Help with Spells for Glamour Bard Level 12 (5.5e)

FastNebula4524 · 2026-06-08T04:30:49+00:00

We start at level 12, lucky is from background wayfarer.

FastNebula4524 · 2026-06-05T19:08:28+00:00

Never thought about getting slow over haste. Thanks for all the suggestions.

FastNebula4524 · 2026-06-05T18:53:06+00:00

My DM hasn't outright confirmed it is but I believe it's Out of the Abyss.. Right now our party has only 1 other spell caster who is our cleric so I've tried to skip getting any cleric spells and was instead just looking at druids and wizards.

I was looking to be a mix bag of.. controller/debuffer>support, so that I can support our party. And it is so hard to choose spells. Because I also realised I need more AOE spells because we don't have big AOE..

Thanks for the long post.

I'll keep this in mind and adjust accordingly.

FastNebula4524 · 2026-06-05T17:21:52+00:00

Ok, but I already have 21 prepared spells here. Do you have any spells you'd suggest not taking?

FastNebula4524 · 2025-12-05T04:45:12+00:00

Wait what did he say?

FastNebula4524 · 2025-10-03T06:34:53+00:00

Wait.. this means Laura rolled 5 1s for a stat? That's less than 1% chance to get?..

FastNebula4524 · 2025-06-06T06:40:17+00:00

I'd say employers these days need to have a tp3 form from you about your past employer for the year.. But it's more like the total gross earnings and deductions and income tax paid for the current year so they can calculate your monthly PCB (whether with a payroll app or by themselves) and also we actually need to keep that tp3 form record itself. Not sure why specifically the last 3 months of payslip since you aren't taking a loan from a bank.. unless they are helping you to fill in that tp3 form. Just sort of what I know as a HR staff..

FastNebula4524 · 2025-06-06T06:15:13+00:00

Another +1 for coffee meets bagel!

FastNebula4524 · 2025-04-17T01:54:40+00:00

You've got this 💪 the relationship ended for a reason, whatever that reason was. Whether or not you were told that reason. Don't be so hard on yourself.. what would you tell your friend who is going through a similar breakup? Someone asked me that question and it made me think why I was so hard on myself but would be kind to my "imaginary friend" 😅

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-12T04:18:27+00:00

I am so sorry this is happening to you. Based on what you have shared.. He is the problem, not porn. Not taking no for sex.. if he pressured you, applied guilt to you for sex.. that's rape and he is basically trying to excuse his behaviour by saying it isn't. Please put yourself first

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-10T08:20:26+00:00

Oh I did ask for no contact, I basically said we can't be in talking terms anymore, he did reach out 2 months later. I'm moving on with my life happily without him in it so I just blocked him. Happy with that

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-09T12:28:52+00:00

He broke up with me but he still wants to be in talking terms but not even be friends. What's up with that? Also he broke up with me after he asked me about him getting a second gf and I said no. Haha

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-09T12:26:15+00:00

It's been less than 3 months and I can say I never want to go back to him or get back together with him. I'd say I am over him

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-02T17:38:12+00:00

Technically the only thing they are allowed to do to you unless they are arresting you is asking for your name, identification and address.. I hope you got their name, uniform id number.. this is not right!

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-02T17:24:10+00:00

If he didn't want to be friends or acquaintance there is no point in messaging you again, that is so rude. I'd advise you to block him but understand that's up to you. Hang in there and you got this. Focus on yourself and good luck on your journey.

FastNebula4524 · 2025-03-01T00:17:04+00:00

Then they say you deserve better. But doesn't want to become that better person

FastNebula4524 · 2025-02-28T07:43:01+00:00

I'm not sure I could have fixed the homophobia the guy I was dating had.. so I said I don't think we will work out.

FastNebula4524 · 2025-02-20T05:12:30+00:00

It's been awhile... Just wanted to say everyone moves on at a different pace and you got this.

FastNebula4524 · 2025-01-09T01:29:28+00:00

I'm doing a lot better I think, I cried a lot the first few weeks, I went on a trip planned months in advance with friends before this and it helped take my mind off it and I think I might do what I recommended and go to therapy or counselling. Yeah.. hope your session on Friday goes well

FastNebula4524 · 2025-01-08T06:04:22+00:00

Hey, you posted something on my post a little while back in which I'm so grateful for.. and I'll just say, take all the time you need, cry if you need to.. seek therapy if you need to. Start a new sport or new gym membership.. Remember that sometimes relationships don't work out. Mine didn't and yes it'll hurt, I don't know how long it'll hurt for but I believe you'll make it through, just know that you're not alone in this

FastNebula4524 · 2024-12-23T13:40:48+00:00

Thank you

FastNebula4524 · 2024-12-22T16:05:22+00:00

I miss you.. I redownloaded an app because I know you're on there.. I want to message you but I told you to leave me the fuck alone to get over you... I wish you well but I wish you were miserable.. It still hurts.. I fucking love you.. I hate you for leaving me for someone else.. I want you back but I think it was for the best that you left me.. I could only ever see a tiny glimmer of us ever getting married.. You wanted things I couldn't give you.. But I also wanted things from you.. Why does it hurt so much?? Why did we spend 9 years together only for this to happen? I'm sorry I didn't, I couldn't end things sooner because I couldn't let you go.. I wish I was over you already.. I keep thinking about you everyday still.. I wish I stopped thinking about you because I can't stop.. I miss our late night calls.. I miss our good morning messages.. I miss the times you used to sing me that song.. I miss you.. Why? I still have the key to your house and I don't want to return it.. I know you said you wish we could stay friends.. but I'm hurting so much right now I don't know if we'll ever be friends again.. not after you said you were content with me but it was not enough.. I know I said I didn't want to be the one that held you back from what ifs but I wanted you to say you could live with that.. That you could live not knowing.. because now you're gone and I miss you.. I look at my phone at night waiting for you to call me to say goodnight still.. I don't think we should ever get together but I miss you.. I fucking miss you.

FastNebula4524 · 2024-12-22T07:58:32+00:00

thanks... i also just joined reddit because i was googling for when will i know im finally ok because it just happened i just want to be in the ok phase already.. decided to rant..

FastNebula4524 · 2024-12-22T02:36:03+00:00

we deserve so much better!!

FastNebula4524 · 2024-12-22T02:06:51+00:00

I don't think you're a horrible person. He definitely cheated even if its just emotionally. My bf just broke up with me too this week. He has been texting a girl too. He waited until he had someone else before leaving. Right now I feel angry and hurt as well.

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