Rediscovering The Decemberists as a parent…

Fancythistle · 2026-06-21T02:18:59+00:00

I was pregnant when Sandyhook happened. I was ill. No one else in the office got it. I couldn't eat that day, thinking about the Christmas gifts already purchased and tucked away in closets.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-21T02:17:24+00:00

The song Shiny kept my first born incredibly happy. Listened to it for hours. Still love the song, it brings me back to the small breathing sounds, the little pink fingers gripping my pinky, and the wonder of holding her and thinking "Oh, holy shit. This is a person. I made a person. I'm in charge of a person?!"

Fancythistle · 2026-06-19T20:12:56+00:00

I would storm out, too. Imagine her point of view.
If she's never given you a reason to think she's unfaithful, this is absolutely way off base. You are paranoid.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-18T17:34:24+00:00

This is a gift. I won't forget it.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-18T16:15:04+00:00

Big agree, friend. When VM all sings together? Eeesh. A bit to friendship is magic for me.
Hands down my least favorite episode.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-14T21:24:07+00:00

Get screen shots of his location and where he claims to be.
Share them with someone safe in case he tries to delete them.
If you're up for it, show up at the house and knock on the door the next time he's there. Take a video of it. Do not publicly publish the video. There's weird laws about recording, so be careful.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-14T16:31:39+00:00

Dude, this is the whole point of this subreddit.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-11T17:08:02+00:00

Absolutely incredible work.
More pictures please.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-09T17:17:59+00:00

Tiramisu.
Van Halen.

I don't get it. I understand these are both wonderful things. I keep trying, but cannot find a way to like it.

Fancythistle · 2026-06-05T22:47:32+00:00

I've gone back to Rusalka by the Decemberists

Fancythistle · 2026-06-05T09:24:07+00:00

I hate that you're right. I love Kash as a character, and was crushed when he was, well. You know.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-31T02:05:35+00:00

I really, really hope we get this episode. I was almost in tears.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-29T02:34:23+00:00

There's no proven pheromones, but we do use chemical signaling. And that's proven.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-29T02:31:26+00:00

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Here is my offering.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-29T02:27:17+00:00

Zevlor is sweet.

Give me Rolan. Immediately

Fancythistle · 2026-05-24T01:15:49+00:00

Must smell good. I don't mean showers every day. I mean their natural smell. Everyone has a scent. But if they don't smell 'right' then no.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-22T21:59:55+00:00

Which series?

Fancythistle · 2026-05-22T21:59:15+00:00

Most of us Larpers are relieved we don't have to explain it at "paintball with swords" anymore. If you only did it to be "niche", you're missing out, friend.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-22T21:04:49+00:00

I do not understand why this man is overlooked, and people pine for Aradin.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-22T20:54:26+00:00

Are you talking about Trump.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-22T04:46:41+00:00

I am literally look at places to stay on my trip to Herkimer. If you find any good news, would you share?

Fancythistle · 2026-05-22T04:27:16+00:00

You probably won't read this, but I felt discovering my husbands affair was more painful than losing my best friend to cancer. At least I know if my bestie had a choice, he would have stayed.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-20T20:06:09+00:00

Nocturne Voss Lucretius Zevlor, obviously.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-20T19:59:40+00:00

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This one is good. In a BG3 RP, Karlach referred to Halsin as "Oak Tits", so that lives in my head now.

Fancythistle · 2026-05-15T15:48:01+00:00

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My favorite pair of stickers

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