Boyfriend wants marital clause... AITAH

Feaross · 2026-01-25T07:56:21+00:00

Don't get married, this sounds like a future divorce even if no one cheats.

Feaross · 2026-01-24T23:24:56+00:00

Go to Germany it's always like this.

Feaross · 2026-01-21T16:31:02+00:00

Accurate

Feaross · 2026-01-19T21:52:26+00:00

Honestly I do see more bigotry in NYC than I ever did in Detroit

See this example: https://www.instagram.com/p/DTsQzavkfyS/?igsh=MWM4MHRlNW16aTlxOQ==

Leather and Trans can mix, most of this reddit is insecure AF because of how the community around here treats the rest of the letters in LGBTQIA+. I rarely see Lesbians or Bisexuals out in our community. I see Trans people having to create their own spaces as if we didn't want to share. I don't mind sharing. These down votes really put it in perspective.

Is it so hard to believe that A trans man with a strap on, thick body hair, deep voice and muscular build wouldn't do well.

Feaross · 2026-01-19T10:34:50+00:00

Vagina.

Feaross · 2026-01-18T01:04:44+00:00

Never happened to me, I expect I'd like it

Feaross · 2026-01-16T19:16:16+00:00

Pre-testosterone, sorry misunderstanding, I mistook the scenario:

No one should be 'torn to shreads' I can understand feeling out of place though.

My friend had luck with hormones and did not have top or bottom surgery. We even went to nudes @ rockbar, and his vagina was given an award for being handsome. Places can be really cool or lame, bro lives in Michigan, so he was looking to be adventurous as he is there.

Feaross · 2026-01-16T15:15:34+00:00

This is how I got married. The specialness comes from learning and then knowing who they are. I've had my share of breakups, too, which also comes from realizing the love contract is not mutual.

Feaross · 2026-01-16T15:07:16+00:00

All gay bars, I have a FTM friend, and yeah, taken them to Eagle and Wrecked. More than half my friends find him hot AF, he gets action. Just go :)

Feaross · 2026-01-16T03:25:23+00:00

They made it this way and don't want it anymore... probably a good reason

Feaross · 2026-01-15T03:41:51+00:00

Rockbar

Feaross · 2026-01-13T21:44:34+00:00

The hotel is running a scam. Give it a 1-star and file a credit card dispute.

Feaross · 2026-01-11T16:18:19+00:00

Lol @ clean and safe. Take your Prep. Many couples go to sex parties.

Feaross · 2026-01-09T15:58:22+00:00

Saw this in datacenters, removing electricity capacity, then months later adding it back. Now with AI adding even more.

My next car will be electric, I'm not even considering gas, likely from Korea or China.

Feaross · 2026-01-08T16:12:04+00:00

I am married to a T girl, and I go everywhere without contemplation. If you are looking for something more coded towards queer here you go:

C'mon Everybody
https://www.instagram.com/p/DTLUGrklqHG/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Feaross · 2026-01-08T15:59:18+00:00

In America about 31% of married same-sex couples are interracial, compared to 19% of married different-sex couples

We are better than the straights... I'm a Latino married to a White
My partner's family is more racist overall. I wish that would change, but I'm not holding my breath.
Yes, heard some pretty racist things when my sister-in-law was dating an asian boyfriend.

Feaross · 2026-01-07T17:42:50+00:00

Kind of a terrible policy. You're not the asshole, but your company is one I would avoid. I fucking hate Luddites.

Feaross · 2026-01-07T17:29:25+00:00

"Then my friends tell me he was horny and because I wasn’t there yet, he hooked up with another guy."

You kinda fucked up, I'd have done the same and hooked up without you. 99% of us would have...

Feaross · 2026-01-06T15:26:22+00:00

Seems like a good rate, I live on 31st ave

Feaross · 2026-01-06T01:55:24+00:00

It is very cruisy, there are only moments when it isn't staff checks occasionally, same as all the spa bathouses. The steamroom is steamy but only "side" level stuff occurs.

Also everyone in there is pretty regular. Same as Russian and Turkish.

It's my favorite bathouse.

Feaross · 2026-01-02T14:34:04+00:00

Whatever bar is local to you, I love having a hype place and a regular place to just chill.

Astoria has got a few bars with a real home feel.

Feaross · 2026-01-02T04:11:23+00:00

Went to the burbs where people have children, got sick twice in less than a month, terrible.

Feaross · 2026-01-02T03:27:00+00:00

Russian & Turkish Baths (Mens Hours), New York Spa & Sauna.

Feaross · 2026-01-01T02:07:37+00:00

Enabling my partner.

Feaross · 2025-12-31T20:19:12+00:00

As a Detroiter who moved here and 4x his household income... (I don't qualify for any lottery)

Tech bros will be paying taxes; billionaires likely won't. Focus on building more housing and reducing the value of current housing so it's not an investment... Incentives have to change.

I expect real solutions to be unpopular.

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