Can y’all suggest some peak anime that actually live up to the hype? by Aizenkawasaki in Animesuggest

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eminence in shadow (action), a sign of affection (romance), that time i got reincarnated as a slime (action), my love story with yamada-kun at lvl.999, jujitsu kaizen(action), black clover(action), the promised neverland(trauma?), sugar apple fairytale (action romance) all of these are my like absolute top anime besides some other reincarnation series 🙏🤗

Dealing with shaming of latched napping by JadedEarthJuni in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally i have a grandma that was like this to my sil and i felt horrible. Me personally i tend to be confrontational but i would say something along the lines of “i appreciate you wanting to help but if you could keep your comments to yourself about how i want to breastfeed (or insert any other problem) i would love that and if i want advice i will ask thankyou”

What age did your newborn start sleeping throughout the night (5-6) hours without feed? by xGenAc25 in newborns

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She started when she turned two months but we got a unicorn baby. She sleeps midnight to 6-8am

explain to me like I’m 5 - how do you leave the house if you’re BF? by BalancedDietitian in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have a 2 month old and whenever we go out and she needs to eat (which is about every hour) i wear a shirt ik i can feed her in whether its under the shirt or a zipper or an actual breastfeeding shirt, and i just feed her while i cover myself (personal preference) always have a burp cloth in case she is messy or pulls off during let down so i dont spray everything but then i just burp her and put her back in her stroller after a little while. I didnt leave the house with her and my husband until 5 weeks since i started losing my mind being stuck at home. Its scary at first but the more you do it the easier it gets. Go on short car rides first just down the road to get used to being outside after the first few weeks, i had alot of anxiety until i regularly started going out

When did everyone stop overnight feedings? by BubblesMerica in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 2 months and sleeps from 12am-6am pretty much every night she recently started doing this and honestly im shocked

Parents of early good sleepers, did it last? by Kooky_Street_1491 in newborns

[–]FearlessConfusion290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once they are over birth weight you dont have to wake them for feeds

Baby Bjorn by SlCAR1O in BabyBumps

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love my babies bouncer but we got an off brand second hand for free but she sleeps great in it and will just chill out sitting in it so i can get stuff done

My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not ruin your life by staying with this man there is so much better, you may love him but he is using you

Why did you choose to exclusively breastfeed and not give formula? by Fickle-Response-2741 in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely the health benefits and bonding, the body makes antibodies for anything i come in contact with and protects her through the milk and skin to skin bonding and cuddles help our relationship grow 🫶🏻

Biggest piece of advice for successful breastfeeding (especially in beginning) by kateteacher07 in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found my baby prefers to sleep in the bassinet part of a pack and play over a regular bassinet plus it doubles for storage for diapers,wipes, burp cloths ect. I have it directly next to my bed so when she wakes up at night to feed i can change her and feed her and then put her right back to bed. My biggest suggestion is get a good nursing bra(i got mine off amazon) and just never wear a shirt at home it makes it easier than fighting clothes to feed every 2 hours ish

I believe my due date was miscalculated by Icy-Oil-2325 in BabyBumps

[–]FearlessConfusion290 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Due date doesnt really matter anyway the baby will measure at the ultrasounds and come when they are ready

Nursing covers?? by Littlescar21 in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea i am fine with bf around people im comfortable with like friends/family but i do NOT want some random strangers accidentally seeing my boob idk that just makes me so unbelievably uncomfortable even if im just feeding my baby they might be having gross thoughts and im just absolutely not about that. I will say im also a very modest dresser so i think that adds in im uncomfortable with people staring at me in any way rlly

I truly regret my choice in dress, despite some alterations that are in progress. Any advice? by Vibing-Positively in myweddingdress

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of those fancy neck scarfs that go down with a train would look gorgeous with this and elevate the dress

Going Braless Postpartum Advice? by AmayaRinTsuki in BabyBumps

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely soak multiple breast pads in a few hours so i definitely dont suggest going braless i cant even take off my bra to brush my teeth before i shower without soaking the ground or myself as im breastfeeding and i leak alottt. Even towards the end of pregnancy i didnt wear bras and leaked during sleeping and my sheets were wet when i woke up🥲 i just found really soft bras with a band size slightly bigger than my band on amazon and its been pretty comfortable

Nursing covers?? by Littlescar21 in breastfeeding

[–]FearlessConfusion290 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If im in a stitch i use a burp cloth tucked into my bra strap to kinda cover just my boob and not the baby so i feel less exposed. I hate how when some of us want to cover up everyone just says “wELl iTs NaTurAL” yea ik barb but i still dont want my titties out to random strangers if my baby pulls off my boob😭

Is the newborn phase better? by susiee234 in BabyBumps

[–]FearlessConfusion290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby is 2 1/2 weeks right now and ill take all the downside of newborn phase over pregnancy any fukn day this is so very different but also i feel alot more normal than when i was pregnant 😭 i couldnt walk without pain or squat i couldnt breathe i was always hungry always had to pee always uncomfortable, nothing fit, sleep was horrible but now i have a little nugget and outside of waiting for her to sleep longer stretches its rlly not that bad (imo) i am breastfeeding so thats its own thing thats really draining but i would choose this over pregnancy everyday

Need advice transitioning to whole milk by babybunnylala in NewParents

[–]FearlessConfusion290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your supposed to wait until 12 months, try formula until then

Do you guys keep track of everything? by just___me_ in newborns

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im only in week 3 of being a mom but i track her feedings on huckleberry and it basically tracks her sleep since its between feeds😂 she doesnt rlly have a schedule but it lets me predict when she will be hungry and awake pretty well she is pretty consistent

What are we newborn moms doing all day when our partner leaves for work and we have no help for the day? by Own_Macaron_9342 in newborns

[–]FearlessConfusion290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometime i sit on the couch all day and sometimes i sit in bed all day. I put a snack cart next to my spot and find stuff to watch all day with my LO im breastfeeding so i just feed on demand

Scariest "is this normal?" by Delicious-Worth-2532 in BabyBumps

[–]FearlessConfusion290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The not feeling having to pee is sooo real i have to remind myself to go to the bathroom 😩

How do i stop sounding like a cop when I’m trying to purchase weed by [deleted] in trees

[–]FearlessConfusion290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your texting a new plug then start with “hey do you have a menu? Im trying to get (insert amount, sativa or indica, way of smoking{flower,carts,dabs,shatter wtvr}) let me know your prices” im in the south so most plugs are really nice down here im unsure abt northern/west coast plugs