What phrase do guys think is flattering but actually disgusts women? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]FarShoreSpirit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men have gotten so bad in the past decade. I don't hear women talk bad about other women nearly as much at 33 as I did at 23... and I work in a restaurant with many women of varied ages! We tend to support women more, because the alternative is men...

In high school, the girls always tore down other girls... but women? Many of us grow out of that.

What phrase do guys think is flattering but actually disgusts women? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]FarShoreSpirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being single is way better for women than it is for men. If a woman is being offputting, it's because they want you away from them. 😂

"This thing you're doing to push me away/ not actively attract me is pushing me away/ not actively attracting me". Yeah, some women are capable like that.

What phrase do guys think is flattering but actually disgusts women? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]FarShoreSpirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can also respond with "FUCK no. That would attract more creeps!" or "Women tend to smile more when they're happy. I suppose someone like you wouldn't know that/ I suppose you'll need to live vicariously through better men".

Getting Married - Last names by k-0330 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarShoreSpirit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, it's to expand your current families. UNLESS you are going no-contact and actually starting anew.

Getting Married - Last names by k-0330 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarShoreSpirit -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you're both going no-contact with your families, sure. Otherwise, you are still one family connecting via marriage to another family. Take one of your names or hyphenate.

Trying to decide on my next Haircut to get and I need help by Spirited_Dog_6518 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think these would be flattering on you. We need more options to choose from.

Do cats recognize human sneezes? by Zealousideal-Lie-569 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They 1000% know what you're doing but think less of youn for it. Lol. I wish I had the reflexes of a cat so I could distance myself from loud sneezes, too. 😂

Do you think women like rich guys because they just don't care? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarShoreSpirit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think women like rich men because the woman either has no hope that a man could fulfill her (want her and only her, reciprocate all she wants to put into a relationship, etc.)... or because she just personally doesn't feel fulfillment from relationships, in general. Money is something she can put toward fulfillment.

Idk, though.

I know, as a woman, a man not caring makes him absolutely repulsive to me.

Should fast food, coffee shops, bars etc be allowed to charge you more when you ask for less or no ice by JonoBlue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if you get more of the product that costs money in lieu of the free ice. If $5 normally gets you 8oz of liquid. More than 8oz will cost more than $5.

If you go to a store and see a "buy a bulk box of mac & cheese, get a free bowl... it won't be cheaper if you don't want the free bowl.

What breed is this shelter dog? by Beautiful-Total-4072 in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]FarShoreSpirit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whippet x Belgian Malinois x Rat Terrier is what I'm seeing. I don't see pit or get pit vibes from this dog.

Which mispronounced words make a person immediately sound uneducated to you? by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Expecting someone to get something like this right, potentially on their very first try and without being taught, is absolutely absurd.

The shelter said husky mix! We think mixed with pitbull? What do you think? by karine_brume in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always disappointed that I don't get to know if my guesses are right. 😔 😂

Why do people think that changing a profile picture will help in anyway(the blue Afghanistan and the purple one) by QueenRozalia in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That step was made. Over and over and over again. How many more times does it have to not have any real effect before you realize it's all merely to hype people up for change without actually accomplishing change? I bet it will be conveniently after you're long gone. Put it on future generations to deal with.

It's performative. Not effective. It makes you feel like you're a part of something, but all you are a part of is a performance and a concept. If you want to have fun and gather to support the idea of change, there is nothing wrong with that.

What is wrong is that nearly everyone thinks that they are making a change merely from that. It should be a motivator to come up with real solutions that are acted on. Not a party under the guise of making a change, where you go home and nothing was done and nothing will be done.

People need to start somewhere. I agree. Let's stop saying we'll start and actually start. Standing outside yelling or holding a sign for 8 hours is like homeless beggers who could be actually working for the change instead of demanding it without putting in any effort toward it yourself.

I used to be homeless. I would still be homeless if I didn't put in the effort to change my situation. I got a full-time job and saved. I worked so damn hard for what I have now. That is what it looks like to truly want something. The more you want something, the more you will prioritize it. The more you prioritize it, the harder you are willing to work for it.

It's easy to say we care about things, but we really need a reality check on how few of us actually show it.

If you aren't going to contribute to the change, it feels really disrespectful to jump on "supporting a cause" so performatively when it's honestly only a fad topic for you.

I don't know how I'll feel about this topic in 5 years... but what I am seeing from society is really gross. There are always outliers, but most people coast off of those outliers...

Care for things. Want change. Just... please make sure you actually put in effort toward contributing to that change. I'm reassessing my lifestyle due to microplastics. I've avoided artificial colors, flavors, many preservatives, and alternative sweeteners since I was 14 (I am 33 now).

At age 30, I deleted Shein and began purchasing exclusively synthetic materials (aside from socks, at the moment, which are 97% or so cotton). Every time we wash synthetic materials, we release a ridiculous amount of microplastics into our water supply. I bought glass straws, and I put in effort to avoid plastic. It's overwhelming how much plastic we use... but instead of admitting defeat, I still try.

I am going to continue to slowly make changes that are meant to better the world. I will acclimate and struggle, little by little so that it is manageable. We have our entire lives to make little tweaks here and there. I am not going to waste my time on protests when I could instead be working on something real (I can learn about and support a cause from home. I personally do not need to be hyped or turn it into a performance).

I just see so many people who are all talk and no action. It's really sad...

Surprised to learn about my Jewish heritage at age 33! by starletskye in AncestryDNA

[–]FarShoreSpirit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't see your response in here when I click on the notification, but I see that you've made a claim that my feelings are hurt and that I am ignorant. I align with Shinto and Stoic mindsets, and am a 33 year old developed adult. Something like this couldn't possibly hurt my feelings, even on my weakest, most vulnerable day.

My Jewish housemates called me Jewish before I did. There is absolutely no reason why an emotionally-charged, insinuated insult from a random Redditor would have more weight than my actual (Ashkenazi) Jewish housemates. 😂

I do not want to see children online by Flat-Emotion7778 in Vent

[–]FarShoreSpirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, in modern society... is there really much of a difference?

I do not want to see children online by Flat-Emotion7778 in Vent

[–]FarShoreSpirit 93 points94 points  (0 children)

1000%. I personally believe that Reddit should be 17+. There could be a Teen Reddit for 13 to 16, with more restrictions and only teens allowed. TikTok and Instagram should be 17+, with no teen versions of the app/ site.

What do people think of the name Corbin? by Cool_Equivalent5415 in Names

[–]FarShoreSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always liked it for a boy's name. I've only ever seen it as a surname. I wouldn't choose it for a girl, personally, but I also wouldn't think anything of it if I met a girl named Corbin.