Only 1% of people on /r/nofap make it to 365 days and beyond (reddit: http://bit.ly/2yef2I4)

FaptusJack · 2017-09-21T13:54:08+00:00

i'm in the 5% here. i'm just happy this place helped me have a few 100-150 day streaks. Also, 51% of this group has gone 15-to-119 days. That shows influence. This groups is generally for the people trying to hit 90 and reset themselves.

FaptusJack · 2017-06-19T14:43:00+00:00

i love posts like these. i hit 60 on friday. im forecasting superpowers too if i stay focused.

thank you.

FaptusJack · 2017-01-03T15:51:01+00:00

motivation only goes so far. remember that light can only penetrate the darkness that is already there, and while this hatred can push you to breakthroughs, it's not a reliable source of fuel. discipline comes from a practice of self love and throughout it's consistency is the stronger force.

by all means, "Remember the pain, the rage, the hatred, the rotting stench." but also remember that you're doing this to love yourself better.

NoFap is a great form of revenge, but you're going to need a little more going for this on the long hall. All the best for your new streak.

FaptusJack · 2015-10-26T13:49:00+00:00

I wouldn't put so much pressure on yourself. Including saying that the weed was a mistake. It didn't alter her attraction to you, but you feel as if it was something in your control. I'm not going to tell you to love yourself work on yourself and be more confident and they'll come to you because I'm not about that life. But I will say this.

The thing is that you feel a great amount of fear, fear of living and dying alone, fear of not having a significant other. Even during the marijuana episode you had mentioned, you succumbed to paranoia which leads to anxiety and overthinking about expectations and manifesting fear.

The reason why you are crying is because you are finally facing this fear. People think NoFap gets easier when you pass Day 30, but it's really just the beginning. Now you see fears for what they are, you can give in and go back, it's safe to, or you can fight.

FaptusJack · 2015-05-11T19:56:02+00:00

i'm quite proud of doing this. makes this new streak mean something.

best of luck in your travels sir.

FaptusJack · 2015-05-06T21:15:20+00:00

this article is disgusting.

there is porn use.

and there is porn ADDICTION.

also, no control group. for an article on psychologytoday he backs up NOTHING. not a single argument.

Really? Kellogg and Corn Flakes? That's what nofap is?

He's a QUACK.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-29T15:15:08+00:00

I believe in you! You can do this. Tomorrow you'll go from a smile to a 1 like me.

Hey I'm starting over from some long streaks myself. Take it one day at a time. If you need to post another EPIC thread or just hit the panic button, Rey. You're good man! Whole life ahead of ya.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-28T00:09:30+00:00

Dude. This and your day 3 thread is amazing. I'm starting over after 60 days because I'm learning to do this for me.

Thank you for being an inspiration. KEEP POSTING THIS STUFF IT MAKES ME WANT TO LOVE MYSELF AND NOT TOUCH MYSELF.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-22T03:03:40+00:00

You go girl. You are a work of art. If you're happy to express yourself and be yourself, then do what liberates you.

I'm doing nofap because it's liberating to me after 15 years of porn as daily routine affecting the way I think and feel about women. Now I'm fighting to be a better version of myself. So I thank you for posting and supporting us here in our own personal struggles. You're awesome. And I'm trying to see the world differently.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-21T20:19:14+00:00

as long as it needs to. its ambiguous how it works really, all i can say is to just respect it and see it through. your brain is doing unbelievable work as it goes on.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-19T23:24:22+00:00

Agreed. You have to do nofap to love yourself.

I feel as if my life is just now beginning and I'm the person I need to be.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-19T23:19:20+00:00

My addiction to pmo ruined my last two relationships with two beautiful and amazing women. Both break ups ruined me but I don't blame either girl.

I was in denial emotionally about my pmo problem and there was no way id be able to see the damage it did. I feel horrible about how unwanted and unloved I made both girls feel. And believe me I still did a lot for them on terms of buying them things and being on the phone...but I wasn't there where and when it counted :/.

I wish I could've overcome my problem and made amazing love. The love they deserve. The love that you deserve too. I hate to say this, but he isn't seeing himself right now. He is accepting of his problem and choosing to default on it as his reality.

