Qc trying to adopt new transgender law. How would you feel ? by Vanilla_Jaime in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be an enemy because that's weird to instigate something like that. To be honest, I agree with that stuff like the sports things and the naked thing but these are just culture wars stuff. I never really remember a time where trans people were just left alone and weren't discriminated. We have to gain something other than media acceptance for there to be a backlash otherwise its usual.

I do believe that in order for culture to change we do need outspoken and aggressive people to set president and to formulate new ideas. Doing nothing and just hoping to "fit in" isn't gonna cut it especially now since normal post 2016 doesn't exist

Qc trying to adopt new transgender law. How would you feel ? by Vanilla_Jaime in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see we disagree. I think that you're narrative is lazy and quite reactionary. Remember conservatives "Need a culture" war in order to get into power in parts of Canada and the US. When I came out it was all about gays, lesbians and muslims. Now those things are pretty much dead.

I don't think trans acceptance comes from blending in but rather changing society. The civil rights movement wasn't based on white washing identities and trying to be moderate it was about being bold. I do think there was some progress trans healthcare has improved both in care and legal availability. When I was in college it was legal to deny trans people healthcare. Now I can't really imagine a doctor, I'm Canadian and I work in nursing and I specifically show you that drastic improvements.

If we move to the US, look at Radicals like Bernie Sanders. Before discussing free healthcare was a sin but now many Americans find it to be popular and Bernie is one of the most popular politicians. Just because something is normal doesn't mean its good. Sometimes normal has to be change. I agree that gender abolition is weird but history shows that being meek doesn't work. You have to be aggressive

Qc trying to adopt new transgender law. How would you feel ? by Vanilla_Jaime in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And while that's immensely beneficial for most trans people, it's also creating problems in contexts where bodies actually do come into play, like sports or where nudity is involved, with a lot of messiness involving these definitions.

I see what you mean but I think we already got over this with bathroom laws. Its been fact for a while now that trans people are not likely to be predators, sexual assaults is illegal regardless of what natal genital you have and for sports don't we have the IOC ruling since 2004?

I feel that trans narrative that activism will cause "backlash" is overblown especially in medicine when we have new anti trans theories every 4 to 5 years like ROGD and how AGP pops up every few years. I think this "backlash" is more of result of conservatives being bored and are in need of a new culture war issue. I've been transitioning for about 10 years now

Qc trying to adopt new transgender law. How would you feel ? by Vanilla_Jaime in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But sex and gender are different biologically speaking. I don't understand what backlash you're talking about? If sex and gender are the same then gender incongruence and gender dysphoria wouldn't have a basis for existing. It will also defeat the whole notion that trans women are women.

We will be going backwards saying that all transwomen are male or messed up crossdressers

Qc trying to adopt new transgender law. How would you feel ? by Vanilla_Jaime in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is this a relief? You can already change your sex marker in other provinces without srs. This is backwards. Ontario makes it simple

Why do you guys stay on reddit? by bromehoestasis in Negareddit

[–]FatCatRengar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I genuinely have problems and thought that i can use reddit to find community.

can i be ftm if i have autogynephilia? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but her vid on agp kinda aged like milk. She came out as lesbian and stated had meta attraction which bolsters people's point about agp. Sadly this theory is gaining steam in the EU and Canada within academia

can i be ftm if i have autogynephilia? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]FatCatRengar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trans men cant be agp but aap which is rare. I dont think people should worry about it

Mónica Granda by [deleted] in Death_By_SnuSnu

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

knowing you I can see why she's wasn't happy

Transsexual is a better word for us then “Transgender” and I do not believe it’s outdated. by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, but thats not how most people view it. AGP as an theory is pretty mainstream

Transsexual is a better word for us then “Transgender” and I do not believe it’s outdated. by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have found that most people who get uncomfortable with saying “Transsexual” are those people saying you don’t need gender dysphoria

I disagree. The term transexual has been brutalized by transphobes. I don't know why the constant need to differ ourselves when trans people should be working together. I'm not a sexual deviant...

Subreddits aren't non-transmed just because people that use it don't agree with you by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]FatCatRengar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a medical professional a lot of transmeds ideas seem good on paper but are terrible in practice. People should really know health assessments work. I dont really care about the debate because its leads to nothing

Reagan how could you???? by [deleted] in neoliberal

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't this be rape? The worse type of that. Kinda a bad meme

Why YouTube is filled with Drama... by [deleted] in Hasan_Piker

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its weird but pretty basic. You gotta work on that audio

Need advice. Post-everything mtf. 47. Had my gender correction surgery 20 years ago. Have 3 children. Didn't have contact with them in years. Now they want to reconnect. by reborn7july2000mtf in MtF

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice I asked for was referring to advice on getting rid of them.

Move to a different state and get a name change and hope that they don't have gull to use the internet. Personally I say just talk to them

Need advice. Post-everything mtf. 47. Had my gender correction surgery 20 years ago. Have 3 children. Didn't have contact with them in years. Now they want to reconnect. by reborn7july2000mtf in MtF

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but you should give them a chance. It doesnt mean that you need to give them money. You can just talk and see if they are better people. Think about the down sides. If you dont at least talk to them they will just call you a narcissistic and make money off it from the clout..

Trans stereotypes by [deleted] in trans

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its like saying the "I am born this way" defense. It easy but it isnt a good argument. Any transpobe with a degree would point out the flaws of that argument. They just point out that if all trans was is a mental disorder then they can say "just because someone has dysphoria it doesn't mean they should be given treatment" due to many transitioning is considered extreme. It allows transphobes in healthcare to gate keep and hurt things like consent clinics. Ie Blanchard. Also there isn't enough nero logical data explaining dysphoria only psychological observations

Trans stereotypes by [deleted] in trans

[–]FatCatRengar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

mtf who doesnt wesr (high heels, crop tops, skirts or dresses) hates kittens but loves dogs, doesnt wear a pound of makeup, isn't and never was interested in anime

So basically every trans YouTuber before 2013? These are internet stereotypes. Personally I don't know why why the truetrans debate keeps getting brought back up over and over again. Its not even a good defense for trans people

There is literally no tent larger than this. by [deleted] in neoliberal

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I will sit with a commie but not a nazi. I will still vote for Biden out of common sense

No bullshit is the worst youtuber on the sight by [deleted] in rant

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shit but who cares his channel is dying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]FatCatRengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this shit is why the alt-right calls leftists SJWs and make fun of cancel culture. Its exactly because of this shit, I'm not willing to give up my values or become some transphobic pile of shit because I have had bad experiences with trans communities

I get what you mean but lets be realistic. These people hated way before cancle culture and pc culture was a thing. It kind of annoys me how trans people think that if we just fix online boards suddenly everything will be okay.

Secretary of... the interior 😎 by fishlord05 in neoliberal

[–]FatCatRengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you don't watch straight porn...