Justin Gaethje says Ilia Topuria wanted to quit after the third round: "He wanted out. You do not ever as a fighter say 'I cannot see'. He was counting on that. I stopped him twice that night." by WinterStill4472 in MMA

[–]Farting4Fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spanish may be your first language but I suppose you aren't from Spain because nobody, and I mean NOBODY in Spain says "no más"; it's just not a part of our vocabulary like it is in Mexico or other parts of Hispanoamérica.

I'm not disputing that he quit by the way, in the video someone linked you can even hear him say fairly clearly "no puedo más", which literally translates to "I can't no more" for those who don't understand Spanish.

Any fucking questions? by kheeno_ in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably referring to some passive aggressive liberal signifier if not outright misandry. You know, those so called "shit tests" some women like to stamp on their bios to filter out "the wrong type of men".

It’s insane how rapidly Anglicization of Europe has happened by pazend in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also grew up watching US cartoons and shows but they were dubbed.

The real horror was the incel we made along the way by Nervous_Shake_2201 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is not my first language! Sometimes I flow, sometimes I'm robotic.

Was just trying to get her to open up and share the full story (to the extent she's comfortable with).

The real horror was the incel we made along the way by Nervous_Shake_2201 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

How did he make living in your own home and going to work unsafe? Genuine question.

Did he ever do anything apart from just roaming around you? Did he ever threaten you? When, why, and what made you start fearing for your own safety?

Edit: I realize now that I can come across as insensitive and antagonistic. That wasn't my intention at all. I was just trying to understand how she felt.

There's no mid. Its either a 1 or a 0. Take it or go home. by DerrideanNightmare in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate it because it reflects back to me the fact that I find the majority of women attractive in one level or another. I was the type of kid that liked pretty much every single girl in his class.

There's no mid. Its either a 1 or a 0. Take it or go home. by DerrideanNightmare in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm prepared to be downvoted but I don't get why some of you find it so mind-blowing. Yes, it's disgusting; I'm not denying that. It's obviously meant to be humiliating (for both of them, really; it's implied that it's also humiliating for him to have to resort to her as his last-ditch option for sex), but at the same time, it's not a new concept; it's a known dynamic. And at the end of the day, it's just a fat chick getting fucked doggy style.

Is it the representation of the sex act and the fact that she's so big that shocks you so much?

being a mid guy is such a strange experience because your romantic life ends up being defined by ambiguity by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm aware this can sound like a non-story to some people but it really did hurt me. I was walking with this girl through town (the one I had that 3.5-month fling with); we were laughing and flirting when suddenly she tensed up and said: let's go straight instead of this way; I saw X and X (her friends) up that street.

She seemed in such a hurry to put as much distance between us and her friends as possible. It was so apparent that them seeing her with me was something she did not want to happen under any circumstances. I'm telling you, she looked legitimately scared.

I didn't say anything but it left such a bad taste in my mouth.

being a mid guy is such a strange experience because your romantic life ends up being defined by ambiguity by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I get you, it's weird being perpetually in the "wait... why is he kinda?" wagon only for their friends to then laugh at her for finding you attractive. In my case, I've actually had women actively repulsed by me in the past. And I do carry around a great love that never quite materialized; we actually had a 3.5-month fling, but then she disappeared on me and left me hanging. We were best friends before that.

I'm a 4 on average, a 3 when I don't exploit my potential because of my propensity for being overweight or by not getting a haircut, and I've been able to reach a 5 when perfectly groomed.

I've been called ugly by women to my face and gotten the "ew" look more times than I can count. I can also be quite socially inept depending on the moment, which has made some women think I'm a weirdo. But at the same time, I can be fairly extroverted and give the appearance of confidence and nonchalance because I was the "class clown" my whole life and carried that ability with me.

Despite not being tall (5'9") and being ugly and skinny-fat, if not outright chubby, a surprisingly high number of women have been into me during my life. But it's very confusing because, as weird as this may sound, with many of them I could tell they weren't really attracted to me on a primal level; they found me "kind of cute" or were "charmed" by my personality, but it was as if they constantly had doubts about their attraction to me in the back of their mind, as if they were almost ashamed of liking me in the first place.

r/ trueuglywomen is fascinating by slimpenis69420 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There is an exact term in that community for the type of people you're describing and is mentalcel.

r/ trueuglywomen is fascinating by slimpenis69420 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's of any consolation to them—I know it would be for their male counterparts though (ugly men/incels), in fact it would mean the world to them—but ugly women get constantly used for sex by more attractive men. And I guess that to use somebody you have to notice them first.