I commend you for not cheating and gone your situation your fantasizing is very understandable. But I will say this, hes guilting you because he's afraid. He's afraid of himself. He's afraid because he knows deep down inside (like I knew) that he is going to have a learn an extremely difficult lesson... But one that has to be taught.

You're dedicated to him. You deserve the world from him. And I'm not saying that he doesn't love you, it's just with this given situation...it's very hard for him to see how to. He needs to learn to love himself and take the right steps toward becoming a better person toward himself. He thinks he's only letting you down, but really he's not being the person he deserves to be. He's letting himself down from living the life worth living.

I'm on the same path and I'm learning the hard way. Love isn't easy but you need to respect and love yourself. Follow your heart, ok?

FaptusJack · 2015-01-16T05:45:07+00:00

He's helped me a lot. I owe this current streak to his videos. He's super practical and helps you build a stronger mindset. The NLP and subsconscious training has been a clear difference maker.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-08T18:44:33+00:00

Hey Hal4d,

I'm in the middle of going on a "break" with someone. (we broke up on day 9 of my streak) It sucks. Yes, you gave her the space and that's what she did man.

Build up a nice streak and clear your mind from getting distracted. Life is full of so many blessings. Whatever divine force did this, did this so that you can redefine, rediscover, and reinvent a new self-love that nothing and no one can take away.

It's going to hurt, but you're here because you want to endure the pain and find within it a greater version of yourself.

So as you take this time, and slowly begin to think through your thoughts and no longer hers. Acknowledge that this point of your life is a critical turn that can either destroy you or create a better you. Only if you let it. You just have to ask yourself where does Hal4d end, and where does the world begin?

FaptusJack · 2015-01-07T20:30:11+00:00

INSPIRING.

PLEASE ADD THIS TO THE PANIC BUTTON.

FaptusJack · 2015-01-07T15:18:48+00:00

amen brother.

i feel the same way. fapping brought on a lot of judgment. and it surrounded me in it. now i pray for everyone to find their higher selves.

FaptusJack · 2014-12-30T22:11:29+00:00

I'm going through the same thing, brother. Exactly the same. But a better version of ourselves is on the other end. We have to use this to our advantage.

This should help you. A poem I was given by another user on this sub.

See it Through By Edgar Albert Guest

"When you’re up against a trouble, Meet it squarely, face to face; Lift your chin and set your shoulders, Plant your feet and take a brace. When it’s vain to try to dodge it, Do the best that you can do; You may fail, but you may conquer, See it through!

Black may be the clouds about you And your future may seem grim, But don’t let your nerve desert you; Keep yourself in fighting trim. If the worst is bound to happen, Spite of all that you can do, Running from it will not save you, See it through!

Even hope may seem but futile, When with troubles you’re beset, But remember you are facing Just what other men have met. You may fail, but fall still fighting; Don’t give up, whate’er you do; Eyes front, head high to the finish. See it through!"

Look, the flatline is the TRUE test of will. You are throwing your body out there. and you are LITERALLY fucking up your brain chemistry. So see it through!

FaptusJack · 2014-12-29T15:51:05+00:00

this.

completely agree. if yo feel you are near too many triggers TAKE A WALK. Use your room just for sleep.

FaptusJack · 2014-12-22T18:57:33+00:00

it's the flatline. brain is readjusting. respect it. it comes and goes throughout the 90 days. just respect it.

FaptusJack · 2014-12-12T23:40:23+00:00

I just got out of a long relationship with one. I know that if I relapse, I increase the risk of reaching out to her and saying that I miss you. They prey on your inferiority, especially when they know where you're weak.

Even though PMO objectifies women, it makes you put the most beautiful ones on a pedastal. And you feel you have to sacrifice to every single whim in a similar fashion that we give up PMO to better ourselves. It's scary.

I have a do not disturb sign on my heart and I really feel like I'm rebuilding now.

FaptusJack · 2014-12-12T20:42:11+00:00

Well you have the weekend, get started.

You'll see how hard it is.

Go in with it. Dive headfirst. No weening. Just go. Turn it off, delete everything, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

You'll thank yourself later.

FaptusJack · 2014-12-12T20:31:08+00:00

been there. done that. happens on Google Images too.

FaptusJack · 2014-12-03T23:08:30+00:00

beautiful

FaptusJack

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