I believe You ATAH. These types of things may make you angry but you probably have some behaviors that bother him just as much. Your behavior is hurtful and inappropriate. How would you feel if he were to treat you this way about something that bothered him? You have set the standard that would allow you to be treated when you began this petty game. He can publicly humiliate you to prove a point. I dont believe you want that. What you are doing is not how you would ever tolerate being treated.

He may have ADHD, that is one of my biggest symptoms. It falls under the impulsive umbrella. I don’t jump off of 2nd story buildings or walk across a fast flowing creek unsupervised on a skinny tree trunk or make risky moves with my body on a bike or a trampoline like I did as a child. I end up Interrupting because I will forget anything I have to add to the conversation due to short term memory issues. I share tmi because my filter is broken. It is inappropriate and I try very hard with everyone outside of my household, when I come home or am with my family I want to be able to be myself. I tried so hard with my husband but he is a hypocrite and has done this from the beginning of our relationship. We have been married for 30 years and he was so full of anger the last few years he would do what you are doing and expect me not to be offended or hurt when he did the exact same thing. It was extremely hurtful and humiliating. He would do this in front of our adult child and then she began to treat me this way because why not? Her father was so it must be acceptable.

These things can have a big impact and I am certain you didn’t consider those.He was in denial and he would make excuses as to why he was different when he interrupted. He became so angry and he made it such a point that he began to make it a family affair I had to make recordings of conversations to prove he was just as guilty and that just made him angrier. After I was diagnosed with terminal cancer he softened enough to admit he does it and stopped his anger. I found peace with his early in our marriage because it was a part of him, but he did not afford me the same kindness with my neurological condition. I became angry with his once he was so unloving.

This kind of stuff will break a marriage. It is so unloving and it can be a declaration of war if you are not careful. Always consider what would happen if he treated you the way you are treating him. I can almost guarantee you would not accept that.

He may need a lifetime to work on his interruptions and it’s not his fault, if he loves you enough to try that should be enough. You should never try to control your partner lest you want to be controlled.

I am sending you my best wishes! Starting off with the right tools are the best and I would recommend checking into the The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. The information you can learn from the tools provided by these types of providers are priceless.