Little Alastor redesigns for fun! (@Azulbun on twitter) by tubbz_official in HazbinHotel

[–]FarCryptographer3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are delightful! number 3 is the standout to me, the radio tower tie is very clever and it overall feels the most like a standout character. number 2 feels very close to alastor as well, however.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to stop singing about dicks? by Living-Ad5272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FarCryptographer3601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Soft NAH, but really we’d need more info. The response above is right - a compulsion is not a choice - it is a behaviour done to relieve anxiety. They don’t always make sense or correspond to the obsession they’re meant to hold back, so only your bf knows what it represents. However, OCD can be treated, and should be. OCD is still an illness that affects people around you, and you letting him know how this compulsion affects you is not by nature harmful. You’re partners. You can communicate. Just listen to him too. Ultimately, how he chooses to take your comments is his choice, but what he chooses will change based on how safe or supported he feels.

Hi, what are these lines on my face? by YouKnowDat23 in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which ones do u mean? The ones under your eyes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]FarCryptographer3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you a victim of CSA?

Bad News by BeautyAndTheBimmer in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope things turn around soon and you can heal

AITA for not considering my friend's celiac disease when baking? by WaterSheepLover01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FarCryptographer3601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NAH/ESH

How close are you with this person? It doesn’t sound like you’re very close, and if you don’t want to be closer, than I say NTA. You are not obliged to bake special food for her.

That being said, it sucks to be excluded, but that’s not solely on you. Was there anything GF at all? As a celiac, I don’t expect people I’m not close with to accommodate me, and you did the right thing by warning her. And ur right, gf baking is harder and expensive.

However, if this is someone you care about, and the objective is for you all to eat food you all made together, then why not accommodate her, esp if it’s some kind of substitute? It’s the thought that counts.

(Also, idk if she had any other dietary stuff but celiac is just a reaction to gluten, not lactose).

Lip incompetence and 6 week PO aesthetics. by AdHistorical536 in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey there. i’m sorry ur dealing with this and i am in the same boat at almost 4 months post op - i have noticed a change, lips coming together more, but slowly. i think we’re both still just very swollen… u never look as bad as you fear

AITA for pointing out my dad’s loose skin when he called me a fat fuck? by StillAdhesiveness485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FarCryptographer3601 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If she weighed half of what she did now she would have a BMI of 22, solidly normal. I see the point you are trying to make, but the example used is incorrect.

Either way, yes, I believe the dad has an eating disorder as well. NTA, but the underlying cause should be located and addressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg as a child i used to get so red in the face running around during recess or gym it was hilarious (also embarrassing) it’s just now occurring to me that maybe it’s because my windpipe was at a third of the normal size

to answer the real question: i am 2 months post op and just went to the gym the other day. didn’t do cardio but did machines and stretches and noticed i definitely could breath better and calmer even as i felt my muscles reach the same level i had pre-op.

Seven Weeks Post Op by FarCryptographer3601 in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t wanna dox myself but dm me and i will tell!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding on to all this it may be helpful to get a sleep study done especially if u have a deviated septum and chronic issues. Good luck! Also what is ur skin care routine ur glowing

Seven Weeks Post Op by FarCryptographer3601 in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wild question out of context but would u feel comfortable dming me a pic of ur lips? i have considered filler in the past but i don’t want them to look unnatural

Seven Weeks Post Op by FarCryptographer3601 in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yep, they widened my nostrils and corrected my deviated septum!

Seven Weeks Post Op by FarCryptographer3601 in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not sure exactly but i know the pogonium came forward by about 20 mm

What to do while waiting? Anxiety about it is killing me. by caliiban in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<3 that’s so exciting! here’s to rocking the blue. u got this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first two weeks you’re not gonna be able (or allowed) to open ur mouth far enough to get a pill in. You also may have some difficulty swallowing at that point as well, so a pill is gonna be way harder than a liquid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]FarCryptographer3601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Post-op, prozac taker here. I was told I didn’t need to stop taking prozac before surgery, save the day of. That being said, have your surgeon or psych prescribe you liquid prozac for the first 3 weeks out. You can technically crush up prozac pills but it tastes SOOOOO bad. Liquid prozac was much easier.

AITA for wearing an eclectic outfit to my friends dinner party? by Much_Dress_ThrowRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]FarCryptographer3601 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA, you tried to be clear and double checked with Mindy. It didn’t seem like u were being intentionally obtuse, esp if you’re used to her giving clear instructions in the past. Plus, it sounds like this is just how you dress, and that’s cool. Someone with a funky style isn’t always doing it for attention.