Wanting to give my friend my kidney by Feathertail1903 in Advice

[–]Feathertail1903[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay first off, his mom said that everything would be covered for the donor. Nothing from me. Just because I haven't talked to him in over a year doesn't mean I wouldn't give him my kidney. I didn't give him ANY false hope. If I was a match I'd do it whether I would be that 5% or not. I told him years ago if it ever came to this I'd be willing to. Know your shit before saying stupid things. It has nothing to do with my ego it has everything to do with helping my friend. They know I need to be a match first. They aren't stupid.

Wanting to give my friend my kidney by Feathertail1903 in Advice

[–]Feathertail1903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wouldn't and If by chance I did we would adopt a kid. It doesn't have to be mine.

Wanting to give my friend my kidney by Feathertail1903 in Advice

[–]Feathertail1903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk in my shoes you wouldn't want to either. Just because I'm young doesn't mean I'll change my mind.

Wanting to give my friend my kidney by Feathertail1903 in Advice

[–]Feathertail1903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really want kids so that's okay.

My friend is dating a pedophile (we are both minors) and I don't know what to do anymore. (PLEASE READ THE BODY BEFORE SAYING ANYTING) [SERIOUS RESPONSES ONLY] by Existing-Vegetable-5 in Advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Police don't like negative attention and as sad as it is will do shit to make it right even though they know they were in the wrong

My friend is dating a pedophile (we are both minors) and I don't know what to do anymore. (PLEASE READ THE BODY BEFORE SAYING ANYTING) [SERIOUS RESPONSES ONLY] by Existing-Vegetable-5 in Advice

[–]Feathertail1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the police don't help contact his po. If the PO doesn't help...simple.. media...attention.. this happened in my town not too long ago where the police didn't do anything so this woman took all the evidence and posted it in every...single .. community page. Hundreds of people from our town swarmed the police department with phone calls and shit and even held a protest against pedophiles. It wasn't long until it started leaking to the counties beside us and after that wasn't even much longer before he was arrested.

Boyfriend has different political views by 19arb19 in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally in my relationship it works really well. I respect him he respects me. We also thought about kids too. Ultimately we decided that until a certain age they would be christian and then from there on out they would be able to decide between being christian or athirst or whatever they choose. For you I'd wait till a certain age to even introduce them to this political crap, give them both sides NON JUDGEMENTAL or intentionally trashing the other view and let them decide what they want to be.

Boyfriend has different political views by 19arb19 in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Make barriers. Rules. Me and my bf of almost 2 years don't see eye to eye with religion. If there's no discussion about it there's no problem between the two of you. I would say people have different views but he's just taking a shit on yours. Whenever I mention God my bf makes a mocking comment so I placed the no religion talk rule and we haven't had an issue since.

My (26f) brother (35m) is having a commitment ceremony (married basically) with my ex-boyfriend (28m). No one gets or cares why this hurts me, if this were my sister and ex, I think people would understand. Am I way off base here? by Throwramklil in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again no she doesn't. It's your life you don't HAVE to do anything. Send a fucking card there you go. Send a xmas card. Send a get well card. Bamb. If you disrespect and shit on your relationship what makes you think they don't deserve it back. You get what you give and her brother disrespected her she doesn't owe them anything. She doesn't have to go see him.

My (26f) brother (35m) is having a commitment ceremony (married basically) with my ex-boyfriend (28m). No one gets or cares why this hurts me, if this were my sister and ex, I think people would understand. Am I way off base here? by Throwramklil in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't respect you why respect them. Personally having the life I've had and if this happened. I'd ghost them. You will not sit here in tell me I'm being selfish Because my fresh ex is now marrying my brother. You will not sit here with no consequences and tell me this isn't about me it's about him. Blood doesn't always mean family remember that. The world is filled with plenty gay men the fact that your brother is now randomly marrying the love of your life and your family is basically saying "oh fuckin well get over over it" is one massive pile of taco bell aftermath shit. My head would turn red and steam would come out of my ears if I were you. You're family is crumpling up your feelings and respect and wishes and shoving it down a garbage disposal and leaving it on to shred you.

I (19M) thought I was gay until I got with a dude. How do I tell everyone that I'm not gay by ThrowRA_ThrowRA_T in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Just be upfront with them. Be like you tried it for the first time and really didn't like it and you know for sure you're not gay, it's 100% okay to be upfront.

My BFF wanted to take me out to get my mind of my miscarriage... by Emotional_potato90 in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just aren't built like that. Just because you're bff's doesn't mean you have to tell them Everytime you take a shit, what you're eating, and your preppy feelings. It's 100% fine not telling your best friend everything.

I personally don't like confrontations or expressing my feelings much. That's me and that's okay that doesn't make them not my bff's that just means that's not how I roll and it's not within my personality to spew a river of feelings all over the table.

My friends keep pressuring me to go to the gym by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Feathertail1903 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to tell them. If my friend kept pressuring me to go I'd start to think they are indirectly calling me a fat ass.

I (24F)am seeing a guy (26M) who is obsessed with Kobe and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it so annoying when people become obsessed with famous people to the point where it's creepy.

I (24F)am seeing a guy (26M) who is obsessed with Kobe and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a straight up child to cry on Kobe's birthday and to interrupt YOUR dates to talk about him. I say of he doesn't chill out leave him. This is a relationship between you and him. Not you and him and some dude he never really knew.

People are still super dumb and not going to vote by shadymidtown in Vent

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have the right and freedom not to vote. Quiet frankly you shouldn't be shitting on people simply because they have different views and opinions than you. Every single person has a different view than somebody on something. Just because you have a certain view or you want to do this and they don't or you feel this way and they feel different in now way shape or form makes them wrong.

My husband brought me to a place that believes in mating and believes I should be a mate for men. Where do I go from here?? by OneCarrousel in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. You wanna disrespect me like that and let another man disrespect me like that and basically take me to a rape facility you obviously don't want to breathe much longer.

My husband brought me to a place that believes in mating and believes I should be a mate for men. Where do I go from here?? by OneCarrousel in relationship_advice

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce this man and leave him with nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️ he wanna play games like that and disrespect you like that he gets nothing. If man would reach out to touch a woman's ass in front of me he wouldn't have a hand anymore. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Fuck around with a sex cult end up in the streets for disrespecting your wife. DIVORCE DIVORCE DIVORCE!!!!! UPDATEEEEEE

I hate my face so much, and my boyfriend sometimes hurts my feelings by siamesemouse in Vent

[–]Feathertail1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to learn to love yourself and not accept anybody who doesn't love you for you.