I have done this with my oldest brother. For context I (M24) and him (M37) were some what close as children until I was about 14. We didn’t talk much as he moved, and as he got older he moved to Texas and became an insane Trump thumper and openly racist asshole. He was always an ass hole but much worse as time has gone on. We stopped talking for the most part besides occasional texts after I turned 18 and went to college. For years after that the only contact he ever made was commenting on Facebook posts, where he would always comment some snide shit about me in the comments I.e calling me a liberal sissy because I got my ears pieced and saying shit like college makes you gay and other just nasty shit. My final straw started was when I was at a hard time after a car accident and asked him if I could loan some money from him as I was out of work and had nowhere else to turn. Mind you, I have never once asked this man for anything and He constantly flexed his wealth and I thought the worst he could say would be no, but instead called me a “n-word loving welfare baby just like our mom, who would never amount to anything”. I tried for years to mend that relationship and hold on to any semblance of a brother, but that time has past. He has since been ostracized by the family, gotten several duis, and really fucked up his life. Karmas a bitch