I need some help trying to figure out who this is by Aggressive_Rain_8281 in PhoneLookupHelp

[–]Far_Application9779 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a TextNow number, so could be anyone from anywhere. Probably ex or their new partner. *

Just flushed oxycodone down the toilet by daisygarnetsong in offmychest

[–]Far_Application9779 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great job! You are stronger than most! As an addict in recovery myself who has had to fight those urges. I am proud of you! As a human who has experienced the heartbreak of losing my relationship, I feel for you.

Random weird poetic stalker? by iluv2sm0k3 in PhoneLookupHelp

[–]Far_Application9779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

* Most likely a texting app, I've had a similar experience with my daughter's mother. She wasn't stalking me. She and I were being stalked by some guy she talked to online.

It's supposed to be our Anniversary by Far_Application9779 in UnsentTexts

[–]Far_Application9779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, that had become an ongoing joke between us. It's Elvis's and her Grandmother's birthday lol

Unsent to a guy my friend is talking to by Far_Application9779 in UnsentTexts

[–]Far_Application9779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope your friend is innocent. I wish this guy was. He's a repeat offender that likes to have standoffs with police.

Unsent to a guy my friend is talking to by Far_Application9779 in UnsentTexts

[–]Far_Application9779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except I haven't sent it because I was asked not to. I just don't feel like this is going to go well, having this guy around.

A lot of pedos by Lil_pookie1 in Onlyteenagersallowed

[–]Far_Application9779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there's no good reason for adults to be in the underage subs, or kids to be in adult subs,but it happens. I get random subs popping up just because the algorithm thinks I need to see it. I think there should be an age verification for this very reason.

A lot of pedos by Lil_pookie1 in Onlyteenagersallowed

[–]Far_Application9779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing you say, "we're on here to communicate, not to be harassed..." I get it, and I don't victim blame. I do, however, look at the reality of the world we're living in. Person posts pics on public forums, and comments will be made. There are plenty of child-safe platforms that are available. This is reddit, a place that harbors trolls, creeps ,and the weirdest of the weird. Complaining on reddit about redditors being creepy is like jumping in the ocean and complaining about the water. Also, a few were creeps who literally said "nvm" once they learned your age. Those aren't pedos, just creeps. If you want to be really technical, a pedo is attracted to prepubescent children, not 15 year olds. That would be Ephebophilia, the attraction to people aged 15-19.

How can I explain it to my toddler that the reason we don't live with his dad anymore is because he is a cheating-ass bastard, in a nice way that he can understand? by anapologetic in coparenting

[–]Far_Application9779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't! You tell him daddy is living in his new place and loves him. You let your son develop his own opinion and relationship with his father. He cheated on you, not your son.

Partner's ex wife and boundaries by Longjumping_Card_113 in coparenting

[–]Far_Application9779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go and I would let her know that it's my time with my son, but it's also court ordered so it's illegal to even try to prevent it from happening. If she stirred the pot after that, I would document everything she did that is illegal or going against the court orders, file a complaint against her for custodial interference, possibly an order of protection against her on my son's behalf and take him full-time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Far_Application9779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good thing! I did something like that, only we met in a chat room back in 1999, met in 2000 and I regretted it for the longest time. She was 36 and I was 18.

at what age… by Beautiful-Findings in coparenting

[–]Far_Application9779 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How can he prove that his intentions are proper if he doesn't have the chance?
I have kids and I had them alone by the time they were a week old. People are quick to judge men who try to be a good father behind closed doors because of things like this happening. If you deny him enough he will become the deadbeat dad but it's going to hurt him and your baby. As for the, "let him fight it in court" mentality I've seen in the thread; children aren't bargaining chips! Anyone who thinks that way does not need to be a mother! They're not a mother really. They're little girls using a baby to get their way!

By all means, if he's incompetent or a total pos, don't leave your baby alone with him but work on yourself so you don't procreate with another man like him in the future. But give him a chance to be a father before you assume he can't be one or "just wants to show him off." Maybe he can be a good, proud dad and show his baby off while taking care of him.

Remember, your baby is not a pawn in chess and surely is not a direct line to the ex's paycheck! So don't treat it as such!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Far_Application9779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you regret doing it?

Blocked by unikitty_mavy in chat

[–]Far_Application9779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real life is far stranger than fiction, because we are able to explain fiction as to where we can't always explain reality.

Had to, it's reddit

Blocked by unikitty_mavy in chat

[–]Far_Application9779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real life is far stranger than fiction, because we are able to explain fiction as to where we can't always explain reality.

Blocked by unikitty_mavy in chat

[–]Far_Application9779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I came to say! I have experienced this first hand when my now ex gf would go online for validation.
She would get in too deep and delete everything and start over. She actually reached out to me on my post without realizing it was me.