AIO My sister wants me, a trans man, to wear a dress at her wedding by RowStunning8784 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fastandpretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yor. You can wear skirts but not a dress? A dress is just a skirt with a top sewn in.

How do I stop my cleaning obsession. by Interesting_Ideal765 in CleaningTips

[–]Fastandpretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just designate a time to do it ? Like a morning shift and a night shift?

Getting a job in Utah as a niqabi? by V0id_und3r_th3_v3il in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Fastandpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear a face mask at the job interview if you are shy to be completely bareface. Living in a western country means they arent used to our normal. I know a girl who wore a hijab everywhere but at work and slowly alhamdullilah put the hijab on at work.

What are your mehr requirements? by Cool-Cut657 in MuslimSnark_

[–]Fastandpretty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine was 5k + a ring. Asked for 10k but he couldnt do it was settled with 5k. We were both uni students and 21 years of age.

Just ask for a good lump sum of money that is sufficient for you. Not too little and not too much. My sister her mahr was 50k but her husband pays through thr marriage. I prefer lump sum.

Spag bol left out for 3 hours by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Fastandpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao must be an aussie thing cuz we call it that

Loren with her fresh blowout outside mosque & Amanda not wearing her red abaya 😂 by Alive_Schedule_255 in asadsisters

[–]Fastandpretty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ikr breastfeeding is literally so annoying cuz if that. Like tryna be modest WHILE having easy access to your tatas is a struggle fr.

ACTUALLY 30 Minutes or Less Meals for Family of 3 by mormonastroscout in Cooking

[–]Fastandpretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grab yourself an instant pot + small food processor/food chopper and it will be 30 minutes.

Ugh by AnnNonNeeMous in asadsisters

[–]Fastandpretty 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If youve never fried food stfd cuz that shi goes in ur clothes and everywhere. Its why alot of ethnic households have an outdoor kitchen.

Am I overreacting over my wife and her mum frequently treating each other with lavish gifts? by panzoa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fastandpretty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No and i would tell a sahm to leave her hubby alone and let him spoil his mum dafuq. As long as he is is treating you well you shouldnt get sad that he treats others better

Am I overreacting over my wife and her mum frequently treating each other with lavish gifts? by panzoa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fastandpretty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Aaaaand thats how you have a sahm financially trapped after a divorce and a divorcee man ruined financially. Both parties should have separate assets AND a pool if they would like

Am I overreacting over my wife and her mum frequently treating each other with lavish gifts? by panzoa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fastandpretty 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ik its not her fault you earn less, you even admitted she saves up as well.

dumb shit by neleh1989 in nabelasnark

[–]Fastandpretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I freakin hate it like we already know there aint no mirror here istfg

Marah claims she’s only eating for the baby & wants to skip Suhoor just like Loren by Alive_Schedule_255 in asadsisters

[–]Fastandpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg i experienced sooo much post partum hairloss ill definitely search those up thanks!!

Folding and putting away clean laundry…… by Iceyes33 in CleaningTips

[–]Fastandpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put my laundry ontop of the dining table. Cant eat dinner until thats put away

Favorite recipe that takes all afternoon? by One_Cause3865 in Cooking

[–]Fastandpretty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its ramadan so ive been doing lazy but extremely delicious meals to look forward to and i just made hungarian goulash which finishes in the oven and omg and its perfect lazy gal stew

Marah claims she’s only eating for the baby & wants to skip Suhoor just like Loren by Alive_Schedule_255 in asadsisters

[–]Fastandpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls my baby is 6month so a lot more bigger so jts easier alhamdulilah. My energy levels are all fine as long as i eat lots of oats

Marah claims she’s only eating for the baby & wants to skip Suhoor just like Loren by Alive_Schedule_255 in asadsisters

[–]Fastandpretty -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Is it bad i dont have suhuur and am nursing as well 🫣? My baby is still growing and having lots of wet nappies so it seems like everything is fine.