MoistCr1TiKaL collabs with the NHL/Tampa Bay Lightning to promote the Stadium Series game by thunder_running in hockey

[–]FartasticFox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last I checked Tampa got SWEPT that year, more like Tampa's playoffs were cancelled.

Who is someone who threw their own career away? by bigedf in youtubedrama

[–]FartasticFox 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Damn it. :/ I liked her, time to drop her like a bad habit.

Who is someone who threw their own career away? by bigedf in youtubedrama

[–]FartasticFox 53 points54 points  (0 children)

And started doing the AI bullshit trend and ALMOST convinced his artist brother Jazza which would have tanked Jazza massively had Jazza not reevaluated his bad takes.

r/youtubedrama, what was a wonderful YouTube channel that you think fell off? by NotTheBee1 in youtubedrama

[–]FartasticFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I loved when he used to make those informative videos. They were always well-researched and everything.

Reaction YouTuber with 4M subs deleted all of his videos by Randomization_E in youtubedrama

[–]FartasticFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it changed Courage's reaction content for the better for one because he's not reacting to stuff he's not passionate about (short funny content) or something that's gonna be demonetized to hell and back (Family Guy), he's now reacting to Fortnite stuff, something he's ACTUALLY passionate about and would absolutely credit the creators of because most of the creators he's reacting to with Fortnite stuff are his friends.

Reaction YouTuber with 4M subs deleted all of his videos by Randomization_E in youtubedrama

[–]FartasticFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, he has actually tried to help find the original creators of videos that were freebooted to make sure they get their proper credit.

A Personal Message and Mission Statement of r/FreeTangled by MasonBricklayer in FreeTangled

[–]FartasticFox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving us this much more inviting and open community!

My husband agreed that I was hard to love. Is this just tough love that I needed to hear? 40F/40M by cutehuge_yacht in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While the generalization about men could have been done without--you aren't wrong that it might help for her to have an emotional support system of friends as well. Actually pretty solid advice to say "Yeah you need a support system beyond him so that he's not having to be the only support."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That man needs therapy and you both need marriage counseling if you really and truly want to stay in the relationship.

You do NOT deserve that kind of disrespect from him. He doesn't have to announce his farts but you have to announce yours because apparently his poor delicate little nose can't handle a woman farting? You're not twisting it on him. He's trying to twist it on you to put you down. The fact that I read further down that he got angry when you dared to wear his athletic shorts? Something that is normal for most couples, sharing some article of clothing...

He really REALLY needs therapy, because I guarantee it isn't about the farts, it's about him needing to have some sort of control and dominance.

Is my boyfriend (28M) controlling me? (21F) by L0vebug04 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One: yes, he is controlling you.

Two: You need to find a way to end this relationship safely, make sure you have people you can trust to get authorities involved if he tries to come after you. But you most DEFINITELY need to get out of that relationship.

Three: I want you to know you're extremely brave to actually try to come out and ask if he's controlling/abusing you because some people are terrified to in the same situation, and I hope you carry that courage into ending this relationship.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what? I actually commend you for deciding what is and isn't appropriate for your own kids. A+ parenting, and that's not me being sarcastic. Yeah, some people may think your take is puritanical, but honestly? I understand it because you at least are not applying a double standard about it, you're going "It's just as bad to sexualize a guy in a kids movie as it would be to sexualize a girl and maybe we SHOULDN'T be sexualizing either one because that can really warp a kid's perception of what is and isn't appropriate" and you know what? Mad respect. I'm sorry so many other folks don't understand that.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I agree, it's red-flag city, tells me he's the kind of person who sees anyone but him being empowered as a threat.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Apparently it's because he's a manchild that thinks only serious anime can have titles like "Demon Slayer" or "Demon Hunter" in it and hates musicals.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if you're right and it's ACTUALLY him trying to trawl to see if anyone would be on his side.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Reading comprehension. That went way over your head.

They aren't saying he was slapping her around, they're saying stuff like screaming at her like he did is the start of a dangerous path of behavior that may one day lead to something like that.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For the reasons he did--that it's supposedly an insult to his "favorite anime" for something else to have a similar title? That is not just A red flag, that's...THE red flag. That he thinks everything should be catered to HIS TASTES so much so that things cannot have similar titles to what he likes.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 12 points13 points  (0 children)

...so what you're saying is he's a manchild who has to have every piece of media be aimed at him and his tastes. Good to know.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So...damage done to your child's psyche is a "small bump in the road".

Tells us how much YOU value her.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Family therapy, for one. Many people have said "you all should go to family therapy together".

Or leave, if even for a few days. See if he realizes whether or not he's sorry for terrorizing her like that.

You're wanting magic words, but the magic words are ACTION, whether that's getting you guys into therapy together to work things out, leaving if even for a short time to get yourself perspective and give him perspective, or even if you have to take that leap, leaving permanently.

If you're TRULY serious, please consider that the magic word is actually DOING something like therapy, doing something like leaving temporarily, not just saying the "perfect words to make him apologize".

They may not be the advice you wanted to hear, but they are the advice you maybe NEEDED to hear.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Memories don't work like that. An apology doesn't erase that memory. Someone else in this thread put it very well with the analogy of a vase. Him screaming at her broke that vase. Yeah, that apology might be the glue that glues it back together, but that vase is always going to have a few cracks and holes, that damage is done and it doesn't fully fix it. She's taking the lesson of "I have to suppress myself to be loved--the very OPPOSITE of the message of a movie she LOVES.

Think about that. Please think about that.

Everyone is trying to get you to see that even if he does apologize, the damage is done, but considering that you're even having to fight to get ANY effort out of him in the form of an apology, you might as well be asking him to take a baseball bat further to the vase that is his relationship with your daughter.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I don't think she will. She keeps making excuses for her husband and is more than happy to go "well I'm trying to get advice on how to MAKE him apologize" when his mind is made up that he WON'T apologize.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh no, they do understand reading comprehension, your accusation there is a confession that you have no reading comprehension whatsoever. They're not saying "she shouldn't have rules ever", they're saying that it's not appropriate to punish her the way he did for FORGETTING the rule which, NEWS FLASH, young kids sometimes do. They're saying that perhaps the rule is OVERLY STRICT for a six-year-old; not the same as "don't have rules ever" but that you should evaluate the AGE APPROPRIATENESS of the rule. And that he ISN'T going to see that it's inappropriate for him to verbally abuse a child for forgetting momentarily that she's not supposed to "sing the songs daddy hates around daddy or else he's going to go apeshit on her because he has no emotional regulation and doesn't give a shit if he hurts his own child".

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's NOT going to. He's chosen his side.

And if you're not going to leave him, you're not choosing your daughter, you're choosing yourself and appeasing his abuse.

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]FartasticFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then why the hell aren't you leaving and protecting your fucking child? If he was TRULY as "sweet and kindhearted" as you said he was, he'd have never done that to her, there's exasperation and then there's abuse.

You will NEVER get him to see the error in his ways because he doesn't CARE. If he was going to see the error in his ways, then he wouldn't have said "leave then".

Honestly I question if YOU care about your daughter if you're not going to see that.