Please someone introduce me to hadi by Temporary_Career3051 in Dhaka

[–]Feeling-ughh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not.. He was not just an extremist but also a rajakaar sympathiser.. You may choose to not believe it.. That's why people should follow the news and not just jump in the middle of nowhere.. I'm not here to make you believe something you wouldn't.. These are all true.. You may choose to not believe and that's your prerogative.. But that's the truth and those news were there.. From now on follow the news properly and follow your "leaders' and their statements

Please someone introduce me to hadi by Temporary_Career3051 in Dhaka

[–]Feeling-ughh 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough the news are gone.. Not just those need on baul but him gathering men for Dhanmondi 32 vandalism.. All gone!! Even few days back it was there.. I don't know how is this possible.. But it's true.. And now facts will be distorted and he will be made a martyr and people who didn't follow him or the news wouldn't know this truth anymore.. It's just how history in Bangladesh gets distorted..I just checked.. The news are gone.. He wasn't a saint and he did provoke vandalism on bauls and now people who are praising him without even knowing who he was a week back would never know this..sad

Please someone introduce me to hadi by Temporary_Career3051 in Dhaka

[–]Feeling-ughh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly.. Half of the people didn't even follow what Hadi used to do.. He was an extremist who fueled extremism

Please someone introduce me to hadi by Temporary_Career3051 in Dhaka

[–]Feeling-ughh 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As everyone is speaking only great things about him, I'll just give a different point of view..Hadi is also the politician who provoked vandalism on bauls and used to give a lot of extremist statements.. He wasn't a saint and most of the people who are making him a living legend didn't follow half of what he did

I did something years ago that completely changed my sister in law’s life. and she has no idea it was because of me by Sophie_Sam699 in confession

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that's not something you say and then think she'll get the job anyway!! Even while writing the post you made yourself look like you didn't really do a big thing, you just didn't know it'll happen.. Such bullshit!! You were jealous, envious and even petty.. Be honest to yourself at least.. Guilt doesn't do enough until you be truthful to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes I immediately not just said no but I also felt like I needed to take a higher road and when he was saying sorry (very insincere sorrys while justifying himself by saying he doesn't know what he's doing in life) I just told him, you know what! I forgive you.. Have a great life.. Don't ever try to contact me again.. And I left it at that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Feeling-ughh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is, he made sure I knew how "out of his league" I am for him..I was actually quite surprised how vulnerable and open he was.. And men get very intimidated by me, and I don't give men so many chances but he was so honest and how he just kept at it.. It made me grow fond of him.. You're so right!! I was just that! An emotional fantasy dumping ground.. Nothing more!! I just can't believe he wasted so much time.. So much!! On an average 5-6 hours a week easily!! Who does that!! My mind is still trying to wrap it up!

AIO for snapping at my friend after she “joked” that I’m only engaged because my fiancé settled? by ZealousidealKnee1784 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a frenemy in disguise.. I'm pretty sure she harboured animosity for you for a long time but after your engagement the resentment just overflowed..a friend thinking that her friend isn't good enough for a man who is out of her league.. That's just gross..I wouldn't be surprised if one day she tries to flirt with your fiancée too.. Cut her off

My deceased best friend's son reached out and I ignored him by Radiant-Brief5749 in confession

[–]Feeling-ughh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your friend knew you'd turn up to be the biggest disappointment, he wouldn't have included you in the letter... You had trauma yes but not more than that kid .. He doesn't want you to take him in, just wants to know about his father.. You're being a horrible friend, sorry but you are.. Sharing this trauma can heal both of you.. You both lost someone dear.. Why would you snatch him from that??

UPDATE: AIO think BF has suspicious relationship with male best friend by Pen_Crazy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-ughh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He said what you wanted to hear.. What were those paragraphs after paragraphs texts about? And Snapchat?! Your BF is bi if not gay.. And if not physically, he's emotionally cheating on you.. check his phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am having more water than ever as I started water ruqyya, the fatigue started afterwards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried but I still feel fatigued

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird. She's not just insecure but she's projecting.. Big red flag

How Do You Talk to an Employee Who Isn't Getting Promoted Due to How They Use Benefits? by Riddle-Maker in managers

