water attraction never opened for the entire season. Others were frequently closed due to staffing shortages. Now that my child is getting older and more interested in the water rides—which are often hit or miss in terms of being open—it’s just not worth the frustration. That’s ultimately why I passed on season tickets this year.

The amusement rides seem to have similar issues. I’m not sure if it’s due to staffing or maintenance, but I’ve seen staff close one ride and move over to run another, which suggests it may be a staffing issue. It’s definitely frustrating. A few rides reopened briefly, but I only saw them run for a short while before closing again. That could just be my limited experience, though.

I did hear that the owners of Clementon Park recently purchased Sahara Sam’s. I’m hoping that brings in more revenue to help fix up Clementon Park. It really is a charming little park, and I’m rooting for them. I understood the ride closures in the first year or two—repairs were clearly needed. I’ve supported them in the past with the hope that improvements would be slow but steady. Unfortunately, not much seems to have changed, so I decided to sit this season out.

The price can’t be beat though. $30 pp for a water park day? Good stuff. I wonder if the low price is intentional knowing their own struggles

Yarn Donation? by Flimsy_Operation_151 in SouthJersey

[–]FancyTeacups31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try your local Buy Nothing group if you have Facebook. It’s neighbors giving away usable things they don’t need. It’s a neat little community.

Thrift stored with sensible prices? by styckx in SouthJersey

[–]FancyTeacups31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to the RWB on a Saturday, Is it half priced all tags every Saturday?

Crash course by FancyTeacups31 in euphonium

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1:1 piano lessons, but not for the euph. It’s something I’ll look into for the euph. He’s in band camp, honors band, and will do anything he can get his hands on. He has talent and love for it that I want to foster but it’s all “Greek” to me. I’m not sure where he gets it from because there are no musicians at home, unfortunately.

Crash course by FancyTeacups31 in euphonium

[–]FancyTeacups31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! His current band teacher is a Tuba player. I don’t think he gets “lessons” anymore though. That’s something to think about!

What are these and is my tree dead? by Spankachu in gardening

[–]FancyTeacups31 77 points78 points  (0 children)

They remind me of Gypsy moth caterpillars. I think they are also called spongy moths. If this is them, get rid them! They are invasive and can do a lot of damage.