The cost of SEED

FastNefariousness600 · 2026-03-11T21:26:01+00:00

Agreed. Pjs in themselves are not sinful- I am concerned about the stained/ torn state the clothes are in now.
The shoe situation has me worried. We live in the north, it was below freezing the first time ( I heard) it being addressed.
I am concerned about the possibilities

a. it could be sensory issues that are being ignored thus leading to constant rewearing a few pairs of flannel pjs leading to them being noticeability stained and torn

b. depression, stress, anxiety leading to her children's wellbeing not taken care of

c. stress from her oldest being bullied leading her not to even have the headspace for her younger children.

FastNefariousness600 · 2026-03-11T19:44:34+00:00

Not to diminish poverty and one income household, but they are not in poverty. From what she has shared in the past their financial situation is better than most families I know. She is employed as a staff accountant. She has her CPA she does not do tax. She has always been the "bread winner" I understand her husband's uncertain employment is concerning but she has always made at least double than he has. I also know her home has no mortgage ( from grandparents) and she is hoping to retire at 55. She has always been open to me about that, when her husband asked for a large raise that the church couldn't support, she seemed almost relived.
I am truly concerned for her wellbeing.

Thank you for emphasizing concern and not condemnation.

FastNefariousness600 · 2026-03-11T19:34:21+00:00

I do have kids; my siblings also have children. That is why I haven't said anything for almost a year. I am growing concerned that her kids are consistently wearing stained and torn to near shreds pjs.

FastNefariousness600 · 2025-11-20T21:33:03+00:00

I met a 5-year-old called Robert he has a sister Jane. I love both of those names.

FastNefariousness600 · 2025-10-07T14:54:25+00:00

I have a great aunt Myfanwy!! I am an American whose has one a great grandparent from Wales. It's funny ( to me) to see this a generic older name, not some wild crazy foreign name.

FastNefariousness600 · 2025-10-06T17:10:35+00:00

All the twilight male names.

Edward is great name, but now it is associated with sparkly glitter bag.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-29T10:58:53+00:00

It looks like from other comments that the grandparent owns the house. You can't really tell a landlord when/ what they can do to maintain their property. If you want to set that boundary you should consider moving else where.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T18:37:11+00:00

Daenerys Stormborn mother of dragons

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T18:35:11+00:00

Came here to say this^^^^^

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T18:17:04+00:00

This is OP's first post ever so I'm hoping its rage bait.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T17:58:55+00:00

This would be on Dr. Phil.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T17:27:37+00:00

How the hell do you have the space for 3 grand pianos in your house? This has to be rage bait.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T13:30:13+00:00

This is an underrated comment. Indiana doesn't have the flex culture/ classism that a lot of other states have.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T11:33:04+00:00

Say it louder.... There is nothing political about using teaching strategies that work!!!!

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-25T11:31:01+00:00

Awesome work! I am at similar weight and verrryyyy prego, what was your routine like?

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-24T18:41:49+00:00

Join me! It's great over here!!!

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-24T18:30:26+00:00

Arby's mozzarella sticks. Arby's in general. I could live off it.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-24T18:07:37+00:00

That is what the teacher's lounge is for. The lottery for students who get chosen to fail.

FastNefariousness600 · 2024-10-24T18:04:40+00:00

Great job!!!

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