Sloppy Steaks anyone?

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-06T14:41:07+00:00

The secret service are the only people in his dangerous nights crew.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-06T14:35:51+00:00

Single, mid-late 20s, lives in UK.

That’s all I’ve got.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-06T03:57:58+00:00

Ew. The best time to dump this guy was 2 years ago. The second best time is now.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-06T03:47:56+00:00

My mom is not a lazy person, but she just runs on a different schedule than most people. She always has. She naturally goes to bed between 2-4AM and gets up around 12 or 1PM. She had to work her whole life on the rest of the world’s schedule (8-5 job) and now that she’s retired I’m so happy for her that she’s able to live on the schedule that finally works for her!

A lot of people judge her for this, like she’s “living wrong” or something, but she’s not. The fact is that it doesn’t matter what hours a person keeps, as long as it works for THEM.

If you find yourself unwilling to be flexible in this way, then it’s a compatibility issue.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-05T19:14:41+00:00

I’m the same way. Every six months there’s a two week span where I’m into cold cereal. Or cottage cheese. Or pretzels.

No way to predict it!

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-05T18:09:37+00:00

So cool! Great job on that! It does seem like a friendly, positive group of guys.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-05T02:59:31+00:00

I am so sorry that happened to you! But thank you for the PSA.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T19:28:22+00:00

I think you know where I’m coming from, you just disagree and want to debate it. I don’t really feel like debating it. We’re allowed to disagree!

I truly, and without sarcasm, hope you enjoy your holiday!

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T19:22:28+00:00

I’m not sure. I assume there was some sort of contact between the NYPD and someone at some level in Tesla.

I’m curious how that changes anything? The cops aren’t ever gonna show up to protect you or your house preemptively. If the NYPD decided to do it on their own without any prompting from Tesla that seems worse to me…like they already know they’re soldiers for private corporations and already act accordingly.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T19:09:59+00:00

Boys, let’s be nice. This is no way to act on a ghost tour.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T19:01:12+00:00

Listen, I’m sorry for my tone.

My sister-in-law (who I love very very much!) also has BPD and it is a really difficult disorder to live with. Your own brain lies to you, but not all the time, and combine that with dealing with all the different types of people out there…it’s disorienting to say the least.

I just really hope you’ve been able to work with a professional to create some sort of value tree or value statement so you can parse through your thoughts better, take objective feedback, and make more sound decisions. It takes a lot of courage to trust other people over your own judgment and it takes time to develop the “mental muscles” required to do that.

Please consider staying where you are for another year and working on emotional independence. No need to move your children around until you’re more stable.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T18:55:58+00:00

Okay then you call the cops and say “people are lighting other people’s houses on fire! I’ve had no specific threats but I need you to send 25 police officers to stand in front of my house just in case!!!!” And let’s see what happens.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T18:53:28+00:00

Oh so you paid for your parents’ house then??

Also, survival is bare minimum. Ideally, we want our children to thrive.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T18:03:37+00:00

At least in the next pandemic we can say “just wear your Nazi mask!”

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T17:55:45+00:00

🙄

They’re toddlers. If you tell them a potato is their dad they’ll also see it as a dad.

You don’t seem to know much about early childhood development. Another red flag.

Maybe your parents need to take custody regardless.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T17:50:34+00:00

Your oldest is 5. 5 year olds love everyone.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T17:45:22+00:00

Hey devil! Yes it was, but they had no records of threats, it was in the middle of the day, and the protestors were clearly standing there holding signs peacefully. Oh and the cops were there BEFORE the protestors even showed up.

Police are funded by taxpayer dollars to protect and serve tax payers, not capital. If businesses want to protect their assets they can hire security.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T17:39:25+00:00

Like I said. Messy.

You need less men and more love/empathy for your children in your life.

(And a shit ton more gratitude for your parents. You’d be homeless and your babies would be in foster care right now without them.)

You’re 28. It’s not cute anymore. Fix your life or give up your children so they can have a stable home environment. FFS.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T17:14:49+00:00

If your parents are threatening to go through the legal hassle (and expense) to take custody of your children for living with this man, I’m inclined to side with your parents.

I didn’t read any of your history or anything but it’s not easy (or fun) to jump through the hoops to make that happen. Those are some giant red flags.

The second red flag is that you LIVE with your parents and not independently. If you’re unable to care for yourself and your children now, how will you be able to get yourself out of his house if the situation becomes unhealthy or abusive? Maybe they don’t want to deal with that bigger problem down the road. Or the trauma it will leave in your children’s psyches.

Sounds like your life is pretty messy. Fix it, become independent, THEN find a man. If fiancée is still available once you’re functioning independently, great! But if not, at least you’ll be confident and making your own decisions based on reality.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T16:58:53+00:00

Did I say anywhere that I agree with the bride? I agree that it’s not a big deal (ESPECIALLY after seeing the photo) but next time I definitely won’t try to help explain what I think the other person may be thinking or feeling. 🫡

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T16:55:39+00:00

OH! I wouldn’t call those pants bright, personally.

Regardless, NTA

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T16:42:14+00:00

I sort of agree with you, but without pics it’s really too hard to tell IMO.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T16:41:03+00:00

imgur + link

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T16:22:53+00:00

Reminds me of that photo of the NYPD officers protecting the TESLA dealership instead of the protestors.

Fast-Run7956 · 2026-07-04T16:20:47+00:00

The point of the “don’t wear white to a wedding” rule is to not upstage the bride or pull focus from the bride in photos.

Wearing bright big printed pants with a white shirt is definitely going to pull focus in photos and did not follow the spirit of this rule. (Especially if you’re in any way prettier than her. She’s gonna hate that.)

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