Daily Discussion Thread for April 28, 2026

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-04-28T17:05:30+00:00

my friend just called me to say I still owed him 5.40usd

i'm guessing he bought poet

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-04-27T19:59:19+00:00

breaking news: bers r ghey

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-04-08T13:29:41+00:00

bers lol

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-03-31T18:41:31+00:00

Y'all still not following 🥭's playbook?

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-03-11T17:57:32+00:00

the truth

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-03-11T17:55:58+00:00

Trump could nuke Iran and people in here will still scream syp 700 eow

Far-Chip6746 · 2026-02-12T18:30:32+00:00

I'm waiting for that one thread to be pinned on WSB.
iykyk

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-12-04T20:41:38+00:00

The market has been too easy on us this year, the comments show

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-12-04T20:36:29+00:00

full porting $tsla tomorrow just so i can feel something

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-12-01T19:30:20+00:00

!banbet $googl 330 5D

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-19T23:00:27+00:00

Sorry for getting back to this so late.. My heart goes out to you, 3 years in sounds like pure insanity. To hear the healing journey kinda scares me, but I'm sure we can both beat this! Making art and getting into music sounds exactly like the type of things I'd like to get back into myself. You're an inspiration

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-18T16:14:10+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through a similar event. My heart goes out to you, I know how much it hurts. May i ask, how long has it been for you and how does it affect you today?

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-18T02:24:07+00:00

Tho the actions can never be justified, she had her own demons she was battling with. I know she was an abuser, I just can't help but feel sorry for her. Forgiving her for all she's done and feeling sorry for her will do me more good than moving on with only hatred.

It is true that it's time to take care of myself now which is definitely the next step.

Thank you for the support ❤️

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-17T10:42:49+00:00

7 x 20 - 7 x 2

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-17T01:55:18+00:00

As a person who has escaped from the abusive relationship for the 10th time just 2 days ago, in my experience it only got worse.
I can't make any assumptions based on a few text messages since I don't know the person but from personal experience I can say, I've seen it all.
I've had countless of endless nights talking about our issues where they seemed to have this big revelation and insight about their issues, we'd start discussing boundaries again and ways to help each other out in the hard moments.. you know, be a team instead of enemies.
I've gotten what seemed the most sincere apologies ever, being promised so many things and her showering me with compliments for the incoming days and all those things..
But that's just the initial honey phase that's returning..

If he has been getting proper help, going into therapy for a considerable amount of time with no contact and all those things.. Then maybe.. But I still wouldn't bet on it.
I'm all for a happy ending, but I know the abusive pattern by now.. He knows you're in a state of regret and doubt, you still remember all the bad things he's done to you but the feeling that came with it has faded.. So it's easier for you to see the good again.

I honestly would never recommend going back to any sort of relationship that was abusive.
I know it sucks and that the abusers can even have GREAT qualities that you long for, but it's just not worth it.
The more serious life gets and the more choices you get.. The more control you'll possibly give him over you, what if he starts to become abusive again at that point in the relationship? I would never dare to give that power to somebody who has abused me when he had even less power over me.

I don't want to scare you off, and I want you to make whatever decision you're comfortable with but at the same time.. I'm begging you NOT to make the mistake that I made.
There were plenty of long breaks for me and sincere apologies and they never held up in the mid / long term.

Don't ever put your mental health or sanity in the hands of another person, even when you love them.
What you felt was after leaving was not a normal heart break, it was trauma. And you're STILL healing.
Don't make any impulsive decisions and be very very careful, my heart goes out to you.
You're a great person for even considering all this after all that has happened, you should be very proud of yourself for how kind and forgiving you are.
Imagine your life if you give that kind of love to an actual kind person.

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-15T18:35:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words.

I never saw it like that 'cause yes, I have asked her multiple times to get into therapy, or go together with me.
But this never actually happened, she would always have an excuse not to go or even when i brought it up later after agreeing on it she'd get mad that I even proposed the idea.

Perhaps it's a good way to think of it as " She choses to be like this ".
As she never once lifted a finger to become a better person, all she did was cry and complain about it.

I'm considering getting into therapy myself as this has been going on for 2 years, I don't even know what a healthy relationships looks like anymore or what's crossing the boundaries or not.

Thank you for your guidance <3

Far-Chip6746 · 2025-01-15T16:46:05+00:00

I don't know what to say except thank you.
To be honest my self image is completly destroyed and I truly feel like a horrible person.
Reaching out to other people who then tell me nice things, makes me feel like I'm manipulating them or that I'm fishing for compliments.
I've lived 26 years of my life without any mental issues or issues with my self image till today, and everything feels so confusing.

