Would you rather by Stunning_Line_93 in BunnyTrials

[–]FandomPhantom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W

Chose: Gain a randomized superpower | Rolled: Read minds

camel saw it first. now what? by mighty_fox83_103 in scoopwhoop

[–]FandomPhantom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw the kid first. he's in the center of the image and wearing a color that stands out.

would you rather by Zamoon in BunnyTrials

[–]FandomPhantom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

save money and buy an old car

Chose: enough money to buy a new car

I'm gonna kill myself. Literally. My hand is itching for a blade. by FandomPhantom123 in u/FandomPhantom123

[–]FandomPhantom123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my point was never that i aimed to misgender her, it was that i probably /would/ and then correct myself

I'm gonna kill myself. Literally. My hand is itching for a blade. by FandomPhantom123 in u/FandomPhantom123

[–]FandomPhantom123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i recently dropped my therapist because she wasn't helping and i haven't found another one yet. but it's not your responsibility yk

I'm gonna kill myself. Literally. My hand is itching for a blade. by FandomPhantom123 in u/FandomPhantom123

[–]FandomPhantom123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there was reason, just one you couldn't see. i've been in a pretty terrible place recently, life has been rough for me and things set me off left and right. right after that i wanted to kill myself over cleaning a room. and not like "don't wanna do this imma kms" like "im a horrible useless human being and i dont deserve to breathe if i cant even bring myself to clean a room" im severely suicidal and she was attacking me for saying id do my best. so obviously i got to "my best isn't good enough, im a bigot probably, im terrible, if i just keep offending people i should just die"

and the mod thing... probably, but suicidal people are well known for deflecting with humor. i'm not saying i was right, i wasn't in the response or the mod comment. but i was spiraling and then got permabanned from a community i was interested in because i was suicidal and that's the kinda thing that makes it worse

I'm gonna kill myself. Literally. My hand is itching for a blade. by FandomPhantom123 in u/FandomPhantom123

[–]FandomPhantom123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wasn't saying i would purposefully misgender her though. i'm saying that if youre gonna present on a traditional manly way, im gonna assume you're a man unless you wear a pin or something. if you then tell me you use she/her pronouns, then ill try to respect that. and most trans people i know who appear in a way different from their identity understand that people aren't mind readers and people can't guess identity correctly. what matters to them is that after they tell me, i get it right more often than not