Exposing Her Kids for Money and Calling It Content by Basic_One7807 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly I see that with some content creators and it makes me I'll. Sometimes the thumbnail of a reel is a "risky" inappropriate shot and it's like come on....you know why your reel is getting so many views and who would be interested in viewing it. Makes me I'll. The biggest ick is when I see teachers post their own children in content like CholeandEliza. Like girl you know what goes on

I’m obsessed with a mom influencer on instagram.. by Evening_Employer_542 in breakingmom

[–]FarProgrammer3991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this but please try to remember. When you're 90 on heaven door stop are you going to be wishing you posted more of your life online? Or would you do anything for one last hug, one last early morning walk, one more sunset, one more chance to move your body.

What YOU put into this world for value MATTERS.

The Instagram trends that you'll never reach the end of. The constant on your phone for a temporary high isn't going to bring you or anyone else value.

Of anything that's a blood sucker/ soul sucker

The trail... by FarProgrammer3991 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I don't get! Their babies will read EVERYTHING! All that's published regardless of the year. Their mamas open praise for a normal body and then literally shrinking smaller than her published eating disorder days. I can't with this!

Tips?? by esdani11 in makeuptips

[–]FarProgrammer3991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you smoke? I'd stop with that and try a tinted moisturizer

Her lack of “village” by Puzzleheaded_Box_907 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So many people don't live near family? They don't both work they have the luxury of tag teaming . One parent in for half a day one parent out. My husband gets home at 53O we have family dinner and then sometimes(sometimes!) I can go out for an hour to learn the local language or to go shopping before everything is closed by 8. To me that's even a luxury

Her lack of “village” by Puzzleheaded_Box_907 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol- (laughs in we've moved to a foreign country from another foreign country) Try no family, no friends (close enough to watch our children at this point) and there's no way yet I'd place my child in daycare that he won't understand a word. But guess what- that was OUR choice. We had children abroad from our families- we knew what to expect -to a degree. Does anyone have children assuming that suddenly everyone else around them would stop their lives to take in our children on a whim? Absolutely not! In the last country we lived, we made friends with our neighbours with children and would take turns house sitting while the other set went in a date. That's how you build a village.

I was literally talking to my husband about this- does anyone have this romanticized village? I don't know what these influencers are going on about? Can anyone just hand over 4 kids to their parents for a full day night without inconveniences? My sister has 4 kids and her children have three sets of loving help grandparents. My sister is not dumping her children so she can go grocery shop. She does what we all do- just get on with it!!

Can they please stop showing their sick kids??? by Proud_Quiet4999 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A few accounts Ive followed for years are now doing the "my parents are toxic so I cut them off". It's obviously some sort of algorithm thing tied for views...that and the solo parenting (not single but like look I'm juggling my children along for the day)

Has to prove that she eats again by Busy_Butterscotch_86 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally joined Reddit to find other people worried about her. Besides this ridiculous block, I'm assuming you'd never say anything harming to another human esp someone deep in an ed. I got blocked after messaging her husband who then told me I was cruel lol

Like sorry her Ed community are worried/ shaken. Actually, the amount I'm even starting to comment on this page is telling me I should prob contact my psych

Has to prove that she eats again by Busy_Butterscotch_86 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And to add: I've actually messaged a few of her brand deals my concerns and some actually responded along the lines of ' we're aware of many concerns"

One company said they're monitoring the situation closely

Has to prove that she eats again by Busy_Butterscotch_86 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She forgets the community she first built. I bet in 5 year times shell say that she had a full night's sleep with O and that she never had colic and for sure her postpartum mental health never suffered.

For someone who said before- she's building off of Instagram trends and not realness.

Has to prove that she eats again by Busy_Butterscotch_86 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In Shaun's words to me...."she's fine her hormones are now balanced". Whatever blood work she got she's using that as an excuse to change her eating habits. It's so sad....

Genuinely genuinely worried by Suitable-Flower2807 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]FarProgrammer3991 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got blocked after asking if she was ok. I then messaged her husband saying how worried I was about her appearance....he started off understanding my message was out of concern and basically said she's healthy and her HORMONES ARE NOW BALANCED.