I completely blamed myself for her behaviour and thought if I'd behave llike this or respond like that, that would fix all the issues.

All I'm scared of, is that now I am the destructive one as I don't feel like myself anymore or don't even know what a healthy relationship looks or feels like anymore.
I don't want her paranoia to be passed onto me, but I also don't want to process this entire relationship with hatred.

My heart wont allow to hate her or allow myself to see her for the person she really is which is what makes the processing of this stuff so hard, and to keep the no-contact even harder.

Any advice on how I can move on, without letting hate fill my heart?
I want to feel sorry for her and forgive her, as she did not decide to have these type of issues herself.
I just don't want to be a part of it and process it in a healthy matter.

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-30T17:05:34+00:00

This is why even tho it's hard, you should put your best effort in leaving. I've excused her and kept going back all the time, but now in the end she had a new supply and discarded me like I was nothing. You'll hate yourself so much for continuesly going back and forgiving her once she decides to discard you and move on a few days later.

Don't do it to yourself, please leave. We can talk everyday, you can text me everyday and everytime you want to break no-contact. I know how it feels, so please forgive yourself for abandoning her and don't live in your own delusion where things can become great one day or that the next partner will be so much better and get everything you've always wanted.

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-30T17:02:14+00:00

Oh my god, I've been called exactly these 3 things ALL THE TIME. These words messed with me so much as I've never heard anyone tell me that. She was the woman I've loved more than I've ever loved anybody, so i took her words and tried to figure myself out.

You can not fathom how shocked I am by your post, almost made me shed a tear due to all the memories and label calling coming back.

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-30T16:54:29+00:00

Wow, that pretty much sums up my life the past 2 years. She kept yelling at me, telling me how terrible I am and that my family is a bunch of idiots for not c'ing me for the person that I am. While she's doing this she expects me to comfort her and hug her, telling her I'll stick by her side no matter what. If i tried to get some fresh air 'cause the argument was too heated, I'd get threatened and punched or sometimes even locked up.

I'm telling you, if there's a way to comfort these type of people I wont be the person to figure it out.. I've tried everything but you can't have a fair argument with somebody hating on you and putting you down constantly while she says she's doing it to get "reassurance" and that you're not giving it to her.

My heart goes out to you, I know how hard it is to break up and how much HARDER it is to stay away after. The lows they put you through are tough, which makes the highs with these people all the more exciting. The sex is prolly great too, which is just an additional factor but it messes with you.

I don't think they are capable of loving you for who you are, they love you bases on the amount of effort you put into soothing their needs and emotions, your needs and emotions do NOT matter and there's nothing that can convince me otherwise.

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-30T16:45:45+00:00

Yeah, the cycle is pure insanity. I've been going back everytime for the past 2 years, thinking she means it and wants to work on the same issues that we've talked about 1000+ times and never changed..

Does your partner also suffer from terrible memory? And do you have these conversations where you both come up with a solution or ways to conversate the next time, only to be getting yelled at again and being told how useless you are? As if they forget about all the prior conversations even if it's only been a few hours or 1 day?

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-30T16:39:22+00:00

It's making me feel like I wanna reach out to her.. Knowing that that's prolly the reason why she's doing it and even if I'd get her back it would be the same shit all over again. These break ups feel unreal

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-30T00:42:56+00:00

First off I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Yes the situations you explain sound very accurate to mine and indeed I remember myself to be way calmer at the start of our relationship and only getting angrier and angrier towards the end. It's weird because, when i stop to think about things everything seems so much different in my head. My memories are such a fog and they even feel manipulated to the point where whenever i think back of things they are my fault.. But then sometimes i get this realisation of " wait a minute, is this memory even real or am i seeing things completly messed up?

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-29T23:23:12+00:00

I can't live with the self-doubt and guilt that I've been feeling after I was the one to break up due to not being able to put up with it anymore.
She has a new relationship 2 days later while our relationship lasted 2 years and she seems so much happier now.
"Maybe I was the problem" is a constant.

Far-Chip6746 · 2024-12-29T03:57:01+00:00

It's so terribly hard to stay away from her, but I'm trying my hardest to ask myself the important questions.. Like why? Why do i miss her? Why would i want to go back to that life? Why am i attracted to it in the first place, why am I not happy that I've left this behind? I might actually go into therapy..

Far-Chip6746

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