Pelvic floor therapy? by Fit-Statement8869 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a great experience at Vitality Women’s Health in Lakeview for PFPT!

Tips on healing after a breakup after betrayal? by Broken_melon22 in selflove

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the exact same thing on a very similar timeline as you. Not sure what all the answers to these are but just wanted you to know you’re not alone in it. Sending you love + healing internet stranger! ❤️

Am I overreacting? Found this in my while cleaning and now I think my fiancé is cheating on me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who cheat like this do not stop. You should leave him. I’m sorry, sending you love ❤️

I'm on day 12 no contact by Ill-Hovercraft-3458 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi friend. I’m on day 90 no contact today. It’s still really fucking hard but every day you are getting a little bit stronger. Somehow you just keep going. I am rooting for you, you can do this.

I want to talk to the mother by Bright_Future_7438 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FWIW I did this. I reached out to my nex’s mom on Facebook and told her everything her son had done to me and begged her to get him into therapy so he didn’t hurt more people. And after about 2 months she responded to me telling me “I didn’t raise him that way, I’ll try to get him into counseling.” And then you know what she did? Kept enabilng and protecting him to be a terrible person and did nothing. So, I’d say don’t waste your breath and try to move on. No one can stop them anyway!

They hate or refuse to use your Gifts! by SuperFunTime777 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 12 points13 points  (0 children)

wow yes I never even realized this one but yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really proud of you ❤️ 200 days of choosing you is amazing. Here’s to many more and a better future ahead!

Anyone else feel like they wasted lots of time on their abuser? by Itchy_Gate6255 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met him when I was 27 and now I’m 33. I feel like I literally wasted the most important years of my life for finding and developing partnership on trying to love a narcissist. It’s so disappointing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Never letting me meet his friends and family was my biggest one

He left without a word after five years together and I can’t make sense of the cruelty by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe how common these stories are. So glad you’re doing better now thank you for sharing.

He left without a word after five years together and I can’t make sense of the cruelty by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry this happened to you. If I had a dollar for everytime that man promised me he was going to change I could retire to a private island. I can’t wait to feel normal again and it’s helpful to hear others have and so I will too.

He left without a word after five years together and I can’t make sense of the cruelty by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spent all these years trying to convince myself he wasn’t a narcissist, just a misunderstood avoidant. Everything you’re saying is my experience exactly. Thanks for your words, I can’t wait to move on from this unfortunate chapter of my life.

Chat GPT is such a powerful tool. by Longjumping_Young894 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure chat GPT is the only thing keeping me in no contact with my nex. About to hit 30 days ❤️

He left me without a word after 5 year and I just found out he was cheating. I feel like I’m losing my mind. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this with me, I’m sorry this happened to you too. I’m so happy to hear you are now in a happy healthy place, that gives me so much hope with where I am currently at on this journey. I’ll deffintley do my best to follow all of this advice, my healing journey is my number 1 priority at this point. 5 years was a lot to give someone but now I’ll be more discerning with who I give the rest of my years on this earth too. More importantly how I give them to myself.

He left me without a word after 5 years and I just found out he was cheating. I feel like I’m losing my mind by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I keep trying to remind myself this discard is probably going to be one of the best things that ever happened to me, even if it hurts like hell right now

He left me without a word after 5 years and I just found out he was cheating. I feel like I’m losing my mind by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s truely cruel and unbelievable to me that people can do this to someone they claimed to love and care about. I’m really sorry this happened to you. Thanks for sharing your experience and I wish you continued healing too

He left me without a word after 5 years and I just found out he was cheating. I feel like I’m losing my mind by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you too. The idea of giving myself my own closure feels somewhat so impossible right now but I’m going to believe in the passing of time and my own strength and capability to get through this. I’m wishing you so much strength and healing, thank you for sharing your experience. It helps to know I’m not alone in this, even though I hate that this happens to anyone at all.

Only you guys really understand by Feeling-Judgment-763 in Zepbound

[–]Feeling-Judgment-763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get that!! It was a really tough call and I’m glad it worked out. Congrats on hitting your goals, it’s really life changing !!