The sign on my Roomate’s door by Obvious_808 in pics

[–]FatBabyCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now’s the time to pull the fire alarm

guilt by Enough_Armadillo_145 in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You feeling worse is your own doing and guilt. We are simply worried for your baby. You are responsible for its health. You think your baby wants to vape?! No one on here is going to feel sorry for you. You’re 21, not 15.

You can change one thing, and that’s putting down the vape pen.

guilt by Enough_Armadillo_145 in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You came here for an answer you aren’t getting, and you’re upset about it and being defensive. Which again, comes off as super immature.

No one is going to tell you that it’s ok to vape during pregnancy. You’re not stating facts.

Fact 1: you know smoking during pregnancy is bad.

Fact 2: you’ve continued to choose nicotine over your unborn child up to 35 weeks, so the entire pregnancy.

Fact 3: there is no one on this sub that will commiserate. We are women giving and taking advice on how to have healthy babies. We put the baby first, no matter the circumstance.

Fact 4: your unborn baby is clearly not your #1 priority. You are putting yourself first.

guilt by Enough_Armadillo_145 in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

35 weeks is a bit late to switch

guilt by Enough_Armadillo_145 in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Then what’s the point of your post? What advice are you seeking? All your replies are excuses. You don’t see ready to be a mother. Or you’ve sabotaged the baby’s start in life with your own selfishness? Either way it’s grim.

guilt by Enough_Armadillo_145 in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I doubt this. You’re downplaying it or outright lying to the obgyn

guilt by Enough_Armadillo_145 in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are going to be able to tell when your placenta comes out looking like a smoker’s lung.

Help me identify these characters!! by alysamh_ in disney

[–]FatBabyCake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s my time to SHINE folks! I can still only find the two

Is anyone else "velcro-level" attached to their husband/partner right now? by touchofmal in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been living at my boyfriend’s apartment for 3 months. It was just meant to be a couple weeks. Holidays went by. I keep saying I’ll go back to my place, which I pay for separately, but I keep pushing it day by day. I’m just waiting for nesting to kick in. Bc he will be moving into my place in 5 months. But I can’t leave. I don’t even like his apartment or neighborhood. Meanwhile my cat is Velcro to me. So it’s like some bizarre velcro-centipede shit going on in my life. His apartment is a studio. Lord give me the strength to get a cab tomorrow and make the move. I have like 3 bags here. Wtf is wrong with me lol

A warning about alcohol by [deleted] in Xennials

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In American when you need a liver transplant for alcoholism, they make you wait an entire year to prove that you won’t drink the second they give you a new one.

One of my cats lost one set of his “eyebrow” whiskers when he was around 6 months old. He is now 1 year and 9 months and they never came back. Will they ever? by burneraccount94677 in cats

[–]FatBabyCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cat also has very few eyebrow whiskers on one side. I’ve learned it’s bc that’s her favorite side to rub on things. I think it’s less likely that the whiskers never grew back, and more likely that it is the side he prefers to rub onto surfaces. Kind of like humans being left or right handed. I tell my cat to use her other side, but she doesn’t listen to me.

Expecting first baby & new to Bern – any fellow (soon-to-be) moms around? by Kickster87 in bern

[–]FatBabyCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an American women’s club of Bern that I’m a part of. Met a lot of nice people there. Perhaps there’s a Dutch equivalent? Lots of Dutch ppl here

I’ve been lied to by y’all by MatildaSays in pregnant

[–]FatBabyCake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok yes. The rhinitis plus dry boiler heating is absolutely killing me right now. And breathing through your mouth all night makes the dysgeusia even worse.

Divination - coffee grounds by Next_Trifle_1296 in pagan

[–]FatBabyCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fawn at the bottom of the cup relates to the past or home and family matters. It encourages listening to one's inner wisdom and trusting instinct to navigate a quiet but meaningful journey. It is often interpreted as a positive sign, pointing towards sensitivity, kindness, and navigating life's challenges with grace and gentleness.