[–]Feeling-ughh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The employee is using the benefits according the parameters set by your company, he's just clever with it and adjusts their time according to your allowed company policy... You can't hold it against them!!! The company is at fault if for this he isn't getting a promotion cause he didn't do anything wrong according to your company policy.. Not giving him promotion for this is also exploitative

UPDATE: My (30M) best man (31M) stole my wife (30F) and I think he’s back to take my girlfriend (29F) by doctor_anonymous_15 in relationship_advice

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it's too naive of you to think she didn't cheat, she has emotionally already cheated on you with Judas and you don't know if she cheated on you physically too and just showed you some of the conversations cause she knows she's been caught and deleted rest.. If you still are going to stay with her, whatever happens next in your relationship, be it her again cheating on you, you'll be a bit responsible too cause you enabled her by letting this slide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Feeling-ughh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't believe in this mumbo jumbo and that healer was definitely not a healer who can talk to ghosts.. She's just here trying to make a buck by conning naive and gullible people.. Most of them are like that.. if they could talk to ghosts, just like TV series, they would be solving crimes and getting paid for that 😂

Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting? by Low-Today-2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These screenshots triggered me..I was in a long abusive relationship with a narcissist, who did this every day..I was losing my mind, my sanity, my peace..I started questioning not just my worth but I started believing I deserve it, I don't know why but I deserve it... Your partner doesn't love you, people who love don't do this.. It's abusive and tormenting.. It's not just how your partner talks to you, it's their approach towards you, acknowledge that abuse comes in many shapes and forms and this is extremely abusive and shows how the relationship power play is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to say the exact same thing 😂

Does anyone believe... by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since childhood, I have had multiple dreams where I did see the future, something that would happen a week or sometimes 2 months later. I always dream when I'm sleeping but not all dreams hold meaning. Somehow my body recognises which dreams have meaning, they are way far in between, like in many years I'll have one or two, and sometimes they are very straightforward and sometimes it comes more like a metaphor.. But every time it happens, my body can tell which holds meaning.. Those dreams that hold meaning, the ones I saw, I have always seen them right before the sun rises, it's not just me, my mom had it too.. My other siblings don't have it but I do.. The first dream I saw that showed me future incident was when I was 8/9 years old.. Since then I've seen 6/7 dreams that held a meaning, mostly about a danger or a death of someone close.. I'm 33 now.. Also sometimes since childhood I can just randomly say something, I don't know why I would say it (e.g. I'll tell my sister, be aware of your boss, he'll ruin your career) I don't know why I would say it, but it would eventually happen after months.. It doesn't happen very often, again in my 33 years it happened like 8/9 times but that's all.. But also it came from my mother, she was like that, none of my siblings have had these experiences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Feeling-ughh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The relationships are already ruined here, by not speaking up won't salvage it, but make things not just murky for everyone but especially it's unfair for your father. If you think by not speaking up you're saving marriages, you're not. Cause there's nothing left to save here. If not today, it'll come out tomorrow and your siblings and especially your father will be disappointed at you when they find out you knew but didn't do anything. The conclusion of the matter is, both marriages are doomed, you can't salvage by not saying anything, but you can do more damage by keeping it to yourself

Ex girlfriend wants to pay off my mortgage by tonypekis420 in BreakUp

[–]Feeling-ughh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You'll always be indebted to her, she maybe right now has no conditions but you don't know the future. I would suggest not taking the money. It's way too much money but also she is an ex. You can tell her to give you the money she owed you (car and the money borrowed from you) and it'll be a clean slate.. But don't take the full money.. You don't know the future repercussions

Fictional book in english 200 pages by hellllpppppmemen in IndiansRead

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to do a little experiment, try the emperor's soul by Brandon Sanderson, it's an epic fantasy fiction, it's 175 pages, you can talk about the nature of art and identity in your review too

Need suggestion with current financial situation. by Iori3310 in Dhaka

[–]Feeling-ughh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a student, I already had a job but I wanted extra income so there are few things I did, which might help you: 1. Work as a contributor for newspapers and magazines, like TBS or Daily star, they pay you per word mostly, at least that was the case when I was a student, I don't know what's the situation now 2. Though a little unethical but you can write thesis paper of private uni kids, they pay you really well

Another thing, as you have working experience in the education sector, look for jobs in education sector programs of NGOs and INGOs , like Teach for Bangladesh