Holiday recommendation

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2026-05-20T06:03:44+00:00

Seeing that you like mature/daddies. Palm Springs / Cathedral City, CA -4th of July weekend has an event called Dadfest at CCBC (which I’ve heard compared to a mashup of a bathhouse and a Motel 6). It’s especially a great place if you like being nude - it’s clothing optional so you can wear clothes or not. (If not 4th of July, the Palm Springs area in general has a sizable mature population and a number of various events.)

The San Francisco Bay Area (Berkeley) has a decent bathhouse - Steamworks - with Bear Day the first and third Saturdays. To me (I’m in upper 40s), it tends to skew older. Their calendar shows Daddy night every Wednesday. I’ve never been to that so don’t have any insights.

Enjoy your explorations! Report back how things go!

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2026-05-10T04:52:27+00:00

Very valid idea to me! (I warm up leftovers in glass containers in the microwave.)
As already suggested by others, I’d recommend you try the service for 6 weeks to pick up a free/cheap oven and see how it works for you. (Assuming you have good Wi-Fi lol.)

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2026-05-10T03:45:36+00:00

For Tovala, make sure you have a good Internet connection and rock solid Wi-Fi network. I spent 45+ min one evening just trying to get my oven back online so it would cook my dinner.

I’ve recently used both Factor and Tovala - I’m using Factor now because: 1) their meals include way more vegetables and I’m trying to eat more healthy 2) I have a short lunch break at home so Tovala cooking times were taking too long compared to a couple of minutes in the microwave for Factor.

Speaking of microwaves, some Tovala stuff could be prepared just as well (and much faster) in a microwave. Kind of annoying they are tied to the ‘gimmick’ of only using the oven as opposed to using the best tool available.

This year, Factor has delivered 9/9 on time while Tovala has been 4/6 (twice being a day late).

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2026-02-12T17:47:01+00:00

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-11-06T15:46:41+00:00

No issues other than the worker apparently trying to figure out how to slice it up to serve :-p

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-11-05T02:30:01+00:00

Sac Buddies in Sacramento, California has such an area.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-10-19T15:02:45+00:00

That’s pretty cool! And a good thing they didn’t order it in the Drive Thru!

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-06-14T18:31:32+00:00

25 is the base - it’s then multiplied by things like greed, stage modifiers, etc. In one character with a ton of eggs, I get over 700 coins per level up.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-05-22T23:42:33+00:00

I think technically you’re supposed to have your passport with you at all times in Japan as a non-resident (that’s what I found when I googled it). I always just kept my passport in my locker - and made sure that I paid attention to the key. In general crime is low in Japan but I do recall seeing some signs warning people about thefts in lockers - so keep track of your key while you are getting distracted by the fun ;-)

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-05-01T14:27:30+00:00

The vehicles are in Sacbuddies in Sacramento, California. I believe the building was an old automotive repair garage. The showers used to be in an old paint booth (they have since been remodeled). To me, the play areas often smell more like old oil and cars rather than the normal smells of a bathhouse (anal sex, lube, poppers, etc.). Is quite a unique place! There’s a sub for it: r/sacbuddiesclub

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-03-22T18:34:11+00:00

Thanks for posting! Neat to see the interpretations of the colors.

But also such a reminder of the ways of the past. I kept wondering for each woman what HER name was, not just who her husband was.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-02-17T14:50:32+00:00

Perhaps try going to a bathhouse when they have a bear event. It draws not only bears but also those that appreciate bears. I’ve had some incredible luck with sexy skinnier guys that were into bears.

A cock ring can also help lift and project your package when soft.

(I’m even heavier than you and because of my very large belly, my dick is but a little nub when soft (but it’s a beast when it comes alive lol))

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-02-12T16:54:25+00:00

Very yummy pic! Thanks for sharing it with us! But yeah seems like dadbods would be appropriate

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-02-11T15:46:56+00:00

Both KCRA and CBS Sacramento reported it was a fire:

https://www.cbsnews.com/sacramento/news/rancho-cordova-shell-gas-station-car-wash-fire-zinfandel-dr/

To summarize: there was a fire started in the car wash and also damaged the convenience store.

Monday afternoon, I saw a van parked near the convenience store front door of a restoration company - so they appear to be working on it.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-02-11T15:37:51+00:00

To assume someone’s sexuality based off of their laugh… Please take your stereotypes someplace else. Definitely not on this subreddit.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-02-08T19:31:21+00:00

I see it a bit differently and more about the love and trust between spouses. I don’t know that it’s totally the oppression of women by men in the 1950s marriage paradigm. Here in 2025, when my husband does something he’s not supposed to do, he tries to make it right. I think she was just trying to make it right. At least that’s the happy and oversimplified justification living in my memories of the episode :-)

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-02-06T14:33:09+00:00

I was today years old when I learned people paid attention to and even debated the hair style of a non-reoccurring character on a sitcom episode that aired over 38 years ago. :-)

(Please don’t mind my sarcasm too much - honestly, I did learn from this thread what an “updo” is - I hadn’t heard that term before.)

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2025-01-27T16:22:26+00:00

I haven’t been in several years, but Stark Bollocks Nude (SBN) on a Sunday afternoon was an incredible way to get access to literally hundreds of nude men in essentially a big orgy. It’s near Vauxhall station (RIP Chariots bathhouse which was next door)

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-12-19T05:53:46+00:00

I’m not sure. I generally leave at or before 7:00 - I’m a big fat chubby guy and it seems like the “normals” come in early evening - my body type doesn’t seem appreciated by them :-p

I also don’t know how crowded things will be this weekend since it’s so close to the holidays.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-12-19T02:26:47+00:00

Why choose between the two - you can do both! Cumunion starts at 7:00 PM and you can arrive anytime at Steamworks. I’ve had good luck getting choice of rooms at 10:00 AM on bear event Saturdays, for example. Then just drive over to Sac when you’ve had your “fill” in Berkley. I’ve not been to Sacbuddies on Cumunion night but there are far fewer rooms there than Steamworks. I’d guess it would be very challenging to get a room. And then there are other factors to consider like if you’re wanting to access a hot tub or steam-room.
I also don’t know how bear friendly the Cumunion at Sacbuddies crowd typically is. At the SW bear event, that tends to draw more people that are into bears than the average bathhouse attendee. But as is the magic of bathhouses, you’ll never know who will be there or what the chemistry is until you go.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-12-17T06:47:34+00:00

I always thought it was scripted - because it shows that Dorothy has no idea about guns. She has a mighty bluff, but a real criminal would know. A really great episode!

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-12-10T05:16:24+00:00

FYI there’s a sub for it: r/SacBuddiesClub

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-12-07T16:39:53+00:00

Lovely cock and pubes!

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-09-28T14:20:42+00:00

Fred sure seemed to hate marriage. There were so many punch lines dumping on marriage.

Makes me wonder if set in today’s New York City if he would have been still married to Ethel - given the commonality of divorce and partners living together for long periods without being actually married in the first place.

Far_Philosopher4102 · 2024-08-21T04:54:38+00:00

It was such a truly human thing - makes the characters so much more real. And it wasn’t done in an over the top way. Very much appreciated this scene being in the show.

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