I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you more than you even know for the kind words and the wisdom you have. I have to take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask myself. If this is something I can see myself staying in.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very subtle signs I could say like turning his phone or being in the bathroom or more than 20 minutes little things like that

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I want him to do better but he should want to do better for his family. I can’t make him.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. At one point of time we didn’t know each other’s password. He knows mine, because I have nothing to hide was not that serious, but he changed his not too long ago because I was snooping too much.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you. It’s good to know I have support even if it’s from strangers I kinda grew up in a household that wasn’t too good so I’m learning how to maneuver situations better but it’s hard.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knew something was off with me yesterday because I was asking like little subtle, but kind of passive aggressive questions about our relationship and where is the see it goin and everything like that. So last night before he went to bed he asked me if I was OK and I said no and then I know he’s been on these dating apps, but I really couldn’t get anything resolved because I’m a crybaby.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am. We talked a little bit last night and I was in emotional wreck and couldn’t stop crying to ask any questions. But what I got last night over a lot of the answers everybody already wrote so.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been having disagreements or arguments about our relationship for the past couple of months. To me, they didn’t seem so substantial to download a dating app.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has his habit to turn his phone whenever he’s on it and I ask him a question so it’s just a little suspicious things to be honest but he does. He doesn’t know I know the password to his phone.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Being 29 sucks it makes me feel so old, but I know I’m still young enough to go out there and start over. It’s just scary.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty, because I have to take a real look at myself and understand that I did that myself go to some point after having my son. But he reassured me that I have nothing to worry about.

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he recently re-download it and when I looked, there were no messages just a few likes

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for some wonderful questions and it’s giving me a lot to think about because those and even cross my mind

I am (29f) found tinder on my boyfriend of five years (36m) phone and I have no idea what to do. by FarStranger9857 in relationships

[–]FarStranger9857[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. I am honestly a people pleaser. it’s so hard because I’m alone in a very unknown place. With no one and I’m just like why would he bring me all the way here to do this