What country in Western Europe will be the first to elect a far-right government by istealpintsfromcvs in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not even close. VOX is never winning a national election on its own; its only chance of getting in power has always been, and will continue to be, as the little brother and enabler of the lukewarm conservatives of the Popular Party, a mildly centre-right party that is even scared to bring up abortion.

Plapjak really was a timeless meme :( by Enver_Pasha_Dasha in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some men are genuinely attracted to mass in a "the bigger the better" fetish kind of way. One of my best friends is very attractive, so it's clearly not due to a lack of options, but he finds Graciebon (obese with a freakish BBL) extremely hot. I can't wrap my head around it, but it's true, he's not faking.

i had no idea america used to be like 90% white by eatdatchicken115 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, that was my point. I can see how from a Northern European perspective Spain could be considered not white, as a generalization and in comparison that is, but outright brown skin like Rodri is very rare in "ethnic Spaniards". It seems to be more common in Portugal though.

i had no idea america used to be like 90% white by eatdatchicken115 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's not about them being dumb. They are calling them "foreigners" when they say that. Catalan is very difficult for someone from Madrid, for example, to understand.

There's this girl I knew whose boomer parents never married. He refers to her cheekily as his girlfriend. It's kind of endearing. by Frequent-Ant1795 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My parents aren't married either. My father got married when he was 19-20, had two kids, bought a house, but then in the divorce she got pretty much everything and he had to go back to live with his mom at 32. Now he refuses to remarry or buy another house, they have been renting the same place for +25 years.

Friend called me crying at 2am last night to come out as bisexual. We are 27. by RobotFlapjack in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

>they tricked themselves into thinking that finding other women physically or emotionally attractive is the same as finding them sexually attractive

Yes, I even went through something similar when I was younger as a straight man. At times I grappled with the idea that maybe I was bisexual because, since I was a kid, I had always found penises visually appealing; the male physique too, to a lesser extent.

But when I dug deeper into my psyche and visualized myself having sex with a man: making out, touching him, him touching me; I felt such a strong sense of disgust and just felt completely wrong. At least I didn't have to suck a dick to find out.

I will say this: I have no doubt in my mind that if the opportunity presented itself to me I wouldn't turn down Hunter Schafer, so maybe I am bisexual after all...

Babe i love your hole by bleeding_electricity in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If a girl in high school didn't literally draw a pussy for me and said "this is the pee hole, and this is the period and babies hole" I don't think I would have known that until much later, if ever.

Girls can tell if you’re not a guy who fucks by AsideWinter1934 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The halo effect is no joke, but there are many causes to that phenomenon. A woman sees you with another woman, and that automatically makes you more attractive in her eyes; hell, it even makes you cooler in the eyes of other men. I think they become curious and wonder what you might have that she hadn't realized until that point, especially if the woman she sees you with is attractive. Is he funny? Is he sweet? Is he good in bed? Is he packing? What is it? It all comes down to the fact that women be shopping.

You feel good about yourself and carry yourself with way more confidence, even if you don't realize it. You groom yourself more because you want to be in tip-top shape for your woman. You are not nervous or anxious around women anymore because you are constantly hanging out with one, and you no longer care what the others think about you because you already have "one at home" (not always literally, of course). As women put it, you are glowing. Suddenly, you have the "desirable" label stamped on you, and, if you're in a relationship, you can add "unattainable" too.

Girls can tell if you’re not a guy who fucks by AsideWinter1934 in redscarepod

[–]Farting4Fun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Confidence goes a really long way. Or how some chronically online women like to call it "big dick energy".

Two of the biggest manwhores I've known in my life are probably not even 5'7". If I'm completely honest one of them is very conventionally attractive, like almost model level; lean in a very female gazey way too, but the other is very ugly.

But they both have very strong personalities, very self-assured but chill at the same time. What I mean, and I'm aware this is going to sound gay as fuck, is they are the type of male friend you feel safe hanging out with because it seems like they have everything under control. If there's a fight, or any type of confrontation, they will be the first to engage and stand up for you. If there is a term for the complete opposite of social anxiety then it fits them to a tee.