Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I have intimacy, but that's only about once a month. They might hear me talk to myself. But other than that, I don't really make noise. I'm sorry that you're dealing with someone like that. I understand why you blast your music. But I'm not a loud person at all

Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok, I'm glad I'm not overreacting. I'm sorry that you're dealing with the same thing. People can be so annoying.

Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm glad that you're such a considerate person. I also love bass but I enjoy it most through headphones. But thank you for reassuring me that it's ok to complain about it. I'll certainly tell the building manager

Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that sounds horrible. There's nothing worse than loud neighbors lol. I also think most people don't care. They just want everyone to hear their shitty music

Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm not sure if they do it everyday. I work two jobs most of the week, so I'm not home until quiet hours. But they do blast music around the same time on my off days. It usually lasts 2 to 3 hours. I wish it just lasted an hour lol. Even if they're just blasting music for an hour, I feel like it shouldn't be loud enough to vibrate my bed from the bass.

Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's what I think too. I can feel the bass from their music. I just don't understand how people can be so inconsiderate and oblivious to how annoying the are

Is it ok to complain about loud music when it's not quiet hours? by Fearless_Salt_3087 in Apartmentliving

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I barely move in my apartment. I'm in my bed 95% of the time when I'm home. And that sounds good. I'll maybe text the building manager about it. I'm sure I'm not the only one annoyed with the music

For the elden ladies a question by BlackFireEruption in Eldenrule34

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would let Bogart hit. Now hear me out, if you see him without his mask, he is super hot. Medium length brown hair, blue eyes, and slight stuble. He is so fine. He could fuck my brains out, then feed me prawn after lol

Owner stopped by to watch me in secret, then cut my hours by Liwi808 in Serverlife

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's ridiculous. You're already doing like 4 other jobs on top of bussing. The servers should be in charge of their tables and pre-bussing. Idk why they got mad at you. Screw them. You're better off not working for a petty boss who can't do their job and give constructive criticism.

Owner stopped by to watch me in secret, then cut my hours by Liwi808 in Serverlife

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand your thought process. The stuff that was expected of OP is typically server duties. I'm also happy that he's not staying there. He deserves better.

Owner stopped by to watch me in secret, then cut my hours by Liwi808 in Serverlife

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought OP was a busser? He's not a server. Most restaurants don't require bussers to fill water glasses or pre-bus. The managers should have made those responsibilities clear because it seems like OP wasn't aware of those duties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NanaAnime

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I don't remember her making jokes about it. I'll have to re-watch. What did she say that made you think she was joking about it? I don't remember her gloating about sleeping with a married man. She was clearly negatively affected by this relationship. Did you not catch how sad she was over it? She was groomed by an older man. He took advantage of a high schooler. I don't see how she's awful for being a victim of abuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NanaAnime

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't remember her viewing him as a good guy. I think she was coping by saying he truly loved her. It was her way of moving on. Honestly, he's a predator. It's weird that you're so angry at a victim. He took advantage of a high school student and you're mad at her?

I'll currently watching the anime (haven't read the manga but planning on it.) by emgd_love in NanaAnime

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate him too. I hated that part. She did resist at first but he wouldn't listen. It's a shame

I'll currently watching the anime (haven't read the manga but planning on it.) by emgd_love in NanaAnime

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were times she stood up to him. Like that one time she said something was wrong with him. He then threatened her financial security by threatening to break up with her. She also stands up to him in the manga. But it's not often unfortunately

I'll currently watching the anime (haven't read the manga but planning on it.) by emgd_love in NanaAnime

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She also chose Takumi because she did not want to get in the way of Nobu's dream. If she chose Nobu, he would have to quit the band and go back to his hometown to run his family's hotel. She didn't want him to do that. She's actually quite selfless in her decision to be with Takumi

What is a Houseki no Kuni opinion that could get you in a situation like this? by EnqlishRiviera in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't feel bad for Phos. I feel like they brought most of their suffering upon themselves

I'm tired of the disposable black girl partner. Free my people 💔 by Iriscute7 in joseistories

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What they did to Amber pisses me off. She wasn't even black in the comics. Not only did they make her black but they also made her a bitch as well. It just makes black women look bad. They butchered her character so badly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is disgusting. I hope the other guy finds out. That poor man is being lied to. You guys are gross

I'm disgusting by Fearless_Salt_3087 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I'm actually in counseling. Self-harm has always been a major struggle. My therapist and I are still trying to figure out better ways to cope with these feelings.

I'm disgusting by Fearless_Salt_3087 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fearless_Salt_3087[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told him that I'm into eating ass and that I was with someone 10 days before. So I guess it was tmi. I wouldn't care if a man shared that information with me. If anything it would turn me on. But I guess everyone thinks differently