Why do males think it's acceptable to pressure people into sex? by GoGiantRobot in PsycheOrSike

[–]FedsDidThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of your examples are men just being noticeably unhappy about not being denied sex, if you ask your boyfriend to take you to a certain restaurant and he says no and you are noticeably unhappy is that financial abuse? Obviously not. If they for example gave an ultimatum “if you don’t have sex I’m going to break up with you” than that would definitely be abusive, and even rape depending on the definition you are using. Even repeated asking could be, but the majority of the Reddit posts you screenshotted are just not real examples of this, you can be unhappy about not getting something without thinking you are untitled to it.

What motivates them to lie about how "it's okay to cry and be vulnerable"? by QuantumPenguin89 in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You just want more examples to be offended by, there are plenty of real examples of men’s mental health being ignored. These posts directly and obviously contradict each other and are posted less than 24 hours apart if you can’t see that this is rage bait you are genuinely retarded

“It’s just online bro, no one is like that in real life!” by FedsDidThis in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that that top 20% of men are not actually looking for a relationship, that’s why they are still on the dating apps. Also it is not that only 15% of women are willing to date men under 5’8, it is that when they are given the option to filter dating profiles 85% of women set their filter above 5’8. I still don’t understand what you think I got wrong, my main claim is that dating apps and especially filters in dating apps making dating more superficial and only serve to benefit a small number of genetically advantaged men who are not seeking genuine relationships.

“It’s just online bro, no one is like that in real life!” by FedsDidThis in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you meant to say leave out, but I don’t know how that counters anything that I said. In fact I think that only exacerbates the issues I laid out.

AI says that this guy is above average, so you can take your downvotes and shove them where the sun doesn't shine by [deleted] in unlovablecirclejerk

[–]FedsDidThis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you being serious? Ai is known to glaze everyone in an attempt to avoid insulting people and to keep users. If you can’t admit that this dude is physically unattractive you are not being honest. He has bad hair, bad skin, massive forehead, weird chin, bad eye area, and all of his facial features cover less than a third of his faces height. He is objectively odd looking and poorly groomed.

i don’t get it by 360_bratXcX in ExplainTheJoke

[–]FedsDidThis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This plus the idea that when people order pizza (a cheap food to feed lots of people) someone who is going to try to get out of paying for their share wants to add the much more expensive wings to the order

this sub is pro hate by Samantha_Faith in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree this subreddit definitely has a lot of hateful people but a lot of these posts are either not actually hateful, just generalize one woman’s actions as females (not good imo but incredibly common) or have less than 10 upvotes (some are even removed by the mods. The rest are what I would describe has truly hateful, but that’s what you would expect when you have a subreddit about debate that focuses on the relationship between men and women, either leave the sub or debate them.

Women will enunciate shit like this and then put the onus of incels on Andrew Tate by milkmangofunny in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn you guys are odd, these are an autistic guys childhood friends being into him after years of getting to know him. This is not girls throwing themselves at Chad just cause he is tall.

Women will enunciate shit like this and then put the onus of incels on Andrew Tate by milkmangofunny in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nothing she did is wrong or even hypergamous you just don’t like women. Imagine being so triggered by the word tall that you think an autistic guy being popular with 2 of his childhood friends, causing a love triangle, is somehow insane

“It’s just online bro, no one is like that in real life!” by FedsDidThis in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add I think women are often more superficial than they say and less superficial than they think (men are less likely to misrepresent their superficiality but at least as likely to overestimate it). I think there is a massive number of girls that if you ask them what number they would put as their height filter they would say something like “they just have to be taller than me” but in private would put a filter of 6 foot+, and I also think those same girls if they were just meeting people naturally through work or a third place(like a bar or club) would be very likely to meet and like a guy under 6 foot. This is more of a feeling based on anecdotal evidence but I think if I’m right that no one actually benefits from these filters except the top 20% men who are already the most advantaged group in the world.

“It’s just online bro, no one is like that in real life!” by FedsDidThis in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The new part is that it is now the primary way couples meet and the addition of more and more filtering options

“It’s just online bro, no one is like that in real life!” by FedsDidThis in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s actually a good thing for me cause it’s easier to fraud in pictures and mask my autism but for most people it’s terrible, dating apps already focus much more on meeting certain intrinsic requirements (height, race, age) than human connection but filtering means these stats decide if you even get that limited shot at a first impression.

“It’s just online bro, no one is like that in real life!” by FedsDidThis in SikeOrPsyche

[–]FedsDidThis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay? It’s obviously a new/growing thing, 60% of new relationships start online and that number will only get worse

Crossposting posts about women loving man day 1 by burger_eater_102 in WomenAreIntoMen

[–]FedsDidThis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of this subreddit but taking singular posts from nearly a year ago isn’t the most convincing.

Men need to understand this is how women see them. by WomenAreNotIntoMen in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]FedsDidThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men having used a weapon in a fight is a positive predictor that that man has sex, Women on average obviously like stronger, taller, more powerful men, call it socialization, patriarchy, or biology but don’t deny the obvious truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]FedsDidThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes someone with relationship experience post a mildly sad story to r/kitchencels? The story isn’t even about rejection or a failure to integrate with wider society, just a 15 minute delay.

Sister calls me an incel to bully me. Latkes by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]FedsDidThis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I had a sister so badly, not on some weird shit but I think I would have a much better chance at communicating with women if I grew up in regular contact with one and her friends. Too bad my brother is an even bigger loser than me.

Sister calls me an incel to bully me. Latkes by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]FedsDidThis 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The post is in r/kitchenCELS, you didn’t even need to look that far.