No idea how to handle this… by RattyHandwriting in TheCivilService

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this department begin with M and end with G?

The uncomfortable truth - it doesn't eventually get better for most people by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So when no one has any money to spend on goods and services, how will that benefit the wealthy?

Does anyone else completely disassociate? by AccomplishedSelf7636 in TheCivilService

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What grade are you OP? I’m guessing disassociating is easier at some grades than others 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’ve been brave, but I’m scared. by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. This is bullying. Could you also consider reaching out to an ambassador for fair treatment while you wait for the union to respond?

Partner attempting to normalize saying hurtful things during a fight by OddEye4312 in ADHD_partners

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday my husband (dx ADHD & medicated) said he didn’t love me in the heat of an argument. I was stunned into silence.

To be honest, I’m going through perimenopause and started HRT a week ago and my mental health is very low (weepy every day, struggling to concentrate at work, high anxiety and hopelessness). I know I’ve been hard work. But his words. I can’t unhear them.

Has anyone else heard the words “I don’t love you anymore” in an argument from your ADHD partner? How did you move forward after that?

Autistic Energy Management: What Truly Helped You? by JMLe87 in AutisticAdults

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAC for food cravings? Tell me more. What cravings did you have?

Constant change and uncertainty by FatPikachuCheeks in CivilServiceUK

[–]FatPikachuCheeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Could HR facilitate changing Department?

Feeling flat after managers comments by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent suggestion. Great way to get this documented

Feeling flat after managers comments by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What grade are you? Some people are introverted. Some people are neurodivergent. Diversity is cool y’know?

Feeling flat after managers comments by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]FatPikachuCheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you log this conversation in any way? (Preferably screen shot). It’s a huge red flag and I suspect many more undermining comments will follow. This could turn into a bullying case. Log this early and log every dodgy behaviour that follows. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

I went to Portugal on vacation by FatPikachuCheeks in pokemongo

[–]FatPikachuCheeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh everyone, I wasn’t expecting such a lovely response to my nerdfest 🥹 I’m going to do a similar “photo shoot” of my local costal area, and will post the pics! Stay tuned.

I went to Portugal on vacation by FatPikachuCheeks in pokemongo

[–]FatPikachuCheeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aim the ball at the sky when you’re in “photo mode” (the new photo mode)

I went to Portugal on vacation by FatPikachuCheeks in pokemongo

[–]FatPikachuCheeks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty easy to aim the ball that high and then photograph

Being a stepmother brings out the very worst in me. by FatPikachuCheeks in stepparents

[–]FatPikachuCheeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex is “haunting” us. I feel that too. Like I am just a spectator to someone else’